人長大了，也發現不需要很多朋友。或者說∶ 當我們漸漸長大，朋友也漸漸減少。是個遺憾嗎？還是，一個惡性循環？
周遭的朋友越來越少。所以，近來對‘失而復得’的朋友們也有一種興奮的感覺。當然，曉得這份興奮的感覺不會持續很久。所以特別珍惜。
被朋友環繞着的人是件很幸福的事；至少我是這麽認爲。但，留下來的是否都是志趣相投、傾心吐膽的呢？也許吧！有時，真的觉得朋友不需要那麽多。
可否遇過，當你需要朋友的時候，望著手機裏密密麻麻的號碼卻不知道該打給誰的情形？我碰過。就好像遠火救不了近水。
停停走走；去去留留。希望失去的能晉級到永久。
wow.. reading this old article on sunday times in Oct 2008 do have some impact on me. someone even 'highlighted' those 'key words' in RED!
imagine a student could draw $500 for her monthly pocket money?!?! that is almost the same for us working adults.. maybe more..
i wondered are we living in such luxury society that we forgot to save for that rainy days?? or is it her parents have been poor during their younger days that they do not want their kids to suffer?? or is it they earned too much and had no place to spend, therefore showered their love in monetary terms??
buying branded watches and bags.. it's something that i had never done in my life so far.. my most valuable possessions which i first came out to work was a jean paul (i don't even remember the full spelling of the brand) which cost about $300+.. that was 10 over years ago and the bag had gone to salvation army already.. later, all my watches and bags are all less than $100..
as a student, is it really necessary to have a $500 monthly pocket money?? yes, maybe i'm being sour grape.. the living standards are getting higher each day.. is it necessary??
if that's the case, i do envy those students who are drawing this amount or equivalent.. in fact i do heard similar cases of it.. i'm envious!
Poor guy *Dirty Jokes*
A man escapes from prison where he has been for 15 years. He breaks into a house to look for money and guns and finds a young couple in bed.
He orders the guy out of bed and ties him to a chair, while tying the girl to the bed he gets on top of her, kisses her neck, then gets up and goes into the bathroom. While he's in there, the husband tells his wife:"
Listen, this guy's an escaped convict, look at his clothes! He probably spent lots of time in jail and hasn't seen a woman in years. I saw how he kissed your neck." If he wants sex, don't resist, don't complain, do whatever he tells you. Satisfy him no matter how much he nauseates you. This guy is probably very dangerous. If he gets angry, he'll kill us. Be strong, honey. I love you."
To which his wife responds: "He wasn't kissing my neck. He wwas whispering in my ear. He told me he was gay, thought you were cute, and asked me if we had any vaseline. I told him it was in the bathroom. Be strong honey. I love you too!!"
Blonde Joke
Only three doors
An airline captain was breaking in a new blonde stewardess. The route they were flying had a layover in another city. Upon their arrival, the captain showed the stewardess the best place for airline personnel to eat, shop and stay overnight.
The next morning, as the pilot was preparing the crew for the day's route, he noticed the new stewardess was missing. He knew which room she was in at the hotel and called her up wondering what happened. She answered the phone, crying, and said she couldn't get out of her room. "You can't get out of your room?" the captain asked, "Why not?"
The stewardess replied: "There are only three doors in here," she sobbed, "one is the bathroom, one is the closet, and one has a sign on it that says 'Do Not Disturb'!"
