Saturday 31 January 2009

... test n concert ...

last nite was my accounting coursework 2 aka MCQs...

*&%&! ~ it's really difficult lor.. 有沒有搞錯?!gives us so many calculations questions.. dear lecturers, we only have 40mins to do 20 questions lei.. u really think it's sufficient meh??

anyway, i'm only confident on the first 5.. the rest, have to depend on miracle again.. haiz, i think miracle wun happen so many times hor??? guess got to work hard on my actual exam already..

as i rushed down to class today.. ok ok, not rushed as i send my sis to bugis first.. then i headed class so dinner was missed..

after this *&%&! test, we desperatrely need a break.. proceed to take my dinner first.. so i got energy for 2nd part of the night mah.. and my friend and i got no plans to go and we missed KTV, we suggest going singing instead..

so, both of us went Top One to hold our 個人演唱會 or rather it's a 周傑倫演唱會. both me and my friend sang non-stop for 3 hours.. just jay's songs alone makes up to 4 pages of the song request list!! wow! first time i ever sang KTV with such 壯舉。but, we shall do it again.. heng my friend didnt' select whole albums of jay's... else it's really going to be no-jay-syndrome for the next 3 months..

home sweet home after our concert.. bo bian lah, 周公 jio me for chess again..

Wednesday 28 January 2009

... CNY trip to KL ...

wah i tell you.. this may be a long long entry liao.. i try to cut short ok?? :P

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my family and i went in to KL by Tuas aka 2nd link on 24-Jan early morning (around 7am).. it's a nice weather. Sun wasn't too hot and AYE was smooth..

So, i thought maybe jam won't be that bad.. however, i was damn wrong.. really really wrong.. never in my life that i'm stuck in traffic jam for almost 4hours!!!

we were stuck way before the checkpoint.. way away from the bridge.. before F&N.. (if you know the way to 2nd link very well) me and my 3 younger siblings were in the car.. in order to kill time, we started to munch titbits, choco, biscuits, etc.. at one point my dad even wanted to U-turn and headed home.. haha.. of coz we didn't do that lah.. else, my grandma and uncle will say we bring them to holland le..

SELAMAT DATANG MALAYSIA!!

we cleared the customs at around 11am and the short road to malaysia customs were not too bad; only around 1hour.. what is 1hour compares to the earlier jam hor??

vroom vroom on the north-south highway.. we headed to malacca first before going to KL.. hee.. done a little shopping there.. oh boy, this year i really buy a lot of clothes!!

night falls when we reached KL.. tired tired.. so周公 jioed me for chess early..

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除夕

wah i tell u, the spread is damn good!! once a year event mah, that’s why my grandma will cook good food.. comprise of fish, meat, veg, soup which round up to about 9 dishes.. being a cantonese herself, we will eat vegetarian on the first day, so our reunion dinner will be very very 豐富。

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初一

was at my 4th uncle's place the whole afternoon.. oh, did i mention that my grandma stayed with him?? anyway, his house is the main focus points every year reunion and first day.. after the ang-pow giving session, off he goes to his in-laws place..

i realized each year we are going later and later to uncle's house.. i remember when we are younger, we would be there about 9am or 10am.. don't know why as we grow older, the 守時習慣 slowly fades away..

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初二

this year, we venture to a new shopping centre call Pavilion.. while walking there from the nearest LRT (what we called MRT), we passed berjaya times square.. while my cousins, siblings and mum used the toilet, i found something that i had plans with.. shopping + bowling!! haha.. so happy about it..

haha, now i know what i should do during my june holidays liao.. before i start my 2nd year should enjoy first.. woo hoo!! but stupid me, didn't check out the bowling prices so i don't know how much.. but but, i'm sure it's gonna be cheaper than Singapore..

hmmm.. *day dreaming starts*

maybe i could start with genting first.. but i don't gamble lei.. go there only becoz of the weather.. ask dan they all ba.. haha.. there are few places for selection.. Genting, Sunway Lagoon or KL..

*back to reality (after i nearly walk thru the wall)*

tonight it's my 伯母's turn to show off her excellent cooking.. everyone came over (except my 5th uncle's family ~ they went to Korea for holiday *green horn protruded from my head*)

same too, there are 9 dishes.. everyone enjoyed and followed after was the opening of the TAN's mini gambling den.. the gen 3 had mahjong with gen 2 giving advices and another side was the casino look alike..

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we came back on the third day.. pixs will be uploaded to my facebook soon.. provided my sis uploaded to our PC as it's her camera.. LOL..

