Friday 28 July 2006

... about me ...

Found this from http://www.superfate.com.tw some are quite interesting.. all about your chinese fate,etc. try it out!

◎您是七彩的白雲,有商業頭腦,可以創造富貴。才華出眾,喜歡有仁慈,守承諾的人。有點唯美,愛好文藝,有多方面的興趣與才華,但是缺乏執行力與行動力。◎

根據命理來分析您的個性,潛意識,以及行為模式,您是屬於「白雲命」,因此您天生具有白雲的特質,聰明有才華,學習能力強,觀察敏銳,喜歡探究事物背後的道理,思路清晰,有獨具一格的判斷與分析能力,但是缺乏執行力與行動力。白雲隨風飄流,一下飄到這邊,一下又飛到天邊,因此您的思路十分活躍,一下想做這個,一下想做那個,想像力豐富,但是缺乏持續力,容易流於空談。白雲變化萬千,所謂白雲蒼狗,因此您能夠以不同的角色來適應週遭的環境,不論多惡劣,您也能漸漸適應,進而改變環境。您對於環境的變動有很強的適應力,所以容易給人表裡不一的觀感,但其實是一般人不容易想像您的思維模式。白雲漂浮不定,不容易停下腳步,因此您思考能力強,但執行能力弱,您對週遭生活有很多的不滿與期待,也有能力改善,但就是不容易付諸行動。

此外,您喜歡平易近人,親切友善的人,不喜歡油嘴滑舌,虛情假意的人,而能讓您佩服的人,多半是成熟穩重,誠懇踏實的人。您的一生,像白雲一樣,無論飄向何方,也能保有赤子之心,但是白雲也會經歷考驗,有時會狂風暴雨,有時會烏雲蔽日,這些都是您一生中最大的磨練,只要您經得起外在的考驗,不怨天尤人,進而學習成長,一旦通過考驗,您的生活會更上一層樓,富貴綿長。

◎您本命五行水太旺,體質比較寒冷,所以身體比較弱,容易手腳冰冷,要注意婦科的保健。◎

根據命理分析,您天生腎水系統比較差,所以容易感覺疲倦,冬天常常手腳冰冷,體力似乎不如人,因此無法從事需要大量勞力的工作。在年輕的時候不會有太大的問題,但是如果您現在不照顧循環及泌尿系統,隨著年紀越來越大就很容易有血壓、貧血、心臟、婦科的問題,甚至容易導致失眠、憂鬱、腦神經衰弱、聽力異常、腎功能異常、膀胱炎、尿道炎、月事不順、或其他心血管功能疾病等問題。因此您不能過度勞累,要維持正常作息,早睡早起,才可以保護先天比較弱的腎水系統。此外,由於體質偏向心虛血弱,所以盡量不要喝冰的飲料,也要避免房事太頻繁,以免傷了元氣。

此外,所謂「病從口入」,人類大部分的疾病來源都跟飲食有關,根據中醫理論,食物可以分成金、木、水、火、土等五種五行。您可能偏好重鹹口味的食物,調味料也用很重,因此,您的細胞中,充滿太多「水」的五行,會導致健康,財運與事業的不圓滿,尤其重口味的食物吃多了會傷腎,建議您平時最好能飲食均衡,菜色均衡,養成清淡的口胃,調理食物的方式也要由多油炒改為多蒸煮,減少鹽分和油脂的攝取量,才有助於您陰陽五行調和,生活美滿幸福。

◎但是您八字缺金,呼吸系統機能也比較弱,容易呼吸不順,感冒咳嗽,或有氣喘等症狀。◎

根據命理分析,您天生呼吸系統功能比較差,在年輕的時候不會有太大的問題,頂多是容易鼻子過敏、流鼻水、咳嗽、感冒、胸悶、腹瀉或便秘,但隨著年紀越來越大,呼吸系統需要更多的照顧,不然很容易導致鼻竇炎、氣喘、肺炎、支氣管炎、大腸息肉、直腸炎等問題。因此您不能過度勞累,而且千萬不能抽菸,要維持正常作息,早睡早起,才可以保護先天比較弱的呼吸系統。