Dear Friends, this is a good article, hope you could enjoy it during your busy days.. Appreaciate the life you have now.. 男孩也好女孩也好，一起看看幾米的讀白吧...... (of course not my actual friend)
1.很清楚的知道她不合適自己，可是更確定的是他不會主動說分手。 他只是耗著等著，直到有一天女生自己受不了忽冷忽熱、若即若離的態度，或是等到年華老去不得不下決定時，自己選擇離開。妳的主動離開，我沒有負心，反而是尊重與成全妳的決定。
2. 半年後發現，他居然可以跟一個只認識三個月的女生步入禮堂，令她晴天霹靂，才明白他不是不想結婚，不是真的不婚主義者，說穿了只是他不想跟妳結婚。
八年的愛情長跑比不上三個月的感情。
3. 這位故事中的男生是我的朋友，現在也已經結婚半年。當他聽到劉若英的「後來」，居然會無法克制的流眼淚，想起的是他交往八年的前任女友。
為什麼會難過，因為妻子身上有著前任女友的影子，他才明白其實他喜歡的就是這種類型的女孩。
4. 可是人往往很矛盾，喜歡她的倔強與有性格，卻受不了她的嬌縱。
喜歡她的落落大方，卻受不了她的朋友一堆；
你愛她的小家碧玉，就不要怪她不夠大方；
你愛她的活潑大方，就不要批評她像花蝴蝶一樣。
戀愛談的愈長，結婚的可能性就愈低，所以有時候戀愛的長度與結婚的可能性成反比。
5. 喜新厭舊是人性，日子久了，會結婚不是為了愛情，而是責任感的驅使。婚後的他才慢慢的發現，當時的那一段感情其實不是不愛，是時間太久了太長了，把愛情給磨掉了，再遇到另一個女孩點燃了愛情的火苗，星星之火足以遼源，把枯竭已久的愛情給予生命，所以倉促的決定結婚。
等到真的結婚後，愛情降了溫，才慢慢的發現其實妻子的身上有著許多前任女友的影子，他比較愛的人其實還是前任女友，可是他娶的卻不是她。
這樣的情節不知道是不是也在別處同樣上演著？
6. 學生時代的愛情很單純，出社會以後總想等工作穩定以後再結婚，工作穩定以後又想等有一點積蓄買車子、買房子以後再結婚，等著等著，等到愛情被時光給消磨，等到第三者介入點燃了對方心中激情的火苗，乾柴烈火不可收拾以後，曾經在年少一起織夢的理想全都抵擋不了新鮮感的激情，所以琵琶別抱，到最後步入禮堂的都不是在一起同甘共苦、共同經歷過寒、暑假，等當兵的人。
7. 所以奉勸各位女孩子，
如果對方真的是你想結婚的對象，不要想著有房子有車子有金子，有了一切再結婚。
現實是，等他有了一切，他的身價暴漲是有價值的單身貴族，他必需要面臨的是更多的誘惑，妳長久以來的等待與年輕時許 下的山盟海誓都難以抵擋誘惑排山倒海的來。
就像我現在若不嫁他，非得等到他有車子有房子還有存款時再結婚，那時新娘有極高的可能不是我。
因為要等到什麼都有還要幾年？
有能力的男人就像酒愈久愈香醇，女人則像麵包一樣有賞味期限，青春是女人的天敵。
如果我是他，等到我三十五歲，什麼都有是個有上千萬身價的黃金單身漢，我並不需要一個很有能力而年過三十的女人來幫襯我，我寧可選個如花似玉，年輕貌美的女生，也許沒有什麼工作能力，至少發揮了賞心悅目的功能，一個真正有能力的男人，不會在乎一個女人是否能在他的財富上加乘。
遇上對的人，莫等待莫蹉跎，也許沒有房子沒有車子，只要他認真上進，他就是張有潛力的積優股，早點進場獲利更高。
8. 也提醒各位男士，
如果對方真的是你想好好疼愛的女人，別讓她等太久，有她一起陪你奮鬥應該是很美好的一件事除非你心中有其他的想法，否則別讓愛情等太久，把真愛都磨掉了！雖然聽起來很殘忍,但身邊的家人朋友都有類似的例子。
真愛，就不要等，除非是不想結婚......
do you love reading biographies of others?? be it famous or not? ok, there won't be any biography if the person is not famous, right?? haha.. :P
it's interesting to know that youtube do have it!! recommended by my 小朋友 a while ago.. what can i say? she do know me well!! i enjoyed it!!