Friday 23 January 2009

... vacation note ...

hey friends (who are a active follower here):

me goin to KL this CNY and will be back next Wednesday... meanwhile i'm have no access to internet or any electronic devices.. my hp has no roaming.. :(

though my uncle's house have got interntet connection but it's not nice to hog on their PC all day right? so, i shall update this space upon my return..

hopefully i'll enjoy this short get away this time...

i gonna missed you all.. n dun missed me har?? :P

P/S: i kw i'm back dating this entry but dun 'bao doe' me ok?? :P

Thursday 22 January 2009

... boss and his secretary ...

Boss walked into the office one morning not knowing that his zipper was down.

His secretary walked up to him and asked, "Boss this morning when you left your house, did you close your gate?"

Boss was not smart enough to understand, so he went back into his office looking a bit puzzled! When he was about done with his paper work, he suddenly noticed that his Zipper was not zipped up.

He zipped up and remembering what his secretary had told him, then boss finally understood... He then intentionally went out to ask for a cup of coffee from his secretary. When he reached her desk, He said, "When you saw the gate open did you see my BMW parked in there?"

The secretary smiled for a moment and said, "No, Boss I didn't. All I saw was a Kancil 600 with 2 flat tyre."

Boss went back to his office mumering... kan ni nau bu......

Wednesday 21 January 2009

Tuesday 20 January 2009

... jokes ...

AYUBA bought a new mobile. He sent a message to everyone from his Phone Book & said,'My Mobile No. has changed. Earlier it was Nokia 3310. Now it is 6610'

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AYUBA : I am Proud, coz my son is in Medical College .

Friend: Really, what is he studying.

AYUBA : No, he is not studying, they are Studying him.

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AYUBA : Doctor, in my dreams, I play football every night.

DR: Take this tablet, you will be ok.

AYUBA : Can I take it tomorrow, tonight is final game.

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AYUBA : If I die, will u remarry?

Wife: No! I'll stay with my sister. But if I die will u remarry?

AYUBA : No, I'll also stay with your sister.

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AYUBA : People consider me as a 'GOD'

Wife: How do you know??

AYUBA : When I went to the Park today, everybody said, Oh GOD! U have come again..

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AYUBA complained to the police: 'Sir, all items are missing, except the TV in my house.'

Police: 'How the thief did not take TV?'

AYUBA : 'I was watching TV news...'

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AYUBA comes back 2 his car & find a note saying 'Parking Fine'

He Writes a note and sticks it to a pole 'Thanks for compliment.'

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How do you recognize AYUBA in School?

He is the one who erases the notes from the book when the teacher erases the board.

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Once AYUBA was walking he had a glove on one hand and not on other.

So the man asked him why he did so.

He replied that the weather forecast announced that on one hand it would be cold and on the other hand it would be hot.

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AYUBA in a bar and his cellular phone rings.

He picks it up and Says 'Hello, how did you know I was here?'

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AYUBA : Why are all these people running?

Man : This is a race, the winner will get the cup

AYUBA : If only the winner will get the cup, why others running?

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Teacher: 'I killed a person' convert this sentence into future tense

AYUBA : The future tense is 'u will go to jail'

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AYUBA told his servant: 'Go and water the plants!'

Servant: 'It's already raining.'

AYUBA : 'So what? Take an umbrella and go.'

Monday 19 January 2009

... news report ...

saw this piece of news when i opened my yahoo mail browser this morning.. wow! economy is so bad and got our dear govt worried man..

may consider using the cash reserves that they had been keeping for years... hmm, they had billions and billions in few respective funds.. so does it necessary to justify? like what mr. goh mentioned, it's meant for rainy day but how do you define "rainy day"?

to me, when a country has the need to dip into their cash reserves, things are not going too good.. oh no, will there be more unemployment or retrenchment??? xiao liao..

more reports could be found on today's news too..

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SINGAPORE: As Singaporeans brace themselves for a difficult year, a strong response to the global recession will be needed in the upcoming Budget.

This could involve dipping into the carefully—guarded reserves of the country, according to Senior Minister Goh Chok Tong.

"It’s a difficult decision, because once you do that you may open the reserves for future demands which may not justify the use of the reserves. So, it’s an issue that the Prime Minister is thinking over very carefully," he said.

But Mr Goh stressed that such a move is intended for exceptional times.

