Wednesday 30 December 2009

... my darkest day ...

i was knocked by a real shocking new last evening.. a bad news to me.. after reading the email that my GM send to us at 5.46pm..

my wonderful superior cum buddy.. closest colleague i had is leaving!! nobody knew what happened.. it came as a surprise (especially when me + 2 other colleagues got it 'fresh' from the oven).. as the email was only send slightly after most of us left it didn't create much commotion in the office..

lost my mood all of a sudden when i'm on my way to meet my 老大, francis.. later in the night, my GM also send me an sms informing about the news.. one colleague called me to check what is happening too..

what a evening..

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morning came.. i knew some commotion will happen after that.. everyone entered the office.. well, everyone looked alright.. or are they looking to hide the sad news inside them??

my superior came in later in the morning.. she greeted everyone as usual.. she looked as per normal too..

i was alright when she stepped in.. though my mood was already affected since last evening.. soon, i realized i was trying so hard to put on a smile and even had to breathe in hard each time the phone rang.. just to put on my brave front so nobody would knew i'm so affected..

i was also trying to avoid entering her room this morning which i always did.. catch up things wit her.. but not today.. as i knew i would be very very emotional afterwards..

yes, and i did.. when i need her to sign some invoices and the farewell lunch petty cash voucher we intended for another colleague of ours.. her last day is today too as her contract expired..

i tried to enquire about her side of the story but i couldn't hold it anymore.. i left her room crying withing minutes.. she told me we'll talk later..

lunch time came.. i refused to go into the conference room.. everyone was happily laughing away.. i don't blame them.. maybe they are trying very hard to hold that sad part of their emotion in them too..

furthermore, i wasn't hungry as i had 4 slices of sandwich in the morning already.. plus i really got no mood to eat.. then i was asked to go in.. trying damn hard and refused to look at my superior.. she still the same.. smiling away.. cracked some jokes but i knew my laughter wasn't genuine..

clock ticking away and i knew soon i got to bid her goodbye.. finally we had a short talk after lunch.. knew her side of the story.. it was a real surprise.. it was anticipated but didn't expected it would come at this time.. then we both sobbed.. my tears were flowing non-stop when she said: "if there's a chance, i hope to work together with you again" yes yes!! i would hope the same that someday, somewhere she will be my manager again..

later in the afternoon, my financial controller (aka FC) asked me to go to his room.. i knew he had some explanation for me.. and IT manager was around too.. my FC was expecting i would be the first to ask him questions pertaining to the earlier announcement.. but where do you want me to start??? all the whys and hows were no more of any significance right?? decision is already made..

tears flowed again when i told him of course i'm the most affected as the person leaving is my superior and she's also the one who brought me into this company.. never did i thought i would cried in front of my colleagues..

well, i know it's going to take awhile to get over this and i had to move on.... just hope the new year would be a good time to get over it and start my new life.. without my HR & Admin manager..

Saturday 26 December 2009

... another ordinary day ...

today, reminds me of the song sang by phil collins "another day in paradise".. of course, i'm not in paradise yet.. it's another normal saturday..

ok, this post is going to be bored.. haha..

my family came back from vacation last night.. tell u man, didn't know my handsome little brother got so much things!!!!!!! there were 6 huge, big luggage plus 3 hand carry bags.. of course, 3 of the bags contained souvenirs.. also food stuffs.. (i saw maggi mee?!?!)

my sisters are busy unpacking now and i'm so bored doing nothing.. nowhere to go as no one date me.. can't sleep when it's raining at my place right now.. arrghhh!! suddenly i feel like i really have no life.. haha..

tonight, my little brother will then come back for good.. finally after 2 years.. time pass so fast!! even he had completed his degree already.. now i'm the only one left that is still studying..

heard my sis said he had slimmed down and now fitter liao.. wow!! wonder how he looked like now..