此外,您是屬於比較隨性的類型,凡事方便就好,因此不會很注重居住空間以及工作環境的品質。您做事情也比較心急,缺乏耐心,所以您與其他人相處的關係並不是那麼的融洽,也缺少貴人的提攜。如果您想改變這種現象,要開始練習腹式呼吸,此外,要保持週邊環境的空氣新鮮,通風順暢,尤其晚上睡覺的時候,臥房千萬不可緊閉門窗。只要您體內的氧氣充足,那您的命運將會有很大的改變,身體健康,財運順利,事業圓滿,家庭幸福。

◎簡易愛情分析,您會有一個條件好的先生。您的愛情稱得上是兩情相悅,而且他不是大男人主義者,凡事都很尊重您。您們的交往,不僅有愛情美好的一面,也兼顧到愛情現實的問題。◎ 您愛情的模式,根據命理分析,您對於心儀的異性,很容易心動,但對方常常沒有行動,您也不好意思倒過來追求,所以常常無疾而終。一般來說,異性對您的第一印象都不會太深,您是需要經過交往的階段,異性才會發現您的氣質,優點與內在美。換句話說,您很容易第一眼就喜歡上一個人,如果您剛開始不喜歡這個人,經過長時間相處也不會喜歡上他。相反地,您的戀愛對象不容易第一眼就喜歡上您,卻很可能經過長時間相處而喜歡上您。因此,如果您在等待美好的愛情,您可以試著把自己的內在美透過各種方式表現出來,多參加各種活動,多培養各種興趣,多接觸不同人群,如此您會在不知不覺中,讓您的內在美隨時展現,愛情才會更順利。

在人生的旅程中,您的戀愛或結婚對象很有可能是先經由親友介紹或相親而認識,因為您對於愛情比較不太有經驗,也不善於包裝自己、行銷自己,有時更怯於表達自己的感情,碰到喜歡的人也多半停留在欣賞的階段,不僅不容易給對方一點暗示,更不會表白或倒追,因此不僅錯失許多機會,更在心中產生既期待又怕受傷害的感覺,反而更不容易擦出愛的火花。您若是對象還沒有出現,不要心急,在您身邊確定有人正喜歡著您,只要您真心誠意給對方一點暗示,幸福就在您身邊。

◎簡易財運事業分析,您會賺錢,但不容易守財,也不容易經由儲蓄累積財富。您對於生命比較達觀,不會對自己或家人朋友太小氣。◎

根據命理分析,您會賺錢,但是不容易守財,也就是不容易經由儲蓄累積財富。您對於生命比較達觀,因此不會對自己,也不會對家人或朋友太小氣。在您手頭比較緊的時候,該花的錢您還是會花,不會一毛不拔;在您手頭比較寬裕的時候,您花錢會很大方,不會對自己、家人或朋友小氣,正因為如此,您當然不容易存錢。此外,您很容易因為朋友的介紹而做了某些投資,而且常常虧本。這是因為您的個性交遊廣闊,也認識很多人,所以當朋友來找您投資時,您不容易分辨風險,也不容易拒絕,所以當然很容易虧本。如果以一生的時間來衡量,您今生大部份的財富會被您拿來做自己想做的事情,您會認為您使用過的錢財才是您真正擁有的財富。之後,這些財富大半會遺留給子孫。

Thursday 27 July 2006

... moments in life ...

There are moments in life when you miss someone so much

that you just want to pick them from your dreams

and hug them for real!

When the door of happiness closes, another opens;

but often times we look so long at the closed door

that we don't see the one, which has been opened for us.

Don't go for looks; they can deceive.

Don't go for wealth; even that fades away.

Go for someone who makes you smile,because it takes only a smile to

make a dark day seem bright.Find the one that makes your heart smile.

Dream what you want to dream;

go where you want to go;

be what you want to be,

becuase you have only one life

and one chance to do all the things

you want to do.