"And we’ve always said, the reserves are for a rainy day. So if this is not a rainy day, I don’t know what is a rainy day. But nevertheless it has to be justified to the President. So, that’s an issue which Finance Minister and the Prime Minister would have to deliberate quite carefully," said Mr Goh.

When asked what this sum could amount to, Mr Goh’s reply was that it depends on the measures that would justify the use of the reserves.

Citing Singapore’s latest trade figures which declined sharply, he said that top on the government’s priority is to help businesses cut cost.

Mr Goh also noticed that 30 per cent of the cranes at PSA are sitting idle, with shipping freight figures close to zero.

"We must have a muscular response in the Budget. The key issue for us is how to save jobs. Of course, to have economic growth, you’ve got to stimulate demand. But this time it’s a global recession, and it’s beyond us. We can do what we can in Singapore, but it’s not going to solve our economic growth problem," said the senior minister.

Mr Goh was speaking to reporters after distributing hongbaos and gifts to about 40 needy residents at his Marine Parade constituency, an annual tradition for him.

This year, the increased cash assistance of S$100 in each hongbao could not have come at a better time for some families, as Singapore’s economic growth this year — which is forecast to be between minus 2 and plus 1 per cent — will be revised ahead of Thursday’s Budget.

On the issue of the investigations into the failed financial products such as those linked to Lehman Brothers, Mr Goh said there are lessons learnt from the episode and more measures will be put in place.

He refused to elaborate, saying: "I would not want to go into this, because there’s a question (to be) asked in Parliament (which sits on Monday)... MP will ask the question, so I let the question be answered in Parliament."

— 938LIVE/CNA/ir

http://sg.news.yahoo.com/cna/20090119/tap-280-singapore-govt-may-dip-reserves-231650b.html

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SINGAPORE, Jan 19 - Singapore is considering dipping into its reserves worth hundreds of billions of dollars for the first time to tackle an economic slump, as it plans a budget this week expected to fund infrastructure and tax rebates.

The government could draw on the central bank's foreign reserves that totalled $174.2 billion in December, or its two secretive sovereign funds GIC and Temasek that had at least a combined $230 billion in assets in reported figures last year.

"The reserves are sizeable, notwithstanding recent losses, which gives the government a huge buffer -- this is a good move," said Kit Wei Zheng, economist at Citigroup in Singapore.

"The question is: do other countries have this level of reserves?" Kit said, adding that most Asian countries were still able to pump prime their economies, with some exceptions in Southeast Asia, such as Malaysia, and in South Asia.

Governments around the world have launched multi-billion dollar economic stimulus plans in recent months, a bid to stave off more job losses and prevent an even deeper and longer recession. The United States and Britain are expected to announce further spending plans this week. Singapore's central bank, the Monetary Authority of Singapore, uses its reserves to steer monetary policy by managing the Singapore dollar within an undisclosed trading band.

"I don't think they will tap central bank reserves -- I don't think they will do anything that will compromise the central bank's ability to defend the Singapore dollar," Kit said.

The Government of Singapore Investment Corp invests foreign exchange reserves and says it manages much more than $100 billion, though analysts estimate the figure to be above $300 billion. Seven percent of its portfolio was cash as of March 2008.

The exact size of government reserves, which could also include revenues from land sales and dividends from firms owned by Temasek [TEM.UL], has also never been disclosed.

"We've always said 'the reserves are for a rainy day'. If this is not a rainy day, I don't know what is a rainy day," the Business Times quoted Senior Minister Goh Chok Tong as saying.

Asked how much should be drawn from the reserves, Goh said it depended on the measures that would justify their use.

TAX REBATES, WEAKER SING DOLLAR?

Finance Minister Tharman Shanmugaratnam will announce on Thursday a budget that is expected to create a deficit possibly three times bigger than an estimated S$800 million ($538 million), which would be funded by a S$6.4 billion surplus in the fiscal year to March 2008, the government said in November.

"The government is lining up a sizable fiscal stimulus ... which we expect to focus on alleviating the short-term pain," said Goldman Sachs in a report on Monday, adding this could include tax rebates, infrastructure projects and training.

"However, these policy responses may not be aggressive enough to provide a meaningful offset to the global macro headwinds plaguing the economy," it said, revising down its GDP forecast for Singapore to a 4 percent contraction for 2009.

Singapore was the first country in Asia to fall into recession last year, when its non-oil domestic exports slid 7.9 percent as demand weakened in its key trading partners such as the Europe and the United States.

Singapore's budgets amid the Asian financial crisis in 1997/1998 saw one-off rebates on personal income tax and government expenditure up 15 percent, plus two off-cycle budgets, measures that economists believe the city-state may repeate.