Friday 25 December 2009

... old dogs ...

went to kallang leisure park to meet my xiaodi (aka bai ka now ~ he just had an accident) and his girl friends and her friends.. he knew i got no dinner as i'm home alone so jio-ed me for dinner lor..

had KFC for dinner (what a xmas eve dinner hor?!) and got no where to go, so they suggested catching a show..

in the end, we watched "old dogs" over "princess and the frog" ~ heng didn't watch princess as i don't really like that story.. hee..

wah, the movie "old dogs" it damn hilarious!! xiaodi was laughing so loud non-stop at certain point that i was so worried he get choked.. haha..

it's a must watch, i must say!! here's the "sneak preview" for your viewing pleasure!

oh ya, by the way it's christmas and i'm so blur that thought parking is gonna be expensive as i thought it's saturday's rate today.. then remember it's weekday.. haha..

lastly, a merry xmas to my readers here!! jingle bells, jingle bells, jingle all the way!! and let's welcome 2010 in a week's time!! :D

Wednesday 23 December 2009

... am i really popular?! ...

am i really that popular? how come everyone in the office asked if i'm going to the company dinner?

to be honest, i don't feel like attending as the venue is at red dot and i've been there a few times already..

when my GM asked if i'm going he even 'suan' me saying if i'm still working for the company.. nowadays, i don't joined any gathering already..

it's only last saturday and the later dinner mah.. haiz.. and i got valid reasons why i can't go.. last saturday was because i got to rush my coursework that is due earlier.. and tomorrow i'm going shopping in JB; and not sure what time i'm coming back..

rather than promised but didn't go right? haha..

Monday 21 December 2009

... copied piece ~ vote in the next election ...

got this interesting piece from my friend.. traced the source and it's actually written by a blogger.. i'm not revealing his nickname and title of this entry has also been changed to protect his identity.. he's quite a young chap though and i would have to say: "i agreed!".. read it!

P/S: As you finished reading, he had taken down the post from his blog.. so, risk my life, i shall fully 'copy & paste this in my blog instead.. don't be surprised that soon i may be asked to remove this entry too..

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That so many Singaporeans behave like sheep and recite the prescribed mantra all the time about our government (namely, that we owe it all tothem) really only reveals the plight of our people. Not only are Singaporeans amongst the lowest earners in the developed world in monetary terms, they are also almost definitely the poorest in the faculty to think for themselves, as a result of the education system.

Now that I am of age to vote, I am unable to vote for the PAP in the coming election because there is such an urgent need to send across astrong signal through their very thick skulls that there is a problemin the way it's running this country. I am not a member of the Opposition, and I do not want the Opposition to take over this country, but because there will always be too many sheep in Singapore anyway, we need every vote FOR the Opposition just to manage to produce a dent in the PAP's smugly expected results. There will always be the apathetic, the boot-lickers, the cowardly, and the ignorant to ensure they win eventually anyway.

The difference we can make, however, is how much it wins by. Perhaps if it loses a GRC or two (and the GRC is a PAP invention), they will shake off their slumber and start ruling Singapore as a Republic, that is, for the public, for the People (rather than for personal interests).

Remember how LKY said he will send in the army if there ever is a "freak election" and the PAP is voted out of Parliament? In every other country, when the people vote out the ruling party, it is called a mandate. It is only in Singapore that such a vote is called a "freak election". Also,whose Army is it anyway? Is it the Army of the people of Singapore - who have just voted out the PAP? Or is it the Army of the PAP?

I list here ten out of the many other reasons why I am unable to votefor the PAP:

1. I will not render unto Caesar what is not Caesar's

Given that Singapore's poor are amongst the Developed World's poorest, while living standards are amongst the highest in the world, it is not difficult to see why the Government's ridiculous salaries are distastefully inflated.

The President earns $3.9 million, the PM $3.8 million, the MM and SM$3.5 million each, all other ministers between $2 to $3.2 million and allministers of state between $1.5 to $1.8 million. These salaries do not include MP allowances, pensions and other sources of income such as Directorship, Chairmanship, Advisory, Consultancy, etc to government-linked and government-related organisations or foreign MNCs, etc. And why are they allowed to work for foreign corporations in the first place? Weren't their ridiculously-high salaries justified with the excuse that it'll be THIS excessive precisely so that they will focus on doing their ministerial jobs? Where is the check and balance in this government?

How much do you earn in a year?

In contrast, President Obama earns a more reasonable US$400,000, with US$50,000 expenses. Our most junior ministers are paid more than twice of what the most powerful man in the world gets! Hong Kong, with the same scarcity of resources as Singapore, half the developable land area, but with double the economic success, only pays its Chief Executive Donald Tsang HK$371,885 (US$47, 678). That is good enough to show that the PAP rhetoric about their pay cheques is plain rubbish (incidentally, "rubbish" is one of LKY's favourite words).

