... abbreviations ...

Father

And

Mother

I

Love

You

Washing

Ironing

Food

Entertainment

Housing

Understanding

Sharing

Buying

And

Never

Demanding

How are you?

Everything all right?

Like to hear from you

Love to see you soon!

Obviously, i miss you..

so hello! good day!

... weddings are made of these ...

I was at a friend's wedding dinner earlier.. one of the usual dinners that could have been..

Have you ever wondered how to make a wedding memorable?? a while ago, i did a project on a wedding planner (sadly, the results are not out yet).. i was wondering in real life if we could throw in whatever that we have planned in our project, what a 'memorable' wedding would that be? haha..

Well, after attended so many wedding dinners & lunch (yes, this is without a 's' as there is only 1 so far..) i find that it's really not easy to plan one's ultimate meaningful, unforgettable, memorable, wedding of the lifetime…

I always had lots of thoughts （感觸）after I attended the wedding dinner.

Kind of feel relaxed for the bride and groom after a long day.. they must have went through tons of stuffs that is needed to be accomplished in a day…

Why they choose to have dinner/lunch here? wow, this wedding gown is nice, wonder where they got it from?? ohh, the wedding photos are just what i wanted.. how much is the pakage? must be expensive man.. etc.

In this century, some couples have do away with some customs and keep some that they want… like the 敬茶 to the elderly… I noticed this is one that is passed down till today…

Blah blah blah, the list goes on…

However, I have heard of weddings that is real simple too.. just a “I now pronounced you husband and wife” – a ‘registered’ ceremony at ROM and that’s it..

Sometimes, I really wondered if the bride really let this matter rest in this manner?? No wedding gown to wear, no photo taking, no discussion on which restaurant/hotel to hold dinner/lunch, etc.? Just like that?? Registered your marriage will do?

Hey, I’m not siding the brides but the least the groom could do is to have something ‘meaningful’ yet touches the heart in exchange, isn’t it??

C’mon, I’m not going to give you any ideas.. I shall leave this huge responsibility to yourself to figure out..

Well, if you asked me what will mine be... well, it will be a simple ROM day… no dinner/lunch thingy… BUT, it will be followed by honeymoon of at least 2 weeks (best is 1 month) to whatever (I haven’t really thought where yet) to complete the whole thing.. I’m greedy isn’t it?? Haha…

*I’m not even attached so my wedding may not even happen.. haha..*

... 也許 ...

也許，我還忘不了你的好、那段好長的感情。對你的付出與我的背叛還耿耿於懷。我嘗試補償或挽救但都已經徒然了。因爲我一直在乎的事竟然又離我而去。

也許，朋友說中了∶ 由始至終，我根本沒愛過；因爲還沒遇到。但我拒絕相信。曾經以爲你會是陪在我身邊的最後一個人。有你；我不需要浪漫也不奢求華麗的寵愛。

也許，我傷害了你。使你曾付出的一切都完完全全白費了。你的以爲促使放縱我的空虛。曾給你我能負擔的卻只換來冷漠的無動於衷。

也許，你是個享受者；為你的付出喝彩。難道就不能換個角色來感受嗎？只要一次就好。

也許，真相就擺在眼前，但往往我們就是無法看見。

也許，我的世界你不曾在乎。你的話語還浮現在我腦海裏；你說的我都記得，那我說的你是否沒忘記？是敷衍我還是真心話？我已經分不清楚了。

有些時候我真的很恨自己。不是該學會“拿得起，放得下”嗎？但我發現有些事我卻無法做到。

... sydney murder case ... all over again?? ...

I was reading the news this morning.. came across the news about the re-trial of the Sydney murder case.

Found out that the Australia Government (Court of Appeal) will be looking for a 're-cap' of the murder case again.. i.e. a re-trial for Ram Puneet Tiwary.

Oh my god!! 5 yrs after everyone thought the case had ended, but not anymore.. i start to 'fear' that Ram would be free.. (which my whole family dun understand why am i afraid?? that includes myself too.. but that was seriously the initial reaction when reading the news..)

Are there really loop holes in the case?? the papers mentioned that nobody could prove Ram was the one that killed.. i.e. no eye witness nor any noise..

Asked my dad about uncle tay (yes, we knew one of the victim's family) how he felt after a few days.. well, dad said that he was calm but felt a bit shocked that the case is brought up again.. but nobody could do anything .. it's the choice of the victims' family whether to go australia for the hearing. i knew the tan family are not going..

I'm loss for words.. just hope things won't turned out to be what i thought.. murderer can't go free after killing 2 people right??

See Full Report: Straits Times 18 Dec 08

(Source: http://news.asiaone.com/News/the%2BStraits%2BTimes/Story/A1Story20081218-108626.html)

... 觉悟、领悟 ...

人，往往因爲某些人與事而做些意想不到的犧牲；忽略了身旁関心他們的朋友和家人。以爲，不讓身邊關心的人知道就無所謂。結果，事實偏偏就不會站在理所當然的一邊。

辜負了関心的人、把這辜負便宜了不該分享這成果的人。

也許你會恨自己 ~ 氣啊氣！哭一場是希望能補償做錯事所闖的禍嗎？能夠嗎？真的行嗎？就好像天使與魔鬼的鬥爭。。

到現在才覺悟當初的教訓是真實、刻苦銘心的。是否是太遲了？

想想吧，朋友！

... touchig love story ...

他，忙于工作，每天早出晚归。

她，结婚后就辞去工作，每天呆在家里。

他，拼命工作，努力赚钱，为的是两人可以有个更好的未来。

她，辞去工作，全职顾家，为的是守护两人幸福的现在。

他很爱她，她很爱他。

他很老实，她对他在外面工作很放心，绝对信任他。

她很独立，他对她照顾自己很有信心，绝对放心她。

每天夜里，当他夜归时，煲里还有温着地炖汤。

每天早上，当他起床时，桌上都有温暖的咖啡。

这样的日子，从结婚后开始，持续了三年。

她从不过问他的工作，只是知道他在越升越高，日子渐渐富裕起来。

他从不过问她的家事，只是知道家里井井有条，家庭依旧和谐幸福。

他不喜欢电脑，每天工作就对着电脑N小时了，回家决不碰电脑。

她不喜欢电脑，每天却在独处的时候对着电脑N小时，非常忙碌。

直到有一天，他接到一通电话。

"请问是陈先生吗？你的太太晕倒被送入院，她的子宫癌已经是末期了，请你来见他最后一面。"

晴天霹雳，他赶到医院，看着她悲痛欲绝的问她为什么不告诉他。

她看着他，对着他微笑，告诉他她爱他然后微笑着永远闭上眼睛。

他失去了生活中心，他失去了人生方向，他失去了他爱的她。

他后悔，他懊恼，他怨恨他自己，为什么没花多一点时间陪她，去了解她。

妻子出殡后，他独自回到空无一人的家里，厨房里不再有炖汤。

他坐在客厅里发呆，想哭却哭不出来。

这时，他看到了客厅里的电脑，他想看看照片，这些他仅剩和她美丽的回忆。

第一次开启家里的电脑，看到桌面上有个叫《老公，是我》的文件夹，里面有1095个录影片段。

电脑荧幕上出现了一张熟悉的脸孔~

扬声器传来熟悉的声音~

他的眼泪，终于决堤而出。

“老公，是我啦~~从今天开始由我陪伴你过吧~~不过你要答应我，一天只能看一个哦~~我们终于结婚了，你知道吗？能嫁给你是我一生最大的幸福，我会把每天发生的事情记录在一段录影日记里，几年后的结婚纪念日拿给你看，一定很有趣的~................”

影片接下来就是她絮絮不休的说着一些生活上的琐事和他们之间的事情，他看了看影片日期，结婚的那一天~

第一次，他违背了深爱的她的意愿，一个又一个的影片看了下去~

“老公，你很忙碌，要好好照顾身体哦.........”

“老公，今天难得你陪我去购物，我好开心哦.........”

“老公，一周年纪念日了，谢谢你的礼物，对不起还没能给你生个孩子，我们再努力吧......”

“老公，我身体很不舒服，不懂为什么常常会肚子痛，明天我自己去看医生好了......”

“老公，医生说我患上了子宫癌，建议我切除，你说他是不是傻的，我还想要孩子呐.......”

“老公，我有乖乖做治疗的，药都有吃，不过我不要做化疗，剃了头就不美了，你一定会笑我的.......”

“老公，医生又叫我切除子宫了，他说不然就太迟了，我痛骂了他一顿，这家伙不知好歹，总是要破坏我们的计划.......”

“老公，我看我应该不怎么行了，请原谅我不告诉你，因为我想你永远记住我美好的一面，这些事情我自己来就好了.......”

“老公，我们结婚都已经三年了，我想我是撑不住了，我不在后，你要好好生活，炖汤的食谱都在电脑里，咖啡的冲泡方法也在里面，一切都为你准备好了，你要好好学着照顾自己。”

“老公，如果你一天看一个录影，现在已经三年了，你应该习惯了没有我的生活吧？是时候把我收在回忆里自己走出来了，你的人生还很漫长，找个爱你和你爱的人继续生活吧。”

“老公，应该是这几天了，我知道时间到了。不过我猜想你应该不会那么老实一天看一个影片吧，看到这里你也累坏了啦，我也很累了，是时候离开了。记得，好好继续生活啊。你还记得吗？你说过你会爱我一辈子的，我也回答你我会用我的一辈子去爱你。现在我们的诺言都实现了，我要离开了，我的确用了我的一辈子去爱你。你也别难过了，你已经爱了我一辈子了，这样的我们，很幸福不是吗？.......最后一次了，老公，对不起，我爱你.....”

看完了1095个影片，他不知道已经过了多久，泪水流了又干，干了又流。

打开窗帘，温暖的阳光照了进来，他对着晴朗的天空，轻轻说了句~

“老婆，对不起，我爱你~”

... mobile number ...