the show is called A&E Biography. airing on America TV daily which feature TV stars, singers, scientists, etc. anything you want to read about. they even won the Emmy awards twice!
the particular section she introduced were...... have you guessed it correctly???
yup, it's about serial killers and psychopaths..
so far the 2 episodes i finished watching happened in USA.. (wondered if HK have any similar show?? hmm... ) both truly shocked me.. how could they killed dozens of people in that kind of frightening manner??
after watching the famous one, Ted Bundy.. youtube even had a video on how he was executed on the electric chair as he had killed more than 30 women, committing about 50 murders!!
i decided to call it a day.. the feeling of 'scared' rises from within.. maybe i'm old for these types of scary stuffs.. just not sure why i couldn't go on watching..
that's why decided to write this entry instead.. haha.. killed my 'scariness' away for the time being.. maybe tomorrow, i'll continue?? haha..
i will not link to this entry as it will be a bit 'gruesome' for some readers.. do a search on youtube if you are interested.. A&E biography is good enough, i guess?? :-)
我是個國中的 國文老師，生平最痛苦的事情就是改作文!! 字醜就算了，還會自己學倉頡創字!! 創字就算了，還會用自己奇怪的邏輯寫句子!!每次都改到哭笑不得…………
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１、元旦時，我們全家一起到歷史博物館參觀「冰馬桶」…
師評：有這樣的東西嗎？我也要去！（兵馬俑）
２、早上起床整裡「遺容」後，我們到學校集合，搭車前往墾丁畢業旅行
師評：不知道你家是哪一家殯儀館？老師一直都不知道…（儀容）
３、昨晚左眼皮跳個不停，當時就覺得那是「胸罩」，果然今天皮夾被扒走了!
師評：孩子，你已經這麼大了嗎？（凶兆 ）
４、報上說重金屬污染過的牡蠣，可「治」癌…
師評：一字之差，養蚵人家翻身矣！我是不是該趕快去養牡蠣？會賺到翻哦… （致癌）
５、昨晚我和同學到速食店吃晚餐，我們點了兩個漢堡、「雞份一塊」…
師評：好吃嗎？雞糞？（雞塊一份）
６、星期天準備外出逛街時，匆忙之間不小心給「肛門」夾到，真倒楣!!
師評：老師很好奇──誰的肛門這麼大…？（鋼門）
７、四下無人，不要從背後 拍我肩膀，我很容易「受精」…
師評：孩子，我可能是你爸哦… 老師記得曾這樣讓很多人「受精」喔!（受驚）
８、逛完花市後，我花錢買下「賤男」，準備帶回家過年。
師評：發音正確一點，「劍蘭」會哭的…
９、我的歷史老師長髮披肩，個子矮小，脾氣不好，有一點點「胸」…
師評：歷史老師要我轉告你「等下上歷史課﹐皮給我繃緊一點。」（兇）
１０、我認為自己是個品學兼「憂」的好學生…
師評：你是該憂了──不及格。（優）
１１、在「崎嶇坎坷」的人生「康莊大道」上，我們要堅定方向…
師評：此路可繼世界八大奇蹟兵馬俑之後，登上第九大奇蹟。
１２、從小就住在我們家隔壁的陳伯伯住家三樓最後面一間廚房不知道為什麼會三不五時地飄來一陣又一陣烹煮紅燒牛肉時所散發出來的濃濃迷人中藥味道…
師評：明天麻煩你一口氣唸完這句給我聽，不准換氣。
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這次出的作文題目是：美食與我
我非常沾沾自喜，相當期待這麼生活化又簡單的題目一定能讓他們發揮的淋漓盡致，可以減輕我每次改作文到快往生的噩運!!!沒想到我錯了!!!!!!! 這些天兵天將們每個都是未來的棟樑????……
節錄一些下來:
1. 我最喜歡吃的食物是生魚片，但是生魚片最讓我困擾的地方就是他的魚刺很多。
2. 我最喜歡吃的食物是生魚片，唯一美中不足的是，他總是沒煮熟。
3. 我最喜歡吃的美食是青菜，青菜中最喜歡吃的美食是白菜，為什麼喜歡吃白 菜呢？因為他是青菜的一種。
（繞口令嗎？）
4. 我最喜歡吃滷肉飯跟貢丸湯，他們對我來說不只是一種美食，而是……兩種美食。
（真是謝謝你的數學教學）