Adding to that, it had the cheek to raise its own salary right before a GST hike in 2003 and 2004. GST was raised again in 2007 to 7% from the original 3%. And of course, the PAP salaries have been rising accordingly as well.

It claims it needs to be paid similar to the private sector, but this is the public sector for a reason - you choose to work in the government to serve the country, not your pockets. Arguing that "talents" need this monetary incentive to join the government only goes to show what kind of people are being attracted - greedy, selfish, money-minded elites whosee the Civil Service as nothing but a more glamorous avenue to the big bucks since their main reason for serving is not for the good of the country, but for money.

I cannot vote for a government that decides its own ridiculous salaries DESPITE a very strong public opinion against it.

2. Incompetence

Despite paying astronomic salaries to these patron saints of Singapore, there is much to be desired from their performance. Surely, if we arepaying the highest government salaries in the world, it is not unreasonable to simply expect these people to do their job. The recent Bukit Timah Floodings, however, is a case in point showing why this expectation may be misplaced.

Environment Minister Yaacob Ibrahim said that the government knew the diversion canal was not big enough to take the rain waters. He claimed that because this sort of "freak events" occur only once every 50 years, there was nothing the government could do about it. The Bukit Timah Canal was constructed in 1972, almost 40 years ago - about time something that happens "once every 50 years" would occur. Additionally, meteorologists reported that 'this flood comes three years after one of Singapore's worst floodings in recent history, in December 2006'. 50 years indeed. But alas, our $2.8 million/year Minister was unable to foresee such a simple thing - even while knowing the canal was not big enough! Well, the PUB is planning to work on expanding it now - pretty late or early (depending on where in Singapore you live), since the next time we really need it will be 50 years from now, according to the Minister.

3. Double standards

It is a well-known fact that GIC and Temasek Holdings, Singapore's two sovereign wealth funds, are both headed by members of the Lee family. Both have reported a ridiculous loss of $41.6 Billion and $39.91 Billion respective and have yet to answer to the real stakeholders - Singaporeans - on how this could have happened. No one has taken responsibility or issued explanations or anything at all. In fact, the state media has been glaringly silent on the issue. Why aren't we Singaporeans hearing anything about our money?

"When we invest, we invest for the long-term", Lee Kuan Yew, who heads GIC, said when Temasek Holdings purchased Bank of America shares and then sold it off a few months later, losing between US$2.3 to US$4.6 billion just like that.

That is more than $80 Billion in total from the blood and sweat of Singaporeans, down the drain because of bad decisions made by individuals whose multi-million dollar pay cheques remain secure no matter how many mistakes they make. In contrast, the Resilience Package tapped into Singapore's official reserves to withdraw $4.9 billion, and that effort to help Singaporeans in genuine need required hours and hours of debate.

While we should rightfully acknowledge the good that the PAP has done for Singapore, it is often taken for granted that Singaporeans believe a blatant lie that the country's affluence is owed to the PAP and Lee Kuan Yew's efforts. No, it came from the efforts of all Singaporeans. Hong Kong did not have a strongman like Lee Kuan Yew to dictate their lives from toilet habits to whether they could hear their own dialect on TV, and yet they have achieved double of what we have - and their people are involved in the political process, not dead and apathetic like our population. There is absolutely no reason to believe that Singapore, with itsstrategic location and hardworking population, would not have reachedits present affluence under a less money-minded David Marshall or someoneelse.

Moreover, the oft-used justification for the lofty salaries of the government is that the private sector pays its leaders similar salaries. Well, in the private sector, there is such a thing as accountability. Where is Temasek Holdings' accountability? Where is GIC's accountability? Where was Wong Kan Seng's accountability when his Ministry slipped uptime and time again? Where is Yaacob Ibrahim's accountability? What exactlyhappens when a minister makes a mistake in Singapore? Where is the Fourth Estate to play its role as a watchdog?

4. Blatant lies

We are probably the only country in the world that has its MPs blatantly lie in Parliament and yet achieve high rankings on corruptibility. Anyone remember the mention of White Horses in Parliament? Practically every NSF knows that there is such a thing as White Horses, yet right there in Parliament, an affront to the ideals of democracy, transparency and integrity in this country, our leaders lied to its people. If it can do that once, it could have done it before, and it can do it again. What is the point of wearing white, trying to look pure, if you are a liar?