Would you like to know if your mobile is original or not ?????

Press the following on your mobile *#06# and the-international mobile equipment identity number appears. Then check the 7th and 8th numbers:

x x x x x x ? ? x x x x x x x

IF the Seventh & Eighth digits are 02 or 20 this means your cell phone was assembled in China which is low quality

IF the Seventh & Eighth digits are 08 or 80 this means your cell phone was manufactured in Germany which is fair quality

IF the Seventh & Eighth digits are 01 or 10 this means your cell phone was manufactured in Finland which is very Good

IF the Seventh & Eighth digits are 00 this means your cell phone was manufactured in original factory which is the best Mobile Quality

IF the Seventh & Eighth digits are 13 this means your cell phone was assembled in Azerbaijan which is very Bad quality and also dangerous for your health

... 媽媽vs婆婆 & 女兒vs媳婦 ...

1. 媳婦不想煮飯是懶惰，女兒偶而才煮個一餐就是貼心。
2. 媳婦買的東西很難吃，女兒買的全部都'喔伊細'。
3. 媳婦出門旅遊是浪費錢，女兒出門旅遊是放輕鬆。
4. 媳婦沒事不要常回娘家，女兒沒事也要常回來娘家才行。
5. 媳婦說經濟差回的話是:[活該妳不知節約！]，女兒說經濟差回的話是：「女婿的能力太差。」
6. 媳婦上班回來家事要包辦，女兒上班回來等吃補品。
7. 媳婦回嘴是大逆不道，女兒回嘴是正義秉然。
8. 媳婦不會做的事要學著做!，女兒不會做的事就不用做。
9. 媳婦去玩沒帶老的是不孝，女兒去完只帶紀念品回來就好乖。
10. 媳婦買的用品怎麼用都不順手，女兒買的用品怎麼用都好用。
11. 媳婦賺的錢是夫家所共有，要幫忙擔家計. 女兒賺的錢都該是個人私人所得.夫家不得過問。 當然囉:兒子的薪水不該交給媳婦處理，女婿的薪水最好是全部都交給女兒任意使用.
12. 媳婦的孩子不乖是媽媽沒教好，女兒的孩子不乖是是孫子調皮惹媽媽生氣。
13. 媳婦的老公'惜某'是某奴，女兒的老公'惜某'是大丈夫。
14. 媳婦出嫁最好跟娘家撇乾淨一點，女兒出嫁切不可忘了生身父母。如果妳碰到好的婆婆&媳婦，要懂得珍惜喔這是人的自私媳婦跟女兒.就是這麼不同..其實~並不是每個婆婆&媽媽，媳婦&女兒都這樣!!如果你碰到一位好婆婆&好媳婦~記得要珍惜喔!

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'媽媽&婆婆的差別':

1. 頂媽媽的嘴，媽媽一下子就忘了；頂婆婆的嘴，一輩子牢記在心。
2. 媽媽切水果給妳吃，順其自然.；妳切水果給婆婆吃，理所當然 。
3. 肚子餓了，媽媽煮三餐給妳吃，很自然；婆婆煮三餐給妳吃，很不孝。
4. 吃飯時間，忘了叫媽媽吃飯，沒事；忘了叫婆婆吃飯，沒禮貌 。
5. 媽媽在忙，妳沒幫忙，沒怎樣；婆婆在忙，妳沒幫忙皮在癢。
6. 在媽家，出門辦事.，不必趕回家，只等吃飯；在婆家，出門辦事，趕回家...煮飯。
7. 媽媽訓話，左耳進右耳出；婆婆訓話，心理不以為然也要回答…是..是..
8. 出外旅遊沒帶媽媽，沒人說妳不孝；但沒帶婆婆，可有人說妳不孝了。
9. 可以在媽媽面前說妳先生的不是，但千萬別在妳婆婆面前抱怨妳先生的不對。
10. 在媽媽面前，偷懶心安理得；在婆婆面前，這個'懶'字說不得，更別說付諸行動。
11. 在家，有好吃好喝的，媽媽捨不得吃，留給妳；但在婆家，是妳要留給別人(順序是：公婆，老公，孩子，有剩才輪到妳)
12. 妳的悲，妳的喜，媽媽很在乎，但婆婆…這個就很難評估..。
13. 在媽媽面前跺腳，是撒嬌；在婆婆面前跺腳，是大逆不道。

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以下是位不署名的網友看了上面2篇文章後有感而發寫的:

'婆婆對待女兒和媳婦的差別'：

1. 女兒婚後住娘家，天經地義。媳婦婚後住娘家，天翻地覆。
2. 女兒婚後生不生？她高興就好。媳婦婚後一定要生，且要生男生。
3. 女兒躲在房間，喔~她在忙。媳婦躲在房間，切~沒家教。
4. 女兒ㄚ！女人不要進廚房。兒子ㄚ！要娶個會進廚房的女人。
5. 女兒出嫁(附近)一定要有禮車迎娶。娶媳婦(附近)用走的過來就好。
6. 女婿ㄚ！不能讓我女兒騎車喔！ 媳婦ㄚ！妳要自己騎車啦！
7. 女兒ㄚ！女人要對自己好，想買什麼就去買。媳婦ㄚ！不要亂花錢。
8. 女兒工作辛苦，老娘要幫她煮飯洗衣。媳婦工作輕鬆，家事給她全包了。
9. 過年過節女兒可以不回夫家拜拜。但要求媳婦一定要回來拜拜。
10. 女兒住院心疼憂心，每天「雞湯」伺候。媳婦住院連根「雞毛」都沒有。

... he said, she said ...

He said to me... I don't know why you wear a bra; you've got nothing to put in it.

She said to him... You wear pants don't you?

He said to me... Shall we try swapping positions tonight?

She said... That's a good idea - you stand by the ironing board while I sit on the sofa and fart!

He said to me... What have you been doing with all the grocery money I gave you?

She said to him... Turn sideways and look in the mirror!

He said to me... Why don't women blink during foreplay?

She said to him... They don't have time.

He said to me... How many men does it take to change a roll of toilet paper?

She said to him... We don't know; it has never happened.

He said to me... Why is it difficult to find men who are sensitive, caring and Good-looking?

She said to him... They already have boyfriends.

He said... What do you call a woman who knows where her husband is every night?

She said... A widow.

He said to me... Why are married women heavier than single women?

She said to him... Single women come home, see what's in the fridge and go to bed. Married women come home, see what's in bed and go to the fridge.

... how to know "MADE IN CHINA "!! ...

FYI... Product barcodes reveal the country of manufacture.

The whole world is scared of China made 'black hearted goods'.

Can you differentiate which one is made in Taiwan or China ?

The first 3 digits of barcode 690.691.692 is made in CHINA.

Do not ever buy it for your own healthy.

471 is Made in Taiwan

This is a human's right to know, but the government and related department never educate the public, therefore we have to Rescue ourselves.

Remember.

Nowadays, China businessmen know the consumers do not prefer products 'made in china', so they won't show made from which country.

However, you may now refer to the barcode,

if the first 3 digits is 690-692 then it is made in China.

SG products start with 888...

China-made will be 690, 691 and 692.. etc.

471 is Made in Taiwan

... husaband & wife ...

Wife : 'What are you doing?'

Husband : Nothing.

Wife : 'Nothing...? You've been reading our marriage certificate for an hour.'

Husband : 'I was looking for the expiry date.'

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Wife : 'Do you want dinner?'

Husband : 'Sure! What are my choices?'

Wife : 'Yes or no.'

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Wife : 'You always carry my photo in your wallet. Why?'

Hubby : 'When there is a problem, no matter how impossible, I look at your picture and the problem disappears.'

Wife : 'You see how miraculous and powerful I am for you!'

Hubby : 'Yes! I see your picture and ask myself what other problem can there be greater than this one?'

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Girl: 'When we get married, I want to share all your worries, troubles and lighten your burden.'

Boy: 'It's very kind of you, darling, but I don't have any worries or troubles.'

Girl: 'Well that's because we aren't married yet.'

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Son : 'Mom, when I was on the bus with Dad this morning, he told me to give up my seat to a lady.'

Mom : 'Well, you have done the right thing.'

Son : 'But mom, I was sitting on daddy's lap.'

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A newly married man asked his wife, 'Would you have married me if my father hadn't left me a fortune?'

'Honey,' the woman replied sweetly, 'I'd have married you,

NO MATTER WHO LEFT YOU A FORTUNE!'

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Girl to her boyfriend: One kiss and I'll be yours forever .

The guy replies : 'Thanks for the early warning.'

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A wife asked her husband: 'What do you like most in me, my pretty face or my sexy body?'

He looked at her from head to toe and replied: 'I like your sense of humor.'

.. best X jokes for guys ...

1. When I was born, I was given a choice - A big dick or a good memory. I don't remember, what I chose.
2. A birth certificate is an apology letter from the condom factory.
3. A wife is a sex object. Every time you ask for sex, she objects.
4. Impotence: Nature's way of saying 'No hard feelings...'
5. There are only two four letter words that are offensive to men -'don't' and 'stop', unless they are used together.
6. Panties: Not the best thing on earth, but next to best thing on earth.
7. There are three stages of sex in a man's life: Tri Weekly, Try Weekly, and Try Weakly.
8. Virginity can be cured.
9. Virginity is not dignity, it's lack of opportunity.
10. Having sex is like playing bridge. If you don't have a good partner, you'd better have a good hand.
11. I tried phone sex once, but the holes in the dialer were too small.
12. Marriage is the only war where you get to sleep with the enemy.
13. Q: What's an Australian kiss? A: The same thing as a French kiss, only down under.
14. A couple just married were happy with the whole thing. He was happy with the hole and she was happy with the thing.
15. Q: What are the three biggest tragedies in a mans life? A: Life sucks, job sucks, and the wife doesn't.
16. Q: Why do men find it difficult to make eye contact? A: Breasts don't have eyes.
17. Despite the old saying, 'Don't take your troubles to bed', many men still sleep with their wives.