5. 我最喜歡吃外婆煮的菜，裡面包含了很多愛心，但是萬一外婆死了我就吃不到了，所以我要趁外婆還活著的時候，叫他每天煮三餐給我吃。
（這算虐待老人嗎？）
6. 我最喜歡吃那種在外面跑的雞肉。
（所以你要吃雞肉前都要追著他跑？）
7. 我最喜歡吃美食，是那種出現陸地上，天天都看的到的那種肉。
（人肉？）
8. 我對美食的要求很嚴格，他不能是由一位傷心的廚師做出來的。
（連續劇看太多了，孩子）
9. 媽媽很厲害，他下廚以後，可以把一顆蛋變成一顆荷包蛋。
（不然呢？）
10. 每次媽媽煮完菜我們全家都會歡呼，於是媽媽就走進廚房再做第二道。
（原來你家都是一道菜煮完再煮一道…）
11. 我很喜歡跟爸爸去逛夜市，因為美食都能讓我感到垂涎三尺，只要我看到那 些食物出現，就會跟爸爸說我要吃這個我要吃那個結果我當然什麼都沒吃到。
（好心酸的孩子）
12. 我最喜歡吃媽媽煮的菜，跟外面賣的差的可遠呢!
（那到底是好吃還是不好吃？）
13. 世界上美食很多，其中我最喜歡吃的外國料理是台南擔仔麵。
（同學，請問你是哪國人？）
14. 生魚片實在是太好吃了，每次一想到我的口水都會緩緩的滴下來…
（慢動作嗎？）
15. 有一樣食物讓我百吃不厭，那就是雙胞胎，名字聽起來大家一定都會覺得很 奇怪，沒錯，他就是很奇怪。
（這樣有解釋到嗎？）
16. 我吃東西總是又快又急，沒辦法，熟能生巧嘛!
（我呼吸總是又快又急，沒辦法，熟能生巧嘛…！）
有前輩說：他上輩子殺了人，所以這輩子處罰他當老師。唉... 我想我不只殺了人，還是…………
殺.. 錯.. 人.. 才會淪落到當國文老師…………
換小學老師了:
１。題目：一邊……一邊……
小朋友寫：他一邊脫衣服，一邊穿褲子。
老師批語：他到底是要脫還是要穿啊？
２。題目：其中
小朋友寫：我的其中一只左腳受傷了。
老師批語：你是蜈蚣嗎？
３。題目：陸陸續續
小朋友寫：下班了，爸爸陸陸續續的回家了。
老師批語：你到底有幾個爸爸呀？
４。題目：難過
小朋友寫：我家門前有條水溝很難過。
老師批語：老師更難過。
５。題目：又 又
小朋友寫：我的媽媽又矮又高又胖又瘦。
老師批語；你的媽媽是變形金鋼嗎？
６。題目：你看
小朋友寫：你看什麼看！沒看過啊
老師批語：沒看過
７。題目：欣欣向榮
小朋友寫：欣欣向榮榮告白。
老師批語：連續劇不要看太多了！
８。題目：好吃
小朋友寫：好吃個屁。
老師批語：有些東西是不能吃的。
９。題目：天真
小朋友寫：今天真熱。
老師批語：你真天真。
１０。題目：果然
小朋友寫：昨天我吃水果，然後喝涼水。
老師批語：是詞組，不能分開的。
１１。題目：先……再……，例題：先吃飯，再冼澡。
小朋友寫：先生，再見！
老師批語：想像力超過了地球人的智慧。
１２。題目：況且
小朋友寫：一列火車經過，況且況且況且況且況且況
老師批語：我死了算了 @@
finally our dear MM, mr. lee bought this up at this year 講華語運動 event.. (http://news.asiaone.com/News/AsiaOne%2BNews/Singapore/Story/A1Story20090318-129236.html)
能講華語的父母應該與他們的子女們多講華語。因爲，他們長大侯會有自然學習英語的環境。也盡量不要一個用英語、另一個用華語來溝通；以爲能訓練孩子有雙語文的能力。但錯了，孩子還是會對華語有排斥。或不能把華文掌握好。
許多朋友，包括同事都有同樣的問題。能言善道沒問題，但如果叫他們看或寫？問題就來了。我只有少數的朋友能在完全沒幫助的情況下把一篇簡單的文章看完。
而理由都一致∶ 華文很難。
真的有那麽難嗎？連我在這部落格用簡單的文字抒發我的情感，對他們來説是種閲讀的累贅。覺得太難了。可是，都是普通的文字啊！也應該與我用的是繁體字沒關係吧！
正如我們的MM 說∶ 多用、多看、多聼、多講就行了。
你們不是也用同樣的方法學習英文嗎？
i'm back to reality yesterday.. reached home about evening time.. came back with flu though.. ya, didn't take care of myself..
still felt a bit lethargic over the whole event that happened over the weekend..
no internet, no calls.. it's was kind of acceptable to me after all.. so next time, i could go further and longer from my 'break'.. haha..
went for my class at night.. and felt so uncomfortable as i'm having running nose.. haha..
received a call from home earlier..
my sis told me that our KL grandma passed away.. i was in shocked after i heard the news.. my mind was spinning with questions.. when i reached home later, found out that she died in her sleep.. it's a blessing when old people died in their sleep.. furthermore she's old already.. 80+ i guess?