Citigroup felt this week's budget would not be aggressive enough with permanent income tax cuts unlikely to be part of the package. It recommended selling into strength on any pre-budget rally in the stock market <.FTSTI>.

"The drop may be aggravated by the risk that the MAS may have to weaken the Singapore dollar, by shifting the nominal effective exchange rate band downwards, before or at the April policy meeting," Citigroup said. (Additional reporting by Melanie Lee; Editing by Jan Dahinten)

Sunday 18 January 2009

... 感情結束時 ...

我的朋友最近在她的部落格這麽寫着∶

"the most memorable and true relationship is the one when you can still remain friends and give each other the most sincere blessing from the bottom of the heart."

大意是∶

最難忘與真誠的感情是彼此還能成爲朋友而從心底給對方最衷心的祝福。

很難做得到對嗎?可能需要很大的勇氣吧!當兩個不再相愛的人能放下從前的種種;不管快樂與悲傷去祝福對方?(當然,我有朋友是可以這麽做的。) 也許,有些人是這麽希望的。

或許你會問∶ 該誰先“放開悲傷的心情、打開胸懷”去接受你的前男/女朋友演變成朋友?是提出分手的;還是接受分手的?

當感情結束時,傷心慾絕是難免的。或者,你已經放棄對方了;對那段感情不再存有任何期待…

突然,對方再次聯絡你…還在療傷的你又作何打算?

Friday 16 January 2009

... i got 'harassed' ...

i went to meet my 'old' friends (since sec sch so it's 'old' le rite?? hee..) tonight at ikea tampines for dinner as i need to buy things there.. asked my best friend along as i don’t want to meet someone alone..

oopps.. sorry guys, i'm don't mean to turn down my favourite hobby to meet them de.. just that my leg is in pain and looked ugly with those chinese plaster on.. (愛美是女人的天性嘛) so better skip this time lor and dun aggretate my injury further.. else next time i got no legs to bowl already.. haha..

oh, back to the old friends' meet-up.. well, i had been wondering for a while already.. how come my so-called 'brother' is damn patient?? keep pestering me to meet up with him so many times; he’s been trying since last Christmas already.. isnt' he tired??

by the way, he’s married with 2 kids already.. shouldn’t he spend more time with his family than trying to meet me often? i know he’s trying to ‘maintain’ this friendship but i don’t want to be labeled as “第三者” in the future..

sometimes, i wished i could be ‘crude’ and tell him off.. furthermore, i’m a 黃花閨女lor.. hehe.. 給人看到也不是很好吧!last time already kena once le, so don’t wish the 2nd time will come again.. (luckily, he doesn't have my blog address, else i won't be posting this entry already)

Thursday 15 January 2009

... my astrology ...

got this website while reading ting zhiyong's blog.. or rather his archives.. haha..

enjoy! http://www.alabe.com/cgi-bin/chart/astrobot.cgi?Y

Rising Sign is in 05 Degrees Virgo

You tend to be very shy and not very self-assertive. You are supercritical about how you appear to others. Even though you may think you are uninteresting and dull, you are actually quite soft- spoken, orderly, neat and very likable. You are a perfectionist with high standards, and at times you can be quite tactless in pointing out the faults of others. Very practical, efficient and purposeful, your appearance and bearing reflect your need to appear graceful, sensible and reserved. You have a crisp, no-nonsense approach to dealing with others. Never lazy or self-indulgent, you tend to be dedicated to the work ethic.

Sun is in 17 Degrees Leo.

More than a bit of a showoff, you love to be the center of attention! But others do not usually mind because they tend to enjoy your genuine warmth and affection. Very spirited and willful, proud and self-important at times, you demand your own way. You are quite honest, however, and the respect of others is very important to you. You never compromise yourself and you pursue your goals with persistence and dedication. Your regal presence and demeanor draws you to positions of leadership and authority. But beware of being overly hardheaded, domineering, ostentatious or patronizing or you will lose the goodwill and admiration that you enjoy. Very theatrical, you live life on a grand scale wherever and whenever possible. Your strength and energy vitalizes those who come in contact with you.

Moon is in 03 Degrees Taurus.