.. do not pump full tank of petrol ...

Many of us are not aware that the petrol kiosk pump has a return pipe-line (in Pink). When the petrol tank (in the car) reaches full level, there is a mechanism to trigger off the pump latch and at the same time a return-valve is opened (at the top of the pump station) to allow excess petrol to flow back into the sump. But the return petrol has already pass through the meter, meaning you are donating the petrol back to SHELL/CALTEX/MOBIL/ESSO

... why drink coconut water? ...

CocoWater is naturally:

> Low in Carbs

> 99% Fat Free

> Low in sugars

Coconut Water contains organic compounds possessing healthy growth promoting properties that have been known to help:

• Keep the body cool and at the proper temperature
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... Y generation ...

Perfect explanation for generation Y.

Hmm, I've always wondered this myself.

Now I know.

- The Silent generation, people born before 1946.

- The Baby Boomers, people born between 1946 and 1964.

- Generation X, people born between 1965 and 1979.

- Generation Y, people born between 1980 and 1995.

Why do we call the last one generation Y?

I did not know, but a caricaturist explains it eloquently below.

... ah beng ...

AH BENG the Crazy Singaporean.

Why did Ah Beng go to a movie with his 18 friends? Because below 18 not allowed !

Ah Beng wants to buy a TV set. He goes to a shop.

Ah Beng: 'Do you have color TV ?'

Salesgirl: 'Yes !'

Ah Beng: 'Give me a green one, please '

Ah Beng is filling up an application form for a job.

He supplied the information for the columns on Name, Age, Address etc.

Then he comes to column on 'Salary Expected', but he is not sure of the question.

After much thought, he writes 'Yes'

Ah Beng goes to a store and sees a shiny object.

Ah Beng: 'What is that shiny object?'

Salesgirl: 'That is a thermos flask.'

Ah Beng: 'What does it do?'

Salesgirl: 'It keeps hot things hot and cold things cold.'

Ah Beng: 'I'll buy it'

The next day, Ah Beng goes to work with his thermo flask.

Boss: 'What is that shiny object?'

Ah Beng: 'It's a thermos flask.'

Boss: 'What does it do?'

Ah Beng: 'It keeps hot things hot and cold things cold.'

Boss: 'What do you have in it!?'

Ah Beng: 'Two cups of coffee and one cup of ice cream.'

After taking photocopies of documents, Ah Beng always compares it with the original for spelling mistakes.

Ah Beng always smiles during lightning storms because he thinks his picture is being taken.

Why can't Ah Beng dial 911?

Because he can't find the number 11 (eleven) on the phone.

Ah Beng had just bought a new computer and was using it.

When he encountered some problems.

He decide to use the 'Help' command after some tries.

Soon after, he became very irritated and called the computer retailer for support.

Ah Beng: 'I press the 'F1' key for help lah, but it's been over half an hour and still nobody come and help me ah?!'

Ah Beng with two red ears went to his doctor.

The doctor asked him what had happened to his ears and he answered,

'I was ironing a shirt and the phone ring, lah - but instead of picking up the phone, I accidentally picked up the iron and stuck it to my ear, lah.'

'Oh dear!' the doctor exclaimed in disbelief. 'But..what happened to the other ear?'

Ah Beng answered: 'That stupid dumbo called back, lah!!!!'

Ah Beng talk to a long-distance telephone operator.

Ah Beng: 'COULD YOU PLEASE TELL ME THE TIME DIFFERENCE BETWEEN Taipei AND LAS VEGAS ?'

Operator: 'JUST A MINUTE...'

Ah Beng: 'THANK YOU, lah.' AND PUTS DOWN THE PHONE.

After completing a jigsaw puzzle he'd been working on for quite some time, Ah Beng proudly shows off the finished puzzle to a friend.

'It took me ONLY 5 MONTHS TO DO IT', Ah Beng brags.

'FIVE MONTHS? THAT'S TOO LONG', the friend exclaims.

'YOU ARE A FOOL.' Ah Beng replies, 'SEE THIS BOX, IT IS WRITTEN FOR 4-7 YRS'.

At a bar in New York , the man to Ah Beng's left tells the bartender, 'JOHNNIE WALKER, SINGLE'

and his companion says, 'JACK DANIELS, SINGLE'.

The bartender approaches Ah Beng and asks, 'AND YOU, SIR?'

Ah Beng replies: 'Tan Ah Beng, MARRIED ar'

... 早上起床時,男人與女人的差別 ...

... do not use pad more than 3 hours!! ...

Use pad for more than 3 hours can cause cervical cancer & bacteria infection.

FOR THOSE OF US WHO USE SANITARY NAPKINS/PADS:

If u ever wondered what were the ingredients that made popular brands so 'free! and light and carefree', well here's the bit:

The material that makes the pad so paper THIN, is cellulose gel. Yeap, it's not even cotton!!!!!!

DO NOT wear the same pad for more than 3 hours of a maximum!!! After this duration, the genital area is prone to bacterial action and may result in cervical cancer or other complications!!!!!!!!!!

REMEMBER! NEVER NEVER NEVER WEAR THE SAME PAD FOR MORE THAN 3 HOURS!!!!

So yes, please pass on this message to as many women as possible and save lives!!!!!!!!!!

If you are a woman and use pads, but especially if you use tampons, read this and pass it on to your friends. For the men receiving this email, please forward it to your friends, significant others, wife, sisters, mothers,daughters, etc.) Thanks!

Check the labels of the sanitary pads or tampons that you are going to buy the next time and see whether you spot any of the familiar signs stated in this email.

No wonder so many women in the world suffer from cervical cancer and womb tumors. Have you heard that tampon makers include asbestos in tampons? Why would they do this?

Because asbestos makes you bleed more, if you bleed more, you're going to need to use more. Why isn't this against the law since asbestos is sodangerous? Because the powers that be, in all their wisdom (not), did not consider tampons as being ingested, and, therefore, didn't considerthem illegal or dangerous.

This month's Essence magazine has small article about this and they mention two manufacturers of a cotton tampon alternative. The companies are: Organic Essentials @ 1-(800) 765-6491 and Terra Femme @ 1-(800)755-0212 .

A woman getting her Ph.D. at University of Colorado at Boulder sent the following: 'I am writing this because women are not being informed about the dangers of something most of us use: tampons. I am taking a class this month and I have been learning a lot about biology and women, including much about feminine hygiene. Recently we have learned that tampons are actually dangerous (for other reasons than TSS). I'll tell you this - after learning about this in our class, most of the females wound up feeling angry and upset with the tampon industry, and I for one, am going to do something about it. To start, I want to inform everyone I can, and email is the fastest way that I know how.

HERE ! IS THE SCOOP:

Tampons contain two things that are potentially harmful: Rayon (for absorbency), and dioxin (a chemical used in bleaching the products). The tampon industry is convinced that we, as women, need bleached white products in order to view the product as pure and clean. The problem here is that the dioxin, which is produced in this bleaching process, can lead to very harmful problems for a woman. Dioxin is potentially carcinogenic cancer-associated and is toxic to the immune andreproductive systems. It has also been linked to endometriosis and lower sperm counts for men. For both sexes, it breaks down the immune system.

Last September, the Environmental Protection Agency (EPA) reported that there really is no set 'acceptable' level of exposure to dioxin given that it is cumulative and slow to disintegrate. The real danger comes from repeated contact Karen Couppert 'Pulling the Plug on the Tampon Industry'). I'd say using about 4-5 tampons a day, five days a month, for 38 menstruating years is 'repeated contact', wouldn't you?! Rayon contributes to the danger of tampons and dioxin because it is a highly absorbent substance. Therefore, when fibers from the tampons are left behind in the vagina (as usually occurs), it creates a breeding ground for the dioxin. It also stays in a lot longer than it would with just cotton tampons. This is also the reason why TSS (toxic shock syndrome) occurs.

WHAT ARE THE ALTERNATIVES?

Using feminine hygiene products that aren't bleached and that are all cotton. Other feminine hygiene products (pads/napkins) contain dioxin as well, but they are not nearly as dangerous since they are not in direct contact with the vagina. The pads/napkins need to stop being bleached, but, obviously, tampons are the most dangerous. So, what can you do if you can't give up using tampons? Use tampons that are made from 100% cotton, and that are UNBLEACHED. Unfortunately, thereare very few companies that make these safe tampons. They are usually only found in health food stores. Countries all over the world (Sweden, Germany, British Columbia, etc.) have demanded a switch to this safer tampon, while the U.S. has decided to keep us in the dark about it. In 1989, activists in England mounted a campaign against chlorine bleaching. Six weeks and 50,000 letters later, the makers of sanitary products switched to oxygen bleaching (one of the green methods available) (MS magazine, May/June 1995).

WHAT TO DO NOW:

Tell people. Everyone. Inform them. We are being manipulated by this industry and the government, let's do something about it! Please write to the companies: Tampax (Tambrands), Playtex, O.B., Kotex. Call the 800 numbers listed on the boxes. Let them know that we demand a safe product ALL COTTON UNBLEACHED TAMPONS.

References: 1 Women Health Issues - Thrush

... 18 rules for lovely life ...

... 星座的三個階段 ...