ya, i knew it's an part and parcel of life.. at this moment; right here in singapore, i'm still fine.. i can't guarantee what will happen upon reaching at the scene later in KL..
i only knew it's a pity that she couldn't wait to attend any of her 3rd generation grand children's (which include me) weddings anymore.. suddenly my heart felt so painful for her..
had to cancel some appointments due to this sudden news.. sorry daniel!! i'll join you next time.. i can't go IT show too which my cousin, his friend and me actually wanted to purchase something..
lastly, thanks all my friends who had send me your condolences.. appreiate it!! i'll be fine and i'll be back on tuesday..
suddenly, i had no mood in doing anything.. :'(
decided to read a young friend's 'old' blog a while ago.. a blog she used to pen thoughts about her ex-boyfriend and her love story..
was kinda surprised that after so long she still missed him.. haiz, maybe it's her first love.. so she's not able to let it go within a short period of time.. but it's been 6 months already?? does it still considered short??
not sure if she knew about my blog.. but, i still wanna tell her:
爲何還那麽傻？都過了這麽久了，他也有另一半了。何不把這份思戀放手？我知道很難做到。而且，不是有另一個男人闖進你的世界嗎？
給這新來的參賽者一個勇敢闖關的機會吧！縱然很艱難，但不試又怎麽曉得是否有結果呢？輸贏往往就在一線之差。。
也許對這參賽者有點不公平，但他都有勇氣報名參賽了，你何須還猶豫不決、顧慮會否他會出局？如果他能參賽，那就表示他以做好準備被踢出局或與你跑完這比賽了。
關鍵在於∶ 你是否願意給他這個資格？
i lost my fighting spirits again.. i need to buck up; buck up!!
things that you think it's alright are not alright anymore.. short little interactions have become like a 'are-you-very-free' behaviour in other people's eyes.. everything that used to be harmless are slowly leading to some new problem..
be it 2 words or 20 words.. words which never seem to harm anything or anybody has quietly becoming a possible threat to yourself..
yup, i felt rotten/rejected/dreadful within minutes when all the above scenarios were thrown to me.. it's slowly eating up my motivation... yup, it's really a wake up call indeed..
also knew about the 3 possible steps that company would do during a bad timing..
first, freeze head count.. not working? next, replacement freeze.. still no progress? lastly, which is also the worst, laid off.. some do it last in; first out or top to bottom down..
after hearing this.. i knew some day, somthing terrible/unfortunate things may happen.. we're into the 5th month of bad news (i.e. no sales)..