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet,

enough trials to make you strong,

enough sorrow to keep you human

and enough hope to make you happy.

The happiest of people don't necessarily

have the best of everything;

they just make the most of

everything that comes along their way.

The brightest future will always

be based on a forgotten past;

you can't go forward in life until

you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying

and everyone around you was smiling.

Live your life so at the end,

you're the one who is smiling and everyone

around you is crying.

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take;

but by the moments that take our breath away!

Wednesday 26 July 2006

... 我的外婆 ...

生老病死是人类不可避免的一种环节。我们一生中一定会碰到。

她与病魔搏斗了两年多,她终于在今天凌晨12 点多与世长辞了。一向来都不喜欢在半夜听到电话响,因为接到坏消息的可能性很高。老妈跟我说时,预料中还以为她会崩溃但意外,她还蛮镇定的。

可能对大家来说是种解脱吧!怎么说外婆也84 岁了,对我来说算是很长命了。而听说老人家超过70岁去世是当红事来处理的。因为要算好日子,所以可能要等上一段日子才能有家祭。希望到时候我的眼泪可以受到控制。。虽然知道这是无所谓的。。

不晓得到了那边她会和他会面吗?一直想像着人是否会在那地方找到他们的另一半而延续他们来生的幸福。如果有的话,那么这两个人一定会幸福快乐的。因为今生在一起已经很不简单了。结合是种缘分,分离只是短暂的。

Tuesday 18 July 2006

... working with idiots can kill you! ...

Received this attachment email from one of my friend. (Due to the large file, and the difficulty to read clearly, i shall be kind to type it out.. :-) )

IDIOTS in the office are just as hazardous to your health as cigarettes, caffeine or greasy food, an eye-opening new study reveals.

In fact, those dopes can kill you! Stress is one of the top causes of heart attacks - and working with stupid people on a daily basis is one of the deadliest forms of stress, according to reseatchers at Sweden's Lindbergh University Medical Centre.

The author of the study, Dr Dagmar Andersson, says her team studied 500 heart attack patients, and were puzzled to find 62% had relatively few of the physical risk factors commonly blamed for heart attacks.

"Then we questioned them about lifestyle habits, and almost all of these low-risk patients told us they worked with people so stupid they can barely find their way from the parking lot to their office. And their heart attack came less than 12 hours after having a major confrontation with one of these oafs.

"One woman had to be rushed to the hospital after her assistant shredded important company tax documents instead of copying them. A man told us he collapsed right at his desk because the woman at the next cubicle kept asking him for correction fluid - for her computer monitor.

"You can cut back on smoking or improve your diet," Dr. Andersson says,"but most people have very poor coping skills when it comes to stupidity - they feel there's nothing they can do about it, so they just internalise their frustration until they finally explode."

Stupid co-workers can also double or triple someone's work load, she explains, "Many of our subjects feel sorry for the drooling idiots they work with, so they try to cover for them by fixing their mistakes. One poor woman spent a week rebuilding clients records because a clerk put them all in the 'recycle bin' of her computer and then emptied it - she thought it meant the records would be recycled and used again."

It's kind of depressing and helpless hearing these smart people who need to face those 'stupid people' everyday. However, if you are the 2nd category, how would you feel when people are calling you STUPID??

Friday 14 July 2006

... making more money??

A friend just introduce a new way of making more money.. kind of interesting as it is a program which tailors to your interest and refers friends to join by just reading emails. Sound interesting? Go to the below url for more information:

http://www.emailcashpro.com/?r=tancyee

Thursday 13 July 2006

... the world is changing ~ technologies changes too! ...

Got this picture from my friend today. Ponders me further..

Somehow, has this feeling that this world is changing slowly -towards a 'small small' world.. the clothes we wear are getting smaller or lesser (as an example above), things we use are getting smaller and smaller (like our handphones).

Are our hearts, soul and mind going into this direction too?

Is it the technologies' fault or should we blamed ourselves, the human brain for being so advanced? The abilities to developed all kinds of gadgets that makes our lives easier and better to live in.