Warmth, comfort, security and familiar surroundings are necessary for you to feel at ease. Very loving and affectionate, you prefer a steady, patterned way of life. Patient, calm and steadfast, you are not easily upset. Others look to you for support. You tend to be a slow starter and a slow mover -- others may try to rush you, but they will never succeed. Emotionally, you are quite stubborn -- your attitudes about people and things were firmly set in your youth and will change very little as an adult. You are also very cautious and conservative about spending money. It is not that you are selfish, you just need to feel secure. Beware of a tendency to become overly complacent and too self-satisfied.

Mercury is in 09 Degrees Leo.

You are usually quite convinced that your own ideas are correct and you enjoy persuading others that they are. At times, you are very stubborn and proud of your beliefs and principles, and you get very defensive when they are challenged. You appreciate truth and honesty -- you practice it yourself and expect it in others. You have good talent for organizing, directing and planning. You delight in being asked for your advice and counsel.

Venus is in 23 Degrees Cancer.

You like to be very close to other people. You need emotional support yourself and are willing to give it to others. When you feel unloved and insecure, you can be very jealous and possessive. You are not interested in casual or superficial relationships -- only deep emotional involvements interest you. Your faithful devotion is one of your greatest gifts, but be careful not to become too dependent on others. Learn to stand on your own two feet and demand your own rights once in a while.

Mars is in 08 Degrees Virgo.

Very careful and systematic, you pay great attention to details. You are always seeking perfection and sometimes get bogged down searching for the ultimate when adequacy would have been sufficient. You dislike abstractions, preferring whatever is practical, useful and demonstrable. You have a strong and enduring sense of personal responsibility, and you demand that others be as responsible and upright as you are. Very critical of yourself and others, sometimes you carry this too far and become overly intolerant of others and their right to choose their own lifestyles.

Jupiter is in 16 Degrees Pisces.

You are at your best when you give of yourself and what you have -- try to avoid being a martyr about it, though. You're a true idealist, but you must learn not to be upset when life does not cooperate with the way you think things should be. Very concerned with spiritual truth and growth, when you practice what you preach, you make an excellent role model for others. You are so devoted to altruistic ventures and concerns that you tire easily at times. It then becomes necessary for you to go off by yourself to recharge your batteries.

Saturn is in 13 Degrees Cancer.

The most important issue for you is emotional security. You have a deep and gnawing fear that those on whom you depend for emotional support will prove to be unreliable in the long run. When you are unloved and insecure, you distrust others and tend to feel isolated and lonely. Very cool, detached and objective, you can be counted on -- in situations that are inherently stressful or full of tension -- not to lose your self- control. That is a great and welcome gift at such times.

Uranus is in 24 Degrees Libra.

You, as well as your entire peer group, have a very free, unstable and unconventional approach to relationships and emotional commitments. You will be attracted to experiments in marriage and shared lifestyles. Personal freedom is more important to you than entangling emotional bonds. In the realm of art and aesthetics, you are attracted to the bizarre, shocking and unusual.

Neptune is in 06 Degrees Sagittarius.

You, and your entire generation, are heavily involved in investigating and idealizing foreign and exotic intellectual systems and religious philosophies. The most extreme ideals will be pursued with gusto. You will be at the forefront of humanitarian attempts to improve the lot of those who are in need of assistance. You will be comfortable with the concept of the "global village."

Pluto is in 04 Degrees Libra.

For your entire generation, this is a time of radical changes in society's attitude toward marriage and interpersonal relationships. There is a general fear and awe at the power inherent in making emotional or contractual commitments -- they will not be entered into lightly.

N. Node is in 17 Degrees Sagittarius.

You will probably have many different contacts and acquaintances throughout your life. You're quite gregarious by nature and your natural curiosity about others lets you take the lead in forming new relationships. You'll form close ties with those who have similarly idealistic ideas -- especially those who can stimulate you intellectually in your chosen field of interest. Your enthusiasm for learning new things may also cause you to do quite a bit of traveling. Because you probably will have many wide-ranging interests and concerns, you most likely will have contacts and connections in various parts of the country (or world).

Wednesday 14 January 2009

... fortune telling ...

guess what? this is something that keeps me pondering since Monday night.. (oppps! take so long to update this as i'm still trying to sort out my thoughts.. haha..)

a 'priest' (other than fortune tellers, are they called that too??) or fortune teller told me tis: i will marry late, and my husband-to-be is someone i know..

well, it's a good and bad news isn't it?? imagine i had plenty of guy friends whom i know.. how to find out which one?? maybe i sld just leave it har..

這種東西最好是另可信其有。我知道是不能強求的,不然;緣分就跑掉了。雖然,緣分是一個人強迫自己相信愛情的東西。(有部戯裏的台詞是這麽說的)我只‘相信’但不想迷。

so, do you believe in fortune telling then??