最近和我的BFF看了好幾部blockbusters..
電影是好的、叫座的.. 但每次看完，我就忍不住淚汪汪。。從〈the curious case of benjamin button〉
我真的有這麽感性嗎？emo到不行。連我的BFF都說爲何我眼淚那麽多?? 要是淹了整個戲院，我們可沒錢還咯 :D
come to think of it.. hmm.. 真的有一段日子沒為戯傷心流淚了。是壓力、功課、還是你讓我這麽不由自主？？都不是啦, 我向來都是個感性的女人。哈哈！
過後我們去了the cheesecake cafe，因爲她每次都沒去成。結果，她幸運了!!! 碰了三次釘子的她終于如願以償。但是，cheesecake cafe 把主菜刪除了。結果我兩只有吃cheesecake 與 cheese fries 當晚餐了。:(
i'm glad my BFF is happy.. tomorrow it's another intensive week for my last term for year 1.. hope it's over soon.. heehee..
p/s: she taught me what is BFF which is aka best friend forever.. LOLz..
看到一則覺得“無奇不有”的新聞。(http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/eu_spain_eye_for_eye)
有位伊朗的女孩被前男友潑了鏹水而瞎了兩只眼睛。結果，她把這件事帶上法庭，以‘以牙還牙報應’的判決要求也把她的前男友弄瞎。
結果，她只贏了一半。 根據伊朗的法律，除非她願意支付Euro20,000，不然她的前男友只需瞎一只眼睛。
在伊朗，男女是不平等的。那裏是∶ 一個男人等於兩個女人。所以，她的前男友只被懲罰瞎了一只眼。
看完這則新聞，我不禁想∶ 公平嗎？
也許，這位女孩覺得公平；因爲那男的受到應有的懲罰；他得到該有的報應了。或者覺得不公平；爲何她瞎了兩眼但他卻單眼？這就得看每個人如何去看待事情的角度而訂。
但，我永遠相信，報應是會發生的。
first time went to India embassy.. well, need to apply visa for my boss as he's leaving next week..
first, it takes 5 working days to process; next, which unfortunately, the embassy are closed next tuesday and wednesday.. since my boss is leaving tuesday night, so can't make it in time..
no choice, had to go down personally to apply on his behalf (so could get it out faster).. luckily, after some waiting, i managed to get it submitted and collection next monday..
phew!! ealier i was so worried as i just couldn't find the embassy, then after i parked my car at the other street and walking back, i found it.. *angry angry*
and i was in my 3" heels today.. did so much walking that my right toe is in pain again.. :(
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after work, met my ex classmate and another classmate after we decided to meet a week ago.. nobody initiated anything, so we sit on it until we finally took action on monday.. haha..
wow, she's (ex) so different now compared to we met last year when our degree starts.. i still remembered she always had her favourite 口頭禪: "i'm so tired today" without failed..
(this of course didn't end here.. took over by another classmate of mine le.. haha..)
anyway we did a lot of catching up today.. always enjoyed chatting with these 2 gals as they are like a 小妹 to me.. both of them 小我一輪咯.. haiz, i'm a old woman liao.. and, they are 1.72m tall?? i feel so small in their eyes.. haha.. one of them still call me 大姐.. kind of missed this 稱呼 for a while.. haha..
anyway, enjoyed their company and look forward to the next one!! we're goin KTV and got to learn that song 我不是偉人 by 陳小春 already (which i had been listening from my post since i started writing) :D
Whatever you gave a woman, she will make it greater.
If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby.
If you give her a house, she'll give you a home.
If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal.
If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart.
She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her.
So, if you give her any crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit.