原來同一星座還分三個

牡羊座的三個階段

第一個階段是生日在3月21日到3月31日之間

這個階段的主宰行星是火星，個性非常專制；牡羊座的個性也非常明顯，常常不耐煩，容易惱火，很有侵略性、很獨立，偶爾有些小怪癖。你能夠加強的部分是不要有太獨斷的語言，太過獨斷的話會讓別人引起反感。你的想像力非常豐富，也很相信自己的直覺，這是你的特殊才能。但當直覺錯誤時，你會不願承認，這是要特別注意的喔！你在做決定的時候，常常會依靠感覺和直覺，因此平常要多吸收點資訊，這樣你的直覺才會更加準確。你的能力非常的強，但是有時會因為缺乏耐心而無法成功。

第二個階段是生日在4月1日到4月10日之間

這個階段主宰行星是太陽，代表榮譽還有光明，代表變化與改革。牡羊座本來就是好動的星座，加上太陽的力量，就可以加強好動性，但是又不會那麼專制。其實你是一個喜歡競爭的人，對一成不變或是反覆無聊的工作，一點都不會喜歡，因此你需要常常開發你的新點子和能力。愈能開發你的潛能，就愈能夠嶄露頭角。你有迅速的情報收集能力，這一點跟雙子座有點類似；因此，走在時代尖端的工作最適合此階段出生的牡羊座喔！

第三個階段是生日在4月11日到4月20日之間

主宰是木星，也就是說此階段的人是牡羊座中最有同情心和道德心的一群。你算是比較有禮貌的，不像其他牡羊座一樣橫衝直撞，而且內心比較纖細敏感，較有藝術才能。要協調你內心的衝突矛盾，因為你常常會做出一些衝動的事情，過後才後悔不已，然後又覺得自己不該這樣做，而深深後悔。你是一個非常善良的人，要懂得如何調適，讓心裡敏感的一面軟化衝動的個性，你就可以成為一個成功的人唷！

金牛座的三個階段

第一個階段是生日在4月21日到4月30日之間

這個階段的金牛座是最樂於幫助他人的金牛座。個人行星是金星，代表愛與美，你對於愛情相當執著，對於身邊的人也抱持同情心，因此你滿擅長做義工或是從事一些服務的行業。對你來講，如果可以同時運用你的藝術鑑賞能力又可以賺錢，真是一舉多得的事。而你也需要常常跟人家溝通內心的感覺，你很會從別人身上吸取經驗，這個階段出生的金牛座所具有的特質。

第二個階段是生日在5月1日到5月10日之間

個人行星是水星，代表知識，因此這個階段的金牛座比較會表達自己，可以很清楚地將自己所要的、所想的表達出來。唯一要克服的是常因臉皮薄的問題，有時候即使你知道怎麼說、怎麼表達，但是臉皮太薄而作罷，並且害怕失敗。善用你的口才，對你的事業或各方面、人際關係都能如虎添翼。

第三個階段是生日在5月11日到5月19之間

個人行星是土星，你是比較沉穩的金牛座，也是最有耐心、最體貼、最貼心，但也最保守的金牛座。旺盛的精力是你的特質，不管做什麼事情你總是能夠孜孜不倦地努力；別人看你好像沒有什麼power，但是你就像小火車一樣，不斷地跑，跑了很久也不會喊累，耐力是你成功最大的武器。

雙子座的三個階段

第一個階段是生日在5月 20到5月31日之間

個人主宰星是水星，你的反應超級快，別人說話說到一半時，你已經知道他的重點在哪裡，而且迫不及待替對方下結論。你也常常覺得別人慢吞吞地沒有效率，因為你一個人就可以做三個人的事，而且早就知道該如何做了。建議你多用自己良好的表達能力來幫助你的工作，但你感性豐富的一面很容易影響你對事情的判斷力，要小心。

第二個階段是生日在6月1日到6月10日之間

個人主宰星是金星，雖然你常常說者無心，但是還是常會不小心傷害了別人。你的心腸很好，但卻習慣用理性的態度來解析事情，也因此有時別人會覺得你很冷血。建議你多運用你的幽默感來化解這個缺點，將會使你變成一個人見人愛的雙子喔！

第三個階段是生日在6月 11到6月21日之間

個人主宰星是土星，心情不好時你就會像一堆爛泥一樣，什麼事都不想做，還有放下一切的打算，所以你要小心自己情緒上的控制。基本上你是樂觀的，只要不讓情緒主宰了你，你的創意將會為你帶來大筆財富。

巨蟹座的三個階段

第一個階段是生日在6月22日到6月30日之間

這個階段個人的行星是月亮，所以會特別的敏感，是巨蟹座當中最敏感的一群。你的模仿能力或是藝術天分都非常的優異，只不過現在的社會太講求效率了，你敏感的特質會因為講求效率或者是時間的壓迫而被抹煞，因此這個階段出生的巨蟹座要好好調適自己的神經系統，懂得放鬆自己才是。

第二個階段是生日在7月1日到7月11日之間

個人的行星是火星，火星通常代表戰鬥力，雖然你的主宰星、主要守護星是月亮，但是加上火星的影響使你更有決斷力，而你對於許多厭煩的事情也會表現出很強烈的不耐煩，並不像其他的巨蟹座具有那麼多的包容能力。不過這個時段出生的巨蟹座倒是相當多才多藝，口才也不錯，可以用自己的口才來強化自己工作上的表現。

第三個階段是生日在7月12日到7月22日之間

你個人的行星是木星和海王星同時衝突著，木星代表好運，而海王星象徵的是一種精神層面，因此常常都會有莫名其妙的好運。因為重視心靈的層面，你的伴侶一定也要很重視心靈。你買到的東西一定要物美價廉外，還要兼有藝術品味，而不會是只因為便宜就買，這段時間的巨蟹座對於實用和藝術價值都要兼具，因此有點小小的挑剔傾向喔！

獅子座的三個階段

第一個階段是生日在7月23日到7月31日之間

這個階段出生的獅子座個性比較溫和，沒那麼強硬，但還是有一種好動的傾向。你滿具有藝術天分的，對於觀察人世間的事情非常敏銳，是具有哲學性格而且也善於做心理分析的獅子座。最重要的是這個階段出生的獅子座，常常會因為在做出決定之後，感到後悔。對你而言，要在當下就能做出很棒的決定，必須先收集一些資料，才是最重要也最需要的。

第二個階段是生日在8月1日到8月11日之間

這個階段的你，會擁有明顯的獅子座個性，不但自信十足、自信滿滿，主觀性也稍微強了一點。有的時候會不自覺去壓倒別人，或是展現出強勢的作風，不過對於朋友是兩肋插刀，而且講義氣得不得了。當你的愛人、朋友是幸福的，只要偶爾能忍受你不小心突來的脾氣。你的耐心非常缺乏，所以你身邊的人都要多一點耐心才行。

第三個階段是生日在8月12日到8月22日之間

這個階段的獅子座有一點點處女座的個性，因此在處理事情方面多了一些分析檢討的能力，事後也會自己在家裡悶著頭想失敗的原因。不過常常想到一半就覺得太煩了、覺得頭好大喔！然後就不去想了。因此，貫徹始終，善用分析能力，是這個階段的獅子座成功的關鍵。對於他人稍有同情心，因此可以注意到四周旁人的感受，是個比較溫和、謹慎的獅子座。

處女座的三個階段

第一個階段是生日在8月23日到8月31日之間

在這個階段出生的處女座，做事情會稍稍有點霸氣，而且過於主觀，這是你要小心的地方。不過比較好的是，這個階段出生的處女座決斷力比較強，少了猶豫不決的特質，再搭配原來善於分析的個性，會讓你在做事情之前想得很清楚，做事情之後比較放得開，這是相當可喜的現象。

第二個階段是生日在9月1日到9月11日之間

這段期間出生的處女座，個人行星是土星。你非常有耐心，非常體貼，而且非常節儉。不過這並不代表你是一個鐵公雞喔！而是你認為錢是要花在該花的地方。你並不需要別人的督促或是指導，就會自己朝自己的目標前進。再複雜的事情在你抽絲剝繭之下也會變得很簡單，你需要加強的就是合夥的關係，不過除了要和你的夥伴處得很好之外，也不要讓他養成依賴你的習慣。

第三個階段是生日在9月12日到9月22日之間

你的個人行星是金星，因此你會比其他處女座更具備敏感的特質。你很不喜歡破壞人與人之間的關係，因此有時候會抱著不想破壞友誼、乾脆自己來處理的態度，因此久而久之自己會背負過多的責任。因為你的情緒非常敏感，因此常常會覺得受傷害；但是沒有關係，不妨運用你的敏感性來增加其他方面才能。例如你可以將這份敏感性投注到寫作或是藝術上的創作，一定會有不錯的表現；以免自己對於某些事想破了頭、鑽牛角尖一直鑽不出來，而別人卻在無心之中感覺傷害了你，不是很划不來嗎？

天秤座的三個階段

第一個階段是生日在9月23到9月30日之間

個人主宰星是金星，你有時會忍不住在心中挑剔一些人，但是表面上你還是會和他們維持良好圓融的關係，但是要提醒你，有時候你會因太過於想要面面俱到，而使自己陷入兩難的局面，若是結局不開心，你還會責怪自己。問題是你不可能討好每一個人，這點你一定要清楚認知才行。

第二個階段是生日在10月1日到10月11日之間

個人主宰星是土星，你是一個十分在意形象的人，所以雖然你也有很多私人情感和情緒，你卻不願意在人前輕易表露。就算在心愛的人面前，你也會因為不想讓他擔心，或是累了一天懶得說，而保持沉默，只想讓情緒自己沉澱。建議你多和知心好友聊聊，吐吐苦水罵一罵。相信我，你的動力和活力將會更多，所以不管是什麼事，盡量不要太過拚命喔！

第三個階段是生日在10月12日到10月22日之間

個人主宰星是天王星，你常太過於委屈自己，而忽略了自己的想法，所以每隔一陣子你就會覺得很受傷，但是卻又讓這種狀況繼續下去。你要學習拒絕的能力，並且了解到人和人之間的相處，光靠你單方面的忍耐是沒有用的，只會讓對方更吃定你而已。