I cannot vote for such blatant liars to be my leaders - especially whenthey lie about such things NOT for the good of the country, but for their own interests, for the unfairly selective comfort of their own children at the very expense of the equality this country was founded upon.

The media in Singapore is entirely controlled via Singapore Press Holdings, headed by a former PAP minister, Dr Tony Tan. Masquerading as an independent paper, the Straits Times, while not necessarily fabricating facts on its own (at least I hope not), blatantly twists them. For example (extracted from here), the media was full of praise of Temasek CEO Ho Ching for earning a few million dollars on paper, but failed to highlight her disastrous investment decisions such as buying the shares of Barclays bank at a high and selling them at a low a few months later.

The Straits Times credited the Singapore Internal Security Department for providing the crucial "intelligence" which led to the capture of escaped terrorist Mas Selamat Kasteri by the Malaysian Special Branch. It turned out that the operation was part of a joint collaboration by the Malaysian, Singapore and Indonesian police and the Singapore ISD actually played only a minor role in the capture of Mas Selamat, but the Straits Times did not mention this to give the public the full picture, choosing rather to mislead Singaporeans into believing that ISD had indeed "redeemed"itself.

Without a free press in Singapore, Singaporeans are robbed of access toreal and accurate news that does not include propaganda and spins that mislead. They are robbed of a crucial check and balance in the form of the Fourth Estate that acts as a watchdog to ensure the government is doing its job. In the end, it is Singaporeans who stand to lose.

5. Operation Coldstore and the 1963 General Elections

The 1963 Singapore General Elections was the toughest and most criticalthe PAP ever faced. It had already suffered two by-election defeats and the number of seats it held was 26 - holding a majority by just one seat. On 2 February 1963, just a few months before the elections, Operation Coldstore was launched and more than a hundred people were arrested and detained without trial, including the Secretary-General and other keymembers of the Barisan Sosialis, the PAP's biggest threat.

Despite the heavy blow, which was an obvious attempt to undermine the Barisan Sosialis' success at the Elections, they won 33.2% of the popular vote and the PAP took 46.9%. What do you think the PAP would have gotten if it hadn't carried out Operation Coldstore?

And why do Singaporeans not know about such an important aspect of their national history?

6. Lim Chin Siong

Lim Chin Siong was recruited into the PAP by Lee Kuan Yew in 1954, and his immense popularity amongst the Chinese won a large amount of support for the PAP. When Lim Chin Siong was arrested by the British in 1955 foranti-colonial activities, the PAP promised the electorate to release him if they were elected, in order to gain votes.

At the age of 22, Lim Chin Siong was elected into the LegislativeAssembly, and he was so popular among the people that Lee Kuan Yew wasprompted to promise that he would be 'our future Prime Minister' (guesswho became PM instead?).

However, he soon grew disillusioned with the PAP and left to form the Barisan Sosialis in 1961. Under the pretext of being a communist, he was detained without trial under Operation Coldstore for SIX YEARS until hewas forced to renounce politics and went into exile in 1969. Up til ltoday, there is no evidence at all that he was ever a communist. It wassimply used it as an excuse to eliminate him from the precarious 1963 General Elections. Imagine being removed from your family, being lockedup for 6 years, NEVER given a trial, and then thrown out of the country, all because you are popular and the government fears you?

Lee Kuan Yew himself said of him "I liked and respected him for his simple lifestyle and his selflessness. He did not seek financial gain or political glory. He was totally committed to the advancement of his cause". This was the kind of men who sincerely fought with their lives for the good of the country. And they were persecuted and crushed by the PAP in order to snatch power. Contrast the lives of such men with the kind of PAP MPs we have today.

[13th Dec '09 - Edit: Click here to read about Operation Spectrum, launched in 1987 under that terrible ISA again. Over 20 people were detained without trial under the accusation of a Marxist conspiracy. After being released a few months later, they repudiated their earlier confessions, alleged ill-treatment by ISD officers while in detention, and were arrested the very next day (how come this sort of efficiency islacking with real threats like Mas Selamat?). Ten days later, the government announced that a proposed commission of inquiry into the allegations made by the detainees was no longer necessary as the signatories have since recanted their statement while in detention. Hmm, I wonder why.

Excerpt from their statement:"...we were subjected to harsh and intensive interrogation, deprived of sleep and rest, some of us for as long as 70 hours insides freezing cold rooms. All of us were stripped of our personal clothing, including spectacles, footwear and underwear and made to change into prisoners' uniforms.