Things changed for a reason and so is our world. As we moved towards a more ever changing world, it makes people more vunlerable to diseases, air we breathe or even relationships!

In the olden times, relationships stays.. people have jobs that could last till they retires. Air were more cleaner and fresher (at least no such thing as SARS)

So, given a choice, would you choose to live in the modern day or the olden times?

Monday 10 July 2006

... the complete murphy's law ...

Some of the entries I read in a book about Murphy's Law.. quite interesting.. so to share with all of my friends:

Frank's Phone Phenomena: If you have a pen, there's no paper. If you have paper, there's no pen. If you have both, there's no message.

Things that can be counted on in a crisis: MARKETING says yes. FINANCE says no. LEGAL has to review it. PERSONNEL is concerned. PLANNING is frantic. ENGINEERING is above it all. MANUFACTURING wants more floor space. TOP MANAGEMENT wants someone responsible.

Jacob's Law: To err is human - to blame it on someone else is even more human.

Sunday 9 July 2006

... family ties ...

Soon, my brother will be leaving for Australia (Brisbane) to study his degree. So coincidently, he and my two sisters are studying in the same university..

Plus him in, my whole family has 4 graduates man! wowo.. hehe.. which excludes my dad.. for my family, i guess it's kind of big in today's mordern world as total there are 7 of us! big family huh??

With him in Brisbane and my youngest sis in US, that's left 5 of us here.. guess it will be another 3yrs time before 7 of us could sit down and have a proper reunion dinner.. *sob sob* Since young, we have been having reunion dinner without failed. It seems like this tradition has not been broken since.

However, i noticed that some family today are not doing it anymore. To me, it's kind of sad; as everyone is busy working or has their own lives, so during CNY, it's the best time to get together. If the family is not having dinner together, i seriously wonder how often does one family communicates?

Of course, with mobile phones or computer around, it's possible to be communicating anytime, anywhere. It might create another excuse for not having dinner together everyday, but i always feel nothing beats the face-to-face, heart-to-heart talk right?

Saturday 8 July 2006

... 走走走 ...

昨晚我和我的好朋友做了一件不可思议的事情。我们从Raffles City 走回家, 全程总共花了两个半小时!她比较好点,两个小时。好久好久没这样走了!

曾经做了两次这么疯狂的事,第一次是以前新加坡还有Swing Singapore 的时候,曾经三五成群从 Wisma Atria走回家。第二次是和前前男友从Centrepoint 走到East Coast Park。

一路上我们无所不谈,不知不觉这友谊也长跑了十八年的岁月。而她也是人家的妻子了。而我,却还在海上漂浮着,寻找一个靠岸的机会。但似乎这机会越来越渺茫了。好男人难寻,所以常跟朋友说:“既来之,则安之”。抱着命里有时终须有,命里无时莫强求的心态。

结果这一走,我的脚也起了水泡。。。可怜啊可怜!

... 我说婚姻 ...

世界上到底还有没有天长地久这东西? 不久前刚听说我的前老板和前同事闹离婚。觉得很惊讶因为他们是我印象中的模范夫妻。从来没有可能会发生婚变的。一把年纪了,还需要搞到这地步还真的有点无奈吧!

不然的话,就是身边的某些朋友也有感情的困扰。吵吵闹闹、分分离离都是为了情字也,问世间情为何物?

难道婚姻真的是爱情的坟墓吗?爱到浓时就该开花结果,但为何结局往往却是因为了解而分手?

可能就因为种种原因,到现在还没有人能够彻彻底底的承认他对爱情的了解。也应如此,婚姻对我来说是那么的脆弱的不堪一击。

Saturday 1 July 2006

... in the bus ...

It seems like it's a common sight in Singapore. Whenever I take a crowded bus, there bound to be people who just refused to move towards the end.. what's happening? Is there some kind of tiger or lions at the back?

What's wrong with moving to the back.. i always noticed that the back of the bus would be empty and front crowded.. people here just simply don't like to moved their legs.. so sad to see this happening..


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