天蠍座的三個階段

第一個階段是生日在10月23日到10月31日之間

主宰行星跟個人行星都是火星，也就是有雙重行動力的意思。因為火星就是掌管戰鬥或行動力，因此這背後所代表的負面意思就是，你會非常的專制和主觀。說好聽一點，做事會很獨立、很有果決力，但說不好聽有點獨斷獨行。有時主觀性太強硬，會聽不進別人所說的話。事業方面很有成就，在感情方面則要抱持柔軟的態度，個性不要太強硬會比較好。

第二個階段是生日在11月1日到11月11日之間

這段期間主宰的行星分別是木星和海王星。海王星通常掌管一種比較深處的靈性，但是木星則掌管一種幸福。一個代表物質、一個代表精神，因此你的個性非常善變，常常會跟內心有不同的對話。如果你當醫生的話比較擅長的就是精神科醫生，如果是建築事業的話就是建築設計，也就是說你擅長分析和解析，這是你在這方面專有的特質。

第三個階段是生日在11月12日到11月21日之間

個人行星是月亮，月亮代表了喜好幻想、夢想以及母性的愛。因此你是一個比較柔軟性的天蠍座，天蠍座本來就滿喜歡照顧他人，尤其對喜歡的人。對於愛人的照顧真的是無微不至，會讓另一半覺得很溫暖、很窩心。但是如果遇到不好的伴侶，他可能就會嫌你嘮叨了。

射手座的三個階段

第一個階段是生日在11月22日到11月30日之間

主宰星跟個人行星是木星，因此你是特別具有正義感、同情心的射手座。對愛人非常忠誠，而且非常誠實，你在工作上也是這樣子，因此會受到老闆的賞識。朋友都認為你是一個值得信賴的人，而對於人際相處有著強烈的好奇心，對朋友真誠關心，這些都是很好的優點，要好好運用，可以讓你的人生更加成功。只是你有時候對於事物的專注力沒辦法持久，這是需要改進的地方。

第二階段是生日在12月1日到12月11日之間

這個階段的個人行星是火星，所以這一階段出生的射手座帶著積極、冒險、野心勃勃的特質。你喜好變化，但在一開始你雖然會感到快樂，後來就又會覺得空虛。就算賺大錢，內心也會感到寂寞，因此充實心靈相當重要。這一個階段出生的人跟國外的來往會特別有緣分，熟練外語，拓展你的國際觀，對你來講是很重要的。但是你比較缺乏行政才能，因此你要找尋能協助你的助手，才能讓事業更上一層樓。

第三階段是生日在12月12日到12月21日之間

你的個人行星是太陽，因此特別重視自己尊嚴、重視自尊，也是最好面子的射手座。平常別人可以開開你的玩笑，但是被惹毛，你就會反唇相稽。你很喜歡鬥嘴，怎麼講都是你對，即使別人覺得你是在講歪理，但是你自有自己的一套邏輯。你相當崇尚自由，就算可以為自己喜歡的事業、為自己喜歡的愛人忍耐或努力，但是一旦他們干涉你的自由，妨礙你的事情，你就無法容忍。你是具有責任感的人，非常有耐心，對於工作態度也很認真，是一個具有領導能力，也具有野心特質的射手座。

魔羯座的三個階段

第一個階段是生日在12月22日到12月31日之間

這個階段的個人行星是土星，這個階段的人是最難交到朋友的魔羯座喔！魔羯座的你如果有朋友的話，請好好珍惜對方，將他視為你一生忠誠的朋友。對魔羯座來講土星就是象徵恆久的世界，也象徵一種穩定性，因此這個階段的魔羯座比一般階段出生的魔羯座更加穩定和早熟。從小到大，大家都認為你有點小奇怪，不過你對自己的抱負和未來要做的事情倒是非常的明確。而這一階段的魔羯座對機械方面和數理方面都有特殊的才能，但是不管如何你一定都會想盡辦法把大目標切割成中目標，再切割成每日的小目標去實踐，是一個最有恆心毅力的魔羯星座。

第二個階段是生日在1月1日到1月10日之間

個人的行星就是金星，你就是魔羯座中人情比較溫暖、生活比較充滿歡笑、個性比較可愛的一個了，因此你比較不像其他的魔羯座那麼現實，偶爾也會講求一下藝術，欣賞音樂。金星主宰感情，因此你是最有人情味的魔羯座。就算有時候你也很想板起面孔，很現實地和朋友計較一些事情，不過最後還是會被感情影響。也許你會認為這是你的一大缺點，但是這一點其實增加了你個性的柔軟面，倒是一個滿好的優點喔！

第三個階段是生日在1月11日到1月19日之間

個人行星是水星，屬於腦筋比較清醒的魔羯座。因為水星控制腦部還有主管人類的神經系統，也主宰了表達能力，因此你是所有魔羯座裡面表達能力最強的，並且也是比較懂得變通，並不是那麼死硬的。你和其他魔羯座不同的是你具有強烈的正義感，一般而言魔羯座都比較顧自己的事情，但是你卻有莫名的責任心，這一點和射手座有點相近。你最特殊的地方就是學習能力，因為水星也主管外語能力。如果你有興趣朝國外發展的話，對於外語能力的掌握，以及國外發展的運氣將會比別人更好。因此你不妨多充實一下這方向的才能，多下一點功夫，相信可以使你在你的專業領域上面發揮更大的才能。

水瓶座的三個階段

第一個階段是生日在1月21日到1月31日之間

這個階段的主宰行星是天王星，代表的是一種精神上的強烈力量，所以加上你水瓶座的特質，這個階段出生的你將會特別具有一種靈性的氣質。而且不管是在宗教或是神祕學方面你都特別具有領悟力。若是要當算命仙，嘿嘿！你可是相當合適。不管你的志向是什麼，這個階段的人都一定會用一種特殊的方式去完成。好比也許大家都一窩蜂去英美讀書，你就會特別想去希臘或羅馬，大家都念法律或政治，你就會想唸些特別的科目。善加利用你的靈性特質，你天生具有洞察別人內心的本領喔！

第二個階段是生日在2月1日到2月9日之間

這個階段的主宰行星是水星，主要控制我們的神經系統。也因此你的感覺或觸覺、嗅覺都會比一般人更加敏銳。你具有非常棒的觀察力以及很好的口才，如果加上你獨特的思考方式，一定常有很多人被你唬得一愣一愣的吧！舉凡所有和知識有關的工作都非常適合你。你不但會快速吸收，而且還會「舉一反八」呢！但是你的耐心稍微缺少了一些，請多多留意。

第三個階段是生日在2月10日到2月18日之間

你的主宰星是金星，你的直覺力和第六感簡直太神奇了，但是你若沒有好好加以運用，它反而會成為你的阻力。你和一般人有不同的觀點，這樣並不是不好，但是若完全不聽別人的意見，還認為他們都很膚淺，那就很容易因此嚐到挫敗的滋味。「人生有夢」這句話的重點在於築夢踏實。多多平衡夢想和現實，是你人生中最重要的課題。

雙魚座的三個階段

第一個階段是生日在2月19日到2月29日之間

這段期間的主宰星是海王星，屬於精神層面，主宰藝術方面的才能。因此你的藝術才能是所有雙魚座裡面最突出的，但是你的雙重人格也最明顯。你的思想非常新潮，但是有時候卻不敢提出自己的意見，這方面你要加強。你的藝術天分再加上你的獨特思考法，若好好在職場上應用，一定可以創造屬於你的光明前程。因此你選擇的行業一定要是可以接受新觀念的，並且可以讓你的才能有所發揮，太保守的公司或是會打壓你的老闆都不適合你喔

第二個階段是生日在3月1日到3月10日之間

你的行星是月亮，月亮主宰晚上，也主宰了愛家庭的人。這一階段的雙魚座最愛家，你有時候會心情不好，而且喜歡幻想，不過對於家庭會有實質的付出。這個階段的雙魚座，特別容易受到外界、情境的影響，因此當你心情好時，你會覺得人生充滿希望，會想幫助別人，再加上強烈、豐富的感受性，很容易就可以知道別人為何心情不好！但是意志薄弱的時候，你甚至會有小小的自殺傾向，因此最好要善用這個敏感的能量，在宗教界或是服務業就可以走出屬於你自己的一條路。

第三個階段是生日在3月11日到3月20日之間

個人的行星是火星，火星代表了戰鬥力跟行動力，所以你是雙魚座裡面最有行動力的，真是恭喜你了！而且你做事情喜歡速戰速決，算是滿積極敏感的，只不過有一點點虎頭蛇尾喔！你不太適合當老闆，獨立創造事業，因為你很容易將責任攬在自己身上，因此給別人雇用反而是比較好的方式。在這一段期間出生的雙魚座，藝術天分和敏感度皆滿高的，但是我是建議你，還是多多運用你旺盛的活動力，另外再加強你的人際關係，將會使你的人生走得更加順利。

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... horoscope ...

CAPRICORN - The Go-Getter (Dec 22 - Jan 19)

Patient and wise. Practical and rigid.. Ambitious. Tends to be Good-looking. Humorous and funny. Can be a bit shy and reserved. Often pessimistic. Capricorns tend to act before they think and can be Unfriendly at times. Hold grudges. Like competition. Get what they want.

AQUARIUS - The Sweetheart (Jan 20 - Feb 18)

Optimistic and honest. Sweet personality. Very independent. Inventive and intelligent. Friendly and loyal. Can seem unemotional.. Can be a bit rebellious. Very stubborn, but original and unique. Attractive on the inside and out. Eccentric personality.

