Tuesday 30 December 2008

... abbreviations ...

Father

And

Mother

I

Love

You

Washing

Ironing

Food

Entertainment

Housing

Understanding

Sharing

Buying

And

Never

Demanding

How are you?

Everything all right?

Like to hear from you

Love to see you soon!

Obviously, i miss you..

so hello! good day!

Monday 29 December 2008

... weddings are made of these ...

I was at a friend's wedding dinner earlier.. one of the usual dinners that could have been..

Have you ever wondered how to make a wedding memorable?? a while ago, i did a project on a wedding planner (sadly, the results are not out yet).. i was wondering in real life if we could throw in whatever that we have planned in our project, what a 'memorable' wedding would that be? haha..

Well, after attended so many wedding dinners & lunch (yes, this is without a 's' as there is only 1 so far..) i find that it's really not easy to plan one's ultimate meaningful, unforgettable, memorable, wedding of the lifetime…

I always had lots of thoughts (感觸)after I attended the wedding dinner.

Kind of feel relaxed for the bride and groom after a long day.. they must have went through tons of stuffs that is needed to be accomplished in a day…

Why they choose to have dinner/lunch here? wow, this wedding gown is nice, wonder where they got it from?? ohh, the wedding photos are just what i wanted.. how much is the pakage? must be expensive man.. etc.

In this century, some couples have do away with some customs and keep some that they want… like the 敬茶 to the elderly… I noticed this is one that is passed down till today…

Blah blah blah, the list goes on…

However, I have heard of weddings that is real simple too.. just a “I now pronounced you husband and wife” – a ‘registered’ ceremony at ROM and that’s it..

Sometimes, I really wondered if the bride really let this matter rest in this manner?? No wedding gown to wear, no photo taking, no discussion on which restaurant/hotel to hold dinner/lunch, etc.? Just like that?? Registered your marriage will do?

Hey, I’m not siding the brides but the least the groom could do is to have something ‘meaningful’ yet touches the heart in exchange, isn’t it??

C’mon, I’m not going to give you any ideas.. I shall leave this huge responsibility to yourself to figure out..

Well, if you asked me what will mine be... well, it will be a simple ROM day… no dinner/lunch thingy… BUT, it will be followed by honeymoon of at least 2 weeks (best is 1 month) to whatever (I haven’t really thought where yet) to complete the whole thing.. I’m greedy isn’t it?? Haha…

*I’m not even attached so my wedding may not even happen.. haha..*

Sunday 21 December 2008

... 也許 ...

也許,我還忘不了你的好、那段好長的感情。對你的付出與我的背叛還耿耿於懷。我嘗試補償或挽救但都已經徒然了。因爲我一直在乎的事竟然又離我而去。

也許,朋友說中了∶ 由始至終,我根本沒愛過;因爲還沒遇到。但我拒絕相信。曾經以爲你會是陪在我身邊的最後一個人。有你;我不需要浪漫也不奢求華麗的寵愛。

也許,我傷害了你。使你曾付出的一切都完完全全白費了。你的以爲促使放縱我的空虛。曾給你我能負擔的卻只換來冷漠的無動於衷。

也許,你是個享受者;為你的付出喝彩。難道就不能換個角色來感受嗎?只要一次就好。

也許,真相就擺在眼前,但往往我們就是無法看見。

也許,我的世界你不曾在乎。你的話語還浮現在我腦海裏;你說的我都記得,那我說的你是否沒忘記?是敷衍我還是真心話?我已經分不清楚了。

有些時候我真的很恨自己。不是該學會“拿得起,放得下”嗎?但我發現有些事我卻無法做到。

Friday 19 December 2008

... sydney murder case ... all over again?? ...

I was reading the news this morning.. came across the news about the re-trial of the Sydney murder case.

Found out that the Australia Government (Court of Appeal) will be looking for a 're-cap' of the murder case again.. i.e. a re-trial for Ram Puneet Tiwary.

Oh my god!! 5 yrs after everyone thought the case had ended, but not anymore.. i start to 'fear' that Ram would be free.. (which my whole family dun understand why am i afraid?? that includes myself too.. but that was seriously the initial reaction when reading the news..)

Are there really loop holes in the case?? the papers mentioned that nobody could prove Ram was the one that killed.. i.e. no eye witness nor any noise..

Asked my dad about uncle tay (yes, we knew one of the victim's family) how he felt after a few days.. well, dad said that he was calm but felt a bit shocked that the case is brought up again.. but nobody could do anything .. it's the choice of the victims' family whether to go australia for the hearing. i knew the tan family are not going..

I'm loss for words.. just hope things won't turned out to be what i thought.. murderer can't go free after killing 2 people right??

See Full Report: Straits Times 18 Dec 08

(Source: http://news.asiaone.com/News/the%2BStraits%2BTimes/Story/A1Story20081218-108626.html)

Sunday 7 December 2008

... 觉悟、领悟 ...

人,往往因爲某些人與事而做些意想不到的犧牲;忽略了身旁関心他們的朋友和家人。以爲,不讓身邊關心的人知道就無所謂。結果,事實偏偏就不會站在理所當然的一邊。

辜負了関心的人、把這辜負便宜了不該分享這成果的人。

也許你會恨自己 ~ 氣啊氣!哭一場是希望能補償做錯事所闖的禍嗎?能夠嗎?真的行嗎?就好像天使與魔鬼的鬥爭。。

到現在才覺悟當初的教訓是真實、刻苦銘心的。是否是太遲了?

想想吧,朋友!


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