Most of us were made to stand continually during interrogation, some of us for over 20 hours and under the full blast of air-conditioning turned to a very low temperature.

Under these conditions, one of us was repeatedly doused with cold water during interrogation.

Most of us were hit hard in the face, some of us for not less than 50 times, while others were assaulted on other parts of the body, during the first three days of interrogation.

We were threatened with more physical abuse during interrogation.

We were threatened with arrests, assault and battery of our spouses, loved ones and friends. We were threatened with INDEFINITE detention without trial. Chia Thye Poh, who is still in detention after twenty years, was cited as an example. We were told that no one could help us unless we "cooperated" with the ISD.

These threats were constantly on our minds during the time we wrote our respective "statements" in detention.

We were actively discouraged from engaging legal counsel and advised to discharge our lawyers and against taking legal action (including making representations to the ISA Advisory Board) so as not to jeopardise our chances of release.

We were compelled to appear on television and warned that our release would depend on our performances on tv. We were coerced to make statements such as "I am Marxist-inclined..."; "My ideal society is a classless society..." ; " so-and-so is my mentor..."; "I was made use of by so-and-so..." in order to incriminate ourselves and other detainees."

This is another reason why I will not be able to vote for the PAP. I cannot bring myself to support such a brutal and callous government which treats its people as such. And I cannot support its continued use of the ISA in Singapore, in spite of its usefulness in handling terrorists (who is the real terrorist here?), because time and again, history has shown that it is innocent Singaporeans who will suffer most from such a law that allows the government to conveniently eliminate all threats to itself - not the nation - without trial, without evidence, without accountability of any kind.]

7. Singaporean students need to learn a fair and accurate history inschool

The fact that practically no young Singaporean knows about important people like Lim Chin Siong, or even David Marshall, our first Chief Minister, is testament to the spectacular failure of our education system. All they ever learn about our country's history is LKY and Raffles, LKY and Raffles, LKY and Raffles, and maybe a bit about the War. No wonder our students find history boring. No wonder our students do not feel attached to this country because their knowledge of its history is so shallow.

Why has MOE removed the important bits of Singapore's history from school books? The bits about Operation Coldstore (and the realities behind it), the historic Anson by-election, the real founder of the PAP (who,by the way, is not surnamed Lee), our ex-President Devan Nair, Ong Teng Cheong's request - which was never granted to the day he died - to be given a list of Singapore's reserves (because as President he needed toknow what he is protecting, since the President's role is to be Protector of the Reserves - and did you know that the President's role is that, by the way?), etc. Why are Singaporeans being robbed of their history and then accused of being apathetic?

8. Traumatic MP-experiences and MPs who fear death by The Chair

The kind of PAP MPs that Singapore is ruled by today is a worthy cause for Trauma.

In short, a married couple went to see their MP because their eldest son recently passed away from a naval accident while serving NS. Theyexplained that their younger son will be serving his NS soon and requested for an exemption because of what had just happened. They said that it's been a traumatic time for them. And the MP replied "What traumatic? After two months, you won't be traumatic".

As if insensitive MPs are not enough, the PAP is fielding hyper-sensitive wimps behind the shadows with their GRC Trick.

The GRC, by the way, was invented by the PAP. The fact that it engages in gerrymandering (drawing up election borders in its favour) goes to show the extent it is willing to go just to stay in power. The GRC is also unfair because constituents are forced to vote into Parliament men and women they do not really want to have. This whole system, however, was implemented without asking Singaporeans, of course. The PAP decided it wanted to have the GRCs, and it passed the law to have the GRCs. No say from the people at all. Is this democracy? Is gerrymandering for the good of the people?

With such people ruling the country, it is honestly difficult to believe we are in good hands. Contrasted against the lives of men such as Lim Chin Siong, it is hard to rule out the severe suspicion that the MPs we have today are joining the Government for personal interest, not the nation's.

9. Money. Of course it's all about money

Singapore claims it pays its ministers astronomical salaries because "talents" need to be attracted from the private sector - this is simply saying that our ministers serve the country just for money.

Also, their pay is pegged to GDP growth - which is why it is no wonder that everything in this country seems to be focused on the economy. The government is so caught up in money-making because its salaries are pegged to it! Moreover, if Singaporeans are attuned to the mentality that money is all there is to life (and many, many Singaporeans are), then theywill be less bothered about the other compromises to their civil rights, andless likely to be concerned about what their government is really doing, so long as the money keeps flowing in. What a cheap people we have become.