PISCES - The Dreamer (Feb 19 - Mar 20)

Generous, kind, and thoughtful. Very creative and imaginative.May become secretive and vague. Sensitive. Don't like details. Dreamy and unrealistic. Sympathetic and loving. Kind. Unselfish. Good kisser. Beautiful.

ARIES - The Daredevil (Mar 21 - April 19)

Energetic. Adventurous and spontaneous. Confident and enthusiastic. Fun. Loves a challenge. EXTREMELY impatient. Sometimes selfish. Short fuse. (Easily angered.) Lively, passionate, and sharp wit. Outgoing. Lose interest quickly -> easily bored. Egotistical. Courageous and assertive. Tends to be physical and athletic.

TAURUS - The Enduring One (April 20 - May 20)

Charming but aggressive. Can come off as boring, but they are not. Hard workers. Warm-hearted. Strong, has endurance. Solid beings that are stable and secure in their ways. Not looking for shortcuts. Take pride in their beauty.. Patient and reliable. Make great friends and give good advice. Loving and kind. Loves hard - passionate. Express themselves emotionally. Prone to ferocious temper-tantrums. Determined. Indulge themselves often. Very generous.

GEMINI - The Chatterbox (May 21 - June 20)

Smart and witty. Outgoing, very chatty. Lively, energetic. Adaptable but needs to express themselves. Argumentative and outspoken. Like change. Versatile. Busy, sometimes nervous and tense. Gossips. May seem superficial or inconsistent. Beautiful physically and mentally.

CANCER - The Protector (June 21 - July 22)

Moody, emotional. May be shy. Very loving and caring. Pretty/handsome. Excellent partners for life. Protective. Inventive and imaginative. Cautious. Touchy-feely kind of person. Needs love from others. Easily hurt, but sympathetic.

LEO - The Boss (July 23 - Aug 22)

Very organized. Need order in their lives - like being in control. Like boundaries. Tend to take over everything. Bossy. Like to help Others. Social and outgoing. Extroverted. Generous, warm-hearted. Sensitive. Creative energy. Full of themselves. Loving. Doing the right thing is important to Leos. Attractive.

VIRGO - The Perfectionist (Aug 23 - Sept 22)

Dominant in relationships. Conservative. Always wants the last word. Argumentative. Worries. Very smart. Dislikes noise and chaos. Eager. Hardworking. Loyal. Beautiful. Easy to talk to.Hard to please. Harsh. Practical and very fussy. Often shy. Pessimistic.

LIBRA - The Harmonizer (Sept 23 - Oct 22)

Nice to everyone they meet. Can't make up their mind. Have own unique appeal. Creative, energetic, and very social. Hates to be alone. Peaceful, generous. Very loving and beautiful. Flirtatious. Give in too easily. Procrastinators. Very gullible.

SCORPIO - The Intense One (Oct 23 - Nov 21)

Very energetic. Intelligent. Can be jealous and/or possessive. Hardworking. Great kisser. Can become obsessive or secretive. Holds grudges. Attractive. Determined . Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Romantic. Can be self-centered at times. Passionate and Emotional.

SAGITTARIUS - The Happy-Go-Lucky One (Nov 22 - Dec 21)

Good-natured optimist. Doesn't want to grow up (Peter Pan Syndrome). Indulges self. Boastful. Likes luxuries and gambling. Social and outgoing. Doesn't like responsibilities. Often fantasizes. Impatient. Fun to be around. Having lots of friends. Flirtatious. Doesn't like rules. Sometimes hypocritical. Dislikes being confined -> tight spaces or even tight clothes. Doesn't like being doubted. Beautiful inside and out.

... 你的动物特质 ...

人与动物之间有很多相似的特质，想不想知道隐藏在你身体里的动物特质是哪一种？

一个趣味测试:

1. 公车靠站，车上已经载满了人，下一班车要一刻钟后才到，你会怎么办呢？

◎不想再等下去了，再挤也要上车——请答第2题

◎人太多了，还是等一班吧！——请答第4题

2. 旅行途中的你突然头很痛，这时正好有热心人拿药给你吃，你会如何抉择呢？

◎说声谢谢后马上吃药——请答第6题

◎找理由拒绝对方的药——请答第3题

3. 某部电影很让你感动，你有何反应呢？

◎会跟身边的人讲故事情节，推荐给别人——请答第12题

◎将感动藏在心里，不需与人分享——请答第7题

4. 一辆红色的面包车开到湖边，你认为里面坐的是什么人？

◎一队情侣或一家人——请答第3题

◎歹徒——请答第5题

5. 画面上有一颗桃心，你会联想到什么?

◎爱情——请答第12题

◎ 扑克牌——请答第8题

6. 朋友说她要去参加一个聚会，你会怎样呢？

◎要求带你一起参加——请答第9题

◎除非她主动说要带你去，不然的话只有保持沉默——请答第10题

7. 和男孩子一起用餐，餐费是他主动付的，好像花了不少钱，你有什么感觉呢？

◎觉得过意不去，之后会跟他平摊费用——请答第10题

◎男生埋单天经地义，会道谢但不出钱——请答第12题

8. 参加同学会的时候发现你最要好的朋友却没来，你会怎么办呢？

◎觉得很没趣，早早回家吧——请答第13题

◎硬着头皮敷衍到底——请答第12题

9. 你希望多少岁的时候步入结婚礼堂？

◎ 21-25岁——请答第11题

◎26-30岁——请答第10题

10. 星期天在家，手机和座机同时响起，你会怎么办呢？

◎先接其中的一个——请答第15题

◎两个一起接——请答第16题

11. 如果你抽奖中了一栋别墅，你希望它位于何处呢？

◎ 海边或湖畔——请答第14题

◎小岛上——请答第15题

12. 拥挤的车厢里一位漂亮的女孩子被人踩到脚了，你认为她的表情应该是怎样的呢？

◎疼得叫起来——请答第16题

◎非常生气，责怪对方——请答第17题

13. 一位跟你不是很要好的朋友请你吃饭，你会有什么感觉呢？

◎对方发财了——请答第21题

◎必然有事相求——请答第17题

14. 朋友送了一份你不是很喜欢的礼物给你，你会怎么做呢？

◎平静地说谢谢——请答第18题

◎假装很开心的样子——请答第19题

15. 大卖场四折大清仓，你会怎么做呢？

◎疯狂大采购——请答第18题

◎不一定要买什么——请答第19题

16. 你是否将人家送给你的东西转送给他人？

◎有过——请答第19题

◎从来没有——请答第 20题

17. 一位妖艳女子在等出租车，凭直觉你认为她要去做什么呢？

◎去跟男朋友约会——请答第16题

◎去夜总会上班——请答第21题

18. 突然有人从背后重重地拍了一下你的肩膀，你猜这个拍你的人是男生还是女生呢？

◎男生——请答第22题

◎女生——请答第23题

19. 你比较喜欢喝冰红茶还是珍珠奶茶呢？

◎珍珠奶茶——请答第18题

◎冰红茶——请答第20题

20. 你和好朋友一起乘车，你会主动帮对方买票吗？

◎会——请答第24题

◎不会——请答第21题

21. 对于酷酷的异性，你有接近他的想法吗？

◎有——请答第25题

◎没有——请答第23题

22. 一男一女在街上勾肩搭背，你认为他们是什么关系呢？

◎恋爱关系——答案A

◎纯友谊关系——答案B

23. 每个女孩子都有玩家家的经历，回想一下，孩童时代的你比较喜欢扮演妈妈还是小孩呢？

◎喜欢扮妈妈——答案E

◎喜欢扮小孩——答案C

24. 在游乐场玩耍，你比较喜欢玩以下哪一个游乐项目呢？

◎摩天轮——答案F

◎秋千——答案D

25. 跟朋友在一起好像总有说不完的话题似的？

◎是的——答案G

◎不一定——请答第24题

A. 梅花鹿

谨慎小心，待人和蔼可亲。

外冷内热的梅花鹿做事谨慎小心，很少鲁莽行事，这类型的人有完美主义倾向，自尊心又强，最瞧不起懦弱的表现，更不喜欢让别人看到自己的缺点，有时外表看似冷漠，其实却有颗温柔坦诚的心，是慢热型的人，偶尔也会被周遭的人或事感动得落泪，也不排除歇斯底里发泄情绪的时刻。

【如何排除人际烦恼】

过于追求完美的你无形中与人有隔膜，你应该主动敞开心扉，表现出最真的你，将深藏的热情与坦率展现出来，大家才会对你刮目相看，不妨将你的心事与身边的朋友分享，他们会理解你的。

【对异性的态度】

你一直都在苦苦找寻能真正读懂你心的人，因为你那起伏不定情绪极度缺乏安全感，所以你需要一位能包容你，值得依靠的蓝颜知己。

【职业预测】

你拥有绝佳的想象力与品位，适合自己创业或在艺术领域里发挥所长。

B. 海龟

协调性强，对人温柔体贴

海龟派的协调性比较强，做事脚踏实地，内心温柔细腻且易碎，所以经常要承受过大的压力又不大愿意将烦恼说出来，这类人的个性为内向害羞，一般来说，很少与人发生争斗，更不喜欢在众人面前出风头，举手投足间充满温柔恬静的味道，感性的你很容易为别人流泪，也很为他人着想。

【如何排除人际烦恼】

厌恶阶段斗争的你为了保持一团和气，有可能说些善意的谎言，你从不敢抗拒长辈的要求，也不好意思拒绝别人的请求，所以许多工作都落到了你头上，不用过于在意别人的想法，你应该更重视自己的感受。

【对异性的态度】

你向往细水长流的爱情，就算拍拖，行为举止也跟平常差不多，此外，你对另一半的依赖心比较严重，适合你的人必须成熟稳重又体贴多情。

【职业预测】

医生、护士、幼儿园老师、客户联络员都比较适合你。

C. 折耳猫

注重外表的时髦派爱出风头的折耳猫，有着异常可爱的外表，不论走到何处永远都是众人的焦点，这类型的人感知流行时尚的能力超好，懂得如何打扮自己，展现自己的优点，虽然有点臭美，但绝不会盲从，因为天生的好品位，所以你很擅长打造属于自己的风格，言行举止略显夸张的你也是社交高手。

【如何排除人际烦恼】

好恶分明的你，只要是自己不愿意做的事就会明明白白地拒绝，你绝对不会勉强自己去配合别人的步调，与志同道合的人交往或共事给你带来快乐，你也会在他们的帮助下不断成长。

【对异性的态度】

异性面前的你自信满满，你对另一半的要求很高，他一定会跟你一样优秀或更出色，才能在征服你的心，你那魔女般的气质，将周遭的男生迷得团团转。

【职业预测】

品位出众的你社交能力超强，适合朝演艺界发展。

D. 牧羊犬

忠心，目的性比较强

牧羊犬对主人百分百忠心，为了完成工作不惜付出一切，这类型的人非常遵守规章制度，对于朋友拜托的事都会如期完成，人缘很不错，有教养又懂礼貌的你不喜欢出风头，只要做好职责范围之内的事就尽情沉醉在自我的兴趣中咯，闲暇时候的你那副悠闲自得的模样，很是令人羡慕。

【如何排除人际烦恼】

因为个性随和的缘故，所以你跟任何人都能和平相处，对人缺乏防备可以说是你的最大缺点，也是你烦恼的根源，心太诚太善的话，很容易被人利用，你必须提高警惕，才不至于让吃亏上当。

【对异性的态度】

你非常享受谈恋爱的感觉，对于不入眼的异性相当冷漠，一般来说，你很少为爱受折磨，就算有喜欢的对象也不敢主动告白，不过一旦爱起来将是那么热情难挡。

【职业预测】

你的好耐心是大优点哦，适合当医生、会计师、电脑工程师等。

E. 金丝猴

知性外表下有颗坚强的心

金丝猴具有大智慧，非常聪明，所以这类型的人大多理性又有才华，自信的你就算有再大的成就也不会骄傲，虽然从内心来说，也很希望得到他人的赞赏，但却表现得很沉稳，一副宠辱不惊的样子，你一旦遇到自己喜欢的事就会大把大把投入时间和精力，甚至有可能到废寝忘食的地步哦！

【如何排除人际烦恼】

你虽然不会主动攻击别人，但却蛮喜欢和别人抬杠！当你与人争论时，总是一副理直气壮的样子，让对手无法招架，对人际关系也有一定的影响，注意一下你的语调，口气不要太严厉了。

【对异性的态度】

你在感情上是相当自我的人，表面上对恋人百依百顺，其实却很有自己的想法和原则，你讨厌被恋人命令和束缚，一旦分歧过大，你便会主动提出分手。

【职业预测】

你是最佳的配合者，比较适合做经理助理、经纪人等。

F. 长颈鹿

知性优雅，默默等待爱情长颈鹿是位冷静的思考者，这类型的人知性而优雅，喜欢研究问题，为人成熟稳重，进退自如，绝不会做出令人大跌眼镜的事情来，人缘不错，大家都很喜欢你，不管遇到什么状况，你都能冷静处理，但也因为在一些小地方上过于保守，可能会白白错失不少机会，当机会降临时可要抓牢哦！

【如何排除人际烦恼】

你从不会拒绝别人的请求，不管身边的朋友拜托你做什么，你都欣然接受，这样一来，很容易把自己累坏哦！别人喜欢依赖你，而你却找不到可以依赖的人，你必须向别人请求支援才能为自己减压。

【对异性的态度】

你很少主见主动追求别人，你好像一直在默默等待有缘人的出现哦！过于温吞的个性是你> 恋爱路上的绊脚石，你必须积极行动起来才能牢牢抓住手中的红线。

【职业预测】

你的理性和知性，适合做心理咨询师、访谈专员、顾问等。

G. 野象

自由奔放的霸道主义者> 野象从小就生长在丛林里，非常热爱自由，高大醒目的外表很是抢眼，这类型的人开朗乐观，自由奔放，颇得众人的喜爱，豪放起来有点不拘小节，不了解你的人可能会被吓一跳哦！你具有积极进取的精神，为人坦率直接，行事果决，不管遇到大事还是小事，都不会犹豫，越能激发你的斗志。

【如何排除人际烦恼】

你有点小小的霸道，有时候让人很反感，建议你最好控制一下自己的坏脾气，多为别人着想，人际关系才会更加顺利，此外，开玩笑要掌握好分寸，少跟小心眼的人混在一起，即可避免不必要的麻烦。

【对异性的态度】

你能大大方方地跟异性相处，很容易交到男朋友，你的霸道主义有时会让另一半受不了，也很可能会脚踏两条船，唯有心胸宽大的异性，才能给你完美的爱情。

【职业预测】

你的领导欲超强，不管什么工作都能得心应手，最适合自己当老板。

... 遲來的問候 ...

去年，和一位很要好的朋友因爲某些誤會鬧翻了。我們聯絡的方式隨著這個誤會完全斷絕、刪除掉。因此，我們之間的信任也就跌進谷底深深埋了起來。這也是我第二次失去一位朋友。

後來，發覺真相時是幾個後的事了。從那時起，曾經有幾次有股衝動很想對她解釋發生的一切；但知道她可能會不再相信我而沒跨出這一步。

一直以來，我的小弟知道我還關心這位朋友，所以偶爾會告知我她的近況。最近，小弟還‘大費周章’讓我倆重逢、見面。她看到我的時候，很驚訝…我的心也卜通、卜通的跳…仿佛好像犯人在等待宣判…結果，封了一年的冰山開始慢慢的溶化了。

幾乎一年后，事情解決了、冰山溶化了。我們之間的誤會才在這遲來的問候當中真相大白、解釋清楚。

也許，她還是不會相信我。也許，她還有所保留。我們有許多相似的共同點、性格也相近。所以大概知道，那埋在谷底的信任需要很久很久的時間醖釀才會慢慢化解。

每個人都會犯錯。誰沒過錯？只是懂得要如何去從錯誤中領悟及改過才是重要的。

我很慶幸我與這位朋友的友誼挽回了。

謝謝你，小弟！！

... switch roles ...

A man was sick and tired of going to work every day while his wife stayed home. He wanted her to see what he went through so he prayed:

'Dear Lord: I go to work every day and put in 8 hours while my wife merely stays at home. I want her to know what I go through. So, please allow her body to switch with mine for a day. Amen!'

God, in his infinite wisdom, granted the man's wish.

The next morning, sure enough, the man awoke as a woman.

He arose, cooked breakfast for his mate,

Awakened the kids,

Set out their school clothes,

Fed them breakfast,

Packed their lunches,

Drove them to school,

Came home and picked up the dry cleaning,

Took it to the cleaners

And stopped at the bank to make a deposit,

Went grocery shopping,

Then drove home to put away the groceries,

Paid the bills and balanced the check book.

He cleaned the cat's litter box and bathed the dog.

Then, it was already 1P.M.

And he hurried to make the beds,

Do the laundry, vacuum, dust,

And sweep and mop the kitchen floor.

Ran to the school to pick up the kids and got into an argument with them on the way home.

Set out milk and cookies and got the kids organized to do their homework.

Then, set up the ironing board and watched TV while he did the ironing.

At 4:30 he began peeling potatoes and washing vegetables for salad, breaded the chops and snapped fresh beans for supper.

After supper, he cleaned the kitchen,

Ran the dishwasher,

Folded laundry,

Bathed the kids, and put them to bed.

At 9 P.M. He was exhausted and, though his daily chores weren't finished, he went to bed where he was expected to make love, which he managed to get through without complaint.

The next morning, he awoke and immediately knelt by the bed and said:

'Lord, I don't know what I was thinking. I was so wrong to envy my wife's being able to stay home all day. Please, oh! Oh! Please, let us trade back. Amen!'

The Lord, in his infinite wisdom, replied:

'My son, I feel you have learned your lesson and I will be happy to change things back to the way they were. You'll just have to wait nine months, though. You got pregnant last night.'

... 結束了 ...

剛看完了“溏心風暴”。裏面的其中一對情侶，常在心與程亮讓我感覺好可惜、可憐。雖然深愛對方，但最後卻沒在一起。只因爲對方沒有把自己的心裏話坦白說出來。後來，程亮死了；寫了整整兩年多的日記的他始終沒把他的真心話說出來。當常在心發現的時候已經太遲了…

命運作弄人，對嗎？

你相信命運嗎？

我從來都不信，但最近發生的事讓我懷疑是否真的有命中注定這句話。該相信它嗎? 我曾經被警告該結束這段感情；我卻認爲我能控制命運。只要能遷就對方，就會有結果。現在，我不得不讓相信可能這結局是命中注定的。

明知道會分手的，但我卻希望這天永遠不會到來。我輸了… 不恨任何人，只知道強求是不會有快樂的。所以，那天事實擺在我眼前，我卻很淡然的接受。也許不是第一次被抛棄了，我沒哭也沒閙。几個星期前就覺得怪怪的…可能是我不肯去面對與接受，而沒意識到愛已逝。

相信真心付出，就會有回報？這不曾發生在我的愛情故事裏。朋友們都認爲我該放手，但說的永遠比做的難。雖然在一起的時間不是很長，但還是有那麽點不捨得…

我只希望下個會更好。

... 要求、付出 ...

剛剛有感而發的感想： 儅女人的要求變多了，男人是否會害怕而躲避？ 要求多了是否是因爲男人給的少或不夠？ 給的少或不夠是不是沒有愛了？ 沒愛了是否意味著對方從來沒要求？ 沒要求是因爲以爲對方會理所當然的付出？

會付出是因爲想滿足女人的要求？

So, whatever comes round goes round… learn not to request too much and you will get what you want..