10. What Singapore needs is change

Lastly, by voting for a significant change to the status quo, Singaporean youths will become less apathetic, seeing that, for the first time intheir lives, CHANGE is really possible in this country, and that they can make a difference in deciding for the future of Singapore.

The PAP will also be less complacent if it meets with a stunning defeat. Its cold Point 8-type ministers will also learn that it is Singaporeans they are supposed to be serving, not themselves. They will learn to treasure their constituents, to sincerely listen their opinions and to truly help them - all these are SUPPOSED to be their job in the first place.

People will also start to dare to join the Opposition. The only reasonwhy I do not wish for the Opposition to take over the government is because it is incompetent, and it is incompetent because talented men and women who are concerned about the aforementioned issues, do not have the courage or faith in the system to step forward and join the Opposition (hell no, not with a law like the ISA in place). But if the PAP faces a defeat that is significant enough, trust in the democratic system of Singapore will finally be restored and the politics of Singapore can be revived to more than just dead rhetoric.

Of course we are grateful for the many, many good things the PAP has done for Singapore. It has been an excellent government in many ways (especially economically - I wonder why). However, it has also been found lacking in many aspects. Politics is not a charity, as they would themselves say with regard to the Opposition, and we cannot vote for agovernment simply because it used to serve the people well. If it has lost its focus, then support for the Opposition is the only way to make them regain this focus.

My vote counts. So will yours. Vote wisely.

[Original Author's Addendum: 15th Dec '09 - Government salaries quoted here were mostly sourced from various websites on the internet, some of which may look dubious, but they are the best I can find because the Government does not seem to display Ministerial Salaries anywhere to be easily found - I wonder why. I will happily correct the numbers, or any other mistakes in this post, if the right digits and facts are pointed out to me. Still, I have confidence that the real salaries cannot be that far off.

This note was written the day after I finished my exams, just to kill time, and was meant to be shared amongst my friends simply as a private opinion. I certainly did not expect the stir it has caused on the internet since (the flood of opinions it has released does give a glimpse of the sentiments of the people of this country, though). As such, the quality of this note may be found wanting in certain aspects, to certain people, for certain reasons. This is not a pamphlet, nor a call to a political war, much less a revolution (come on...). My intentions were not to defameany one or to attack anyone's character, but to bring to light what is dark, simply because people have the right to know what their employees are doing at work - the Government is employed by the people to work for the people not the other way around - and then decide if they will continue to use their service.

Like I have mentioned in a comment on this Facebook note, we OUGHT to be appreciative of whatever we have, and that includes the incumbent government and the good it has done. But being appreciative does not equate to complacence and dumb acceptance of everything. We speak out because we want the problems solved. And the solutions are simple and obvious: cut the ridiculous salaries of these people, pick genuinelycivic-minded citizens to run the country, LISTEN to what the peoplehave to say, give us a free press with unregulated content, become accountable, be transparent, stop lying to the country, teach a fair and accurate history in schools, ensure Singaporeans that the ISA will not be misused AGAIN, punish errant ministers/MPs, stop gerrymandering because that makes people lose faith in the electoral process, etc. That's what Singaporeans want from their government. We have spoken up and we have written in; there is only so much we can do. But how much has actually changed? How receptive is the government to its people? There is hardly anything else Singaporeans are able to do (we can't even demonstrate) to send the message across (like I said, through their very thick skulls) but to let their sentiments be heard through their vote.]

Monday 14 December 2009

... responsibility or irresponsibility ...

is it the youngsters or i'm getting easily annoyed by irresponsibility?certain people just feel that what they do is never in the wrong?

never bothered to inform HR about absence.. sometimes even the boss is not informed.. is my office having problems or is it happening everywhere??

one of my colleague supposed to attend a training but didn't turned up.. school called however i couldn't get hold of this colleague of mine..

only later in the afternoon found out she's hospitalized.. well, what can i say?? *sigh* haiz haiz haiz..