... prison and prisoner ...

The bride tells her husband, 'Honey, you know I'm a virgin and I don't know anything about sex. Can you explain it to me first?'

'OK, Sweetheart. Putting it simply, we will call your private place 'the prison' and call my private thing 'the prisoner'. So what we do is: put the prisoner in the prison.

And then they made love for the first time.

Afterwards, the guy is lying face up on the bed, smiling with satisfaction.

Nudging him, his bride giggles, 'Honey the prisoner seems to have escaped.'

Turning on his side, he smiles. 'Then we will have to re-imprison him.'

After the second time they spent, the guy reaches for his cigarettes but the girl, thoroughly enjoying the new experience of making love, gives him a suggestive smile, 'Honey, the prisoner is out again!'

The man rises to the occasion, but with the unsteady legs of a recently born foal.

Afterwards, he lays back on the bed, totally exhausted.

She nudges him and says, 'Honey, the prisoner escaped again.'

Simply turning his head, He YELLS at her, 'Hey, its not a life sentence, OKAY!”

... 距離 ...

我開始感覺我倆的距離越來越遠了。

聊不上五句話，還是我們之間已不再有相同的話題？

我發現我也變得沉默很多，必要時才開口說幾句；還假裝在朋友面前表現我沒變。也許是我在掩飾那股慢慢浮現的不愉快吧！剛才在綫上與一位朋友聊天，連他也發覺我有心事。我卻沒跟他說真正的原因。因爲，不想再把往事重復又重復。

那股想要相伴的衝動又漸漸浮現在我心深處。但不想再有爭執，所以選擇不去理會。把自己弄得忙忙碌碌，只因爲這樣我才能讓你少擔心我、對我沒有任何的顧慮。

我明白也了解這是個非常時期，你絕對不容許任何的無理取閙；所以我唯有默默承受這難受的感覺。渴望等待很快就過去了。我已經開始在逃避與你相處的時間。因爲看到你一次，我就心如刀割一次，很痛很痛...

別擔心，或許這一切明天就隨風而逝了。

... 我和你 ...

got this from somewhere which i can't remember where.. but it's quite meaningful..

我和你 人海裏 竟相遇

星相印 又患得 又患失

吵了架 更思戀

重盟誓 要忠誠 搭兩船

太可惡 包三奶 不許可

因爲愛 不能分

情再長 竟不比 歲月悠

情變淡 你說過 會愛我

我沒變 你變了

我的愛 你知否 我的痛

你知否 忘記你 不容易

記住你 太難受

不結婚 結婚不 相見好

生活難 到白頭 最動人

只一句 我愛你

... labour of love ...

For those who are still single may learn something from here. And those already married may take this as a guideline to improve your marriage.

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question.

She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?" I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.

Here's the answer.

EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love. With your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience.

You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... Because it's happening TO YOU. People in love sometimes say, "I was swept off my feet." Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU. Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience.

But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a > friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.

Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND. SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression "the labor of love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy, And most importantly, it takes WISDOM . You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage. Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can "make" love work.

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision".. . Not just a feeling.

... 有心無心？...

活了這麽大，我才發覺是否我已經領悟想多、做多、錯多這句話。 很煩也生氣，因爲我好像過界了。 我認爲的關心變成是多管閒事、以為化解了誤會卻被責備是我的表達能力有問題。真的嗎？是我誤解了所有的事情嗎？從來都不覺得我有那種能耐改變也知道有些事情是改變不了的。 但是，我真的無心傷害。聽者有心、說者無意。 所以，不說、不做是最好的方式。

... your teeth an your luck ...

The next time you reveal your teeth in a dazzling smile, look at yourself in a mirror. Your teeth should be as well groomed as you are. They should be straight and even and should be neither too big nor too small for your face. The shape and appearance, colour and size of your teeth mirror particular traits that make you different from everyone else. Your teeth offer clues to your personality and attitudes. FSW brings you this quick and easy summary on how you to read someone’s teeth.

Shape & Appearance

1 Convex Teeth

These teeth signify someone talkative and rather noisy. This could also be an aggressive person who will not take NO for an answer. When someone with this kind of teeth approaches you, it is likely you will immediately and subconsciously be alert and watchful. This kind of teeth favours women, as convex teeth on women’s faces are only moderately convex, which signifies a good life and someone who possesses good mentor luck.

2 Concave Teeth

This is just the opposite of convex teeth and is not generally favoured. People with teeth like this should really get them fixed. Some say this indicates the person could inherit a genetic disease.

3 Sharp Teeth

This kind of teeth tends to resemble the teeth of a mouse. They are sharp and efficient. Having this kind of teeth signifies someone very smart, especially in the technical fields of expertise. Someone like this tends to be mathematical and generally have a good start in life, but he/she may face obstacles and challenges later on.

4 Mixed Convex & Concave Teeth

Here the lower part of the teeth is convex, while the upper parts are concave. This is generally described as "upside down teeth". Such teeth signify good eloquence – someone who speaks well and very persuasively. However, this person lacks career luck and could come to a bad end. This person will generally be left alone and at the losing end in any competition or dual. They lack winner’s luck and will always have to make do with coming second best.

5 Uneven Teeth

People who have uneven teeth – some small and some big, some sharp and some blunt – tend to be greedy and grasping – thinking only of him or herself. Such a person can also be something of a bully. His/her thought patterns and actions appear “unsynchronized”. This person can be very hot tempered, as a result of which he/she has troubles in most love relationships. Romantic luck tends to be lacking. Such a person should learn to control his/her emotions to create a better and happier life.

6 More Gum than Teeth

When the gums are very obvious each time a person opens his/her mouth, this suggests someone lacking in relationship luck especially with respect to family. This person is likely to leave the family when young. This does not suggest the person is not nice, only that he/she tends to be closer to friends than to relatives. However, according to physiognomy, someone with uneven oral structure is not to be trusted. One should be careful before trusting such a person.

7 Gang Tooth or Snaggle Tooth

This kind of teeth indicates someone who is proactive at work, always thinking up new ideas and demonstrating plenty of initiative. This person is also passionate and forthright. He/she has a good sense of public relations and will have plenty of social skills. Some however regard someone like this as stubborn, who tends to be argumentative and quarrelsome.

8 Unbalanced Appearance of Face & Teeth

Here the face and teeth seem to be mismatched, particularly when the face seems too small and the teeth seem too big. This is not a good indication as larger than normal teeth signify many obstacles in life. This kind of imbalance is not favoured amongst Chinese Matriarchs looking for potential wives for their sons, as this signifies a woman who will cause problems for the husband.

9 Tiger Teeth

People with this kind of teeth have different luck depending on their gender. It is unfavourable for males, as guys with this kind of teeth tend to have bad family luck. His relationship with his parents and wife are usually not good. In women, however, this teeth structure brings good relationship and wealth luck. People with this kind of teeth tend to be straightforward. This however could upset others, especially those with their own agendas.

10 Very Tiny and Neat Teeth

A person with small teeth tends to be a very stingy person. To this person, money is everything and they are easily motivated by the promise of a cash reward. Such people are also prone to jealousy and do not trust people easily. When there is a gap in the front teeth, it also indicates an inability to save money.

11 Neat but Uneven Teeth Structure

Here the teeth are either one big or one small; one front, or one back, either too long, or too short. It looks neat but the structure is badly formed. From young, this person should get dental braces to even out the imbalances. Teeth like these suggest someone who likes to tease or fool around, believing this makes people happy. Alas, most times, his/her efforts at tomfoolery just causes a great deal of annoyance. When the front teeth is upside down or uneven, it signifies a bad relationship with parents. Even when this person stays with the parents, the relationship is bad.

Colour

The perfect colour of teeth is not pure white but a milky colour. People with milky looking teeth are high-minded, humble and kind. When the teeth are also tidy and seem to be in good balance with the rest of the face, it signifies someone optimistic and passionate who will enjoy a good life.

Someone with super white teeth is someone who likes to fool around, is flirtatious and skittish, and in matters of the heart, not to be trusted. Such a person will not think twice about being unfaithful or betraying a loved one. Not good spouse material at all!

When teeth tend to be yellowish it suggests someone with a mild nature, who is patient and calm, and rarely hot tempered. Yellow teeth also suggests a healthy and long life.

When the white teeth are dry as well, it indicates a violent person who has a very hot temper. When teeth are dry and yellowish, it is not a good sign as this indicates plenty of obstacles and continuous bad luck. In this case, better to get your teeth fixed!

When the teeth is yellowish and seems moist as well, it signifies someone who tends to be psychically weak. This person tends to be petite and fragile looking, but this hides a very strong and tough person. Such people are very lucky in terms of being successful in endeavours.

Teeth that tend to look stained, brownish or blackish indicates a person to avoid. This person obviously does not look after his/her teeth. The energy surrounding such a person is negative and nasty.

Size

The size of teeth in relation to the face also offers clues to a person’s success potential. People who have big teeth that are also regular in shape have what are known as “dragon teeth”. This signifies someone powerful who has excellent career and wealth luck. Such a person will become respected and well known as an honourable person during middle age, and is slated for a good life with a good ending.

When the front teeth appear big, it suggests an active person, someone with high sex drive who gets passionate about the things and causes. Such a person is reliable and trustworthy.

When teeth are neat but small and appear to have deep roots, this is known as “ox teeth”. People with such teeth enjoy good fortune all through life. They live long and enjoy wealth and riches. When the roots do not seem deep, then small neat teeth symbolizes someone with an impulsive nature who is likely to make mistakes.

When the face is presentable with a good mouth shape, but the teeth are uneven, the person tends to be fussy and overly critical of others. Such a person is a mischief maker although there is rarely any intention to give harm or cause pain.