Friday 11 December 2009

... 11dec ...

wonder does anyone remember how you got your driving licence? how many times? haha.. i got mine when i'm 24 years old.. to some, maybe it's a bit late as they might get it at 18 already.. like my little brother..

i still remembered when i was learning driving the price is $22 for weekday per hour and $24 for weekend per hour.. wonder what is the current price for private learning.. haha.. must be $30 over??

after 4 tries, i finally got my driving licence.. man i told you; i will never forget how i 'argued' with the tester over my over-taking near teck whye.. thought i will failed again but he gave me a "P"!! so damn delighted! nearly kissed the tester.. haha..

anyway, that happened 11 years ago.. time passed so fast hor?

oh it's also my brother's birthday today! wish him a happy brithday!! :P

Sunday 6 December 2009

... early christmas party ...

joined my sis's 'cell' (not sure if it's this cell) group church friends christmas party last evening..

i already knew 2 of my sis's group mates whom they are my roller blade masters.. one of them is of course owner of the house.. hee.. her house is huge! 3 floors + rooftop with 6 bedrooms and a small swimming pool..

anyway, the party was fun.. got to know some new friends.. we had a young guest whom only 21 years old (supplier of the host).. only one single many we had in the group..

we played games followed by dinner.. we had a mini buffet that comprise of pasta, shepard's pie ( i personally love this as i love potato!) apple crumble and beef.. the host made her well known tau suan and salad..

after the dinner, we sang carols and then the finale came.. gift exchange!! oh, they done it in a different manner.. we were asked to form a circle and were supposed to pass the presents by listening to a story that had 'lefts' and 'rights' in it.. after that all of us sat around for a while.. and then most of them adjourned home after that..

except me, my sis, her best friend and the young guy who stayed behind.. we chatted, joked and don't know why they felt hungry and so we went for supper at ECP's HK cafe.. the one and only young chap was being made fun by us the whole night.. poor thing.. haha..

Saturday 5 December 2009

went to watch movie again with kat.. after the 'episode' in my office, i'm so glad we are watching a comedy.. or else, i think i gonna be letting my mind run wild again.. haha..

this movie is not a very fantastic one but personlly i do have to agree with the movie on certain things.. every marriage had their own problems and we must always solved problems together; 'we' and/or 'us' should be used instead of 'me', 'i' or 'you'.. it all boil down to how much effort you put it into this 'lifetime agreement'..

and i must say, the resort where they shoot the movie is lovely!! it's really a paradise.. as i wanted to know which resort was that so i waited for the ending.. and i was glad i did.. there is another 2minute prelogy.. next time, really must wait till the movie ends..

and the actual resort is: St. Regis Bora Bora Resort.. check out this wonderful place!! and the rate is not cheap.. a night is about S$1200 (cheapest) onwards.. wow!!

Friday 4 December 2009

... my office got ghost!?!? ...

hope it's just our imagination..

another normal friday to most of you.. not in my office.. i was staying late as i have some last minute flight booking to arrange for my boss..

our cleaning aunty had forgotten to change a waste paper basket so i accompanied her to my second floor as my caccounts had already left for the day..

when we unlocked the door, we noticed my IT manager room's light is litted up.. weird!! was the first word that came to my mind.. first, he's out this whole week for business trip; second his room is locked and none of us had to key to open the door..

aunty even told me few days ago when she was cleaning upstairs the room lights were not on.. after that she dashed down and left me there to lock up..

one of my manager heard that and asked me to go up again.. this time we verified with one of our account colleague as they happened to work overtime few days ago.. nope, no lights were on.. even if it's on, it will be obvious as the stairway is away from the window..

oh no!! my office got ghost!! haha.. let's see what happened on monday.. sure to have big commotion.. :D

Wednesday 2 December 2009

... 上庭 ...

第一次見識初級法庭的規模。去了第貳拾壹法庭;它是專門對付觸犯交通違例者的一個地方。當然,我不能進去因爲違法者不是我嘛。法官還是個女的;蠻年輕的。

個個從裏邊走出來有的顯得心情沉重、有的有一絲的解脫。也見證了心痠的一幕∶ 有兩位馬來婦女是哭著從法庭出來。好像是因為兒子/丈夫被判監禁四個月。在外頭等候的人也都不好受。

觸犯者不少咯;那些被罰款的都是一曡一曡的鈔票繳給那櫃檯。能想象政府一天收了多少錢。

結果等了大概兩個小時吧!你被罰了柒佰大元。(真的是感謝天、感謝地!)結果,去了四馬路拜拜感謝神明。

希望,你從這次以後會時來運轉。


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