Sunday 11 January 2009

... be careful of CNY oranges ...

Chinese New Year is drawing near. When you buy Chinese oranges please beware of the worms inside. These worms are very similar to the texture of the orange and therefore can only be observe if you look carefully (long sighted person may not notice it).

The Chinese government had in fact made efforts to destroy hundreds of tons of these oranges and compensate the farmers for these. But however some culprit may still sell it illegally. That's why we need to be careful.

Whether the worms is harmful to the human body or not is still questionable. But generally if few numbers are consumed it should not make any harm according to doctors. It is advisable to be careful about it.

BEWARE OF CNY ORANGES FROM CHINA. WORM INSIDE THE ORANGES...

Saturday 10 January 2009

... bowling ..

haha.. i realized i have never mentioned much about this hobby that i had.. well, i started bowling only in 2007 when i get to know a bowling coach who happens to be my friend..

time passed, things happened.. from starting a bowling team as a hobby group to the present, i had also learnt a lot from this group of friends.. unfortunately, i left the team a while ago due to some personal reasons.. however, i still keep in touch with a few bowling kakis through this group and i'm still bowling with today..

sadly, i realized that i don't know what i want to achieve from this.. i mean, i'm still interested in bowling, but that enthusiasm is not as strong compared to when i started bowling.. we could bowled everyday!!

look at now.. i can easily stop for a week or two.. when i started my degree in august, i had not been bowling for about 3 months.. i hated myself for not being firm enough and continue when i should have..

in order to ‘convince’ myself, i tried very hard to maintain at least once a week routine so i won’t get ‘rusty’. however, it’s not working.. i hated myself.. not able to: get my basics right, pick up my spares and worse still: all my bad habits had returned..

anyway, just went bowling consecutively 2 days but i’m not happy with my results.. i could do an average of 120 on Friday, and yesterday, it’s back to 100.. haiz, i guess i got to start my regular bowling all over again..

Thursday 8 January 2009

... just a short entry ...

was workin today and was checking my uni's mailbox and server.. know that our semester 1 results would be out anytime now..

so had been checking them quite regularly..

and so today, saw what i want to see.. i passed my econ paper!! hooray!! but of course not very gd lah.. out of 2 modules i got a B and a C.. haha..

i think i gonna be happy for a while!

過後,去拜訪朋友的部落格。

那么巧看到我当初不想、不該看的东西。看了以后,心里就怪怪的。不是跟自己说以后就不看了嗎?都過那麽久了,還难以相信到现在我还耿耿于怀。哈哈!幸好那感覺不久就‘走’了。

Monday 5 January 2009

... life is too short ...

Life is too short

Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness

Laugh when you can

And let go of what you can't change

Love deeply and forgive quickly

Take chances. give everything

And have no regrets.. life's too short to be unhappy

you have to take good with the bad

Smile when you're sad. love what you got… and

Always remember you you had

Always forgive, never forget

Learn from your mistakes, but never regret

Friday 2 January 2009

... new 'blog' ...

those of you who had been a follower of my blog, you'll notice i have done some changes to my blog.. new year just begin mah so must also have a new look.. so i told myself that: my new year resolution every year shall be: change my skin (my blog skin i mean).. haha.. and start updating it regularly!!

hoo hoo!!! after i chanced upon this wonderful website (well it's listed at the side) and browsing it for a few days, I finally found something i like and change my blog skin.. *for those you who like to change your blog skin, welcome to click and surf the eblogtemplates.com webby!! enjoy!! *

well, just to indicate that I have changes so my readers won't get bored.. hahaha.. furthermore, i had been using the old skin for a while already..

time passed.. it's been a while since i started writing blog.. if u had started reading from my first entry, u would know i had switched from friendster to moblog to now, blogger.. this simply means: i'm getting old already.. :(

well, have anyone ever wonder: why write a blog?? is it because it's a trend nowadays; having an "everyone write, so i write" attitude? or u want people to know about what happen in your daily life?? well, whatever the reasons that is, just hope that you enjoys having one and continues writing your blog…

for me, i started blogging because of few reasons.

i had been writing diary since i'm 13 (well, i have about 20 over books and counting) under my dad's influence.

plain lazy caught up with me. before i totally become bo chap and stop this habit altogether, i have to 'salvage' and keep it going..

instead of stopping writing my diary, i decided to write a blog since at that time (forget exactly when – tell u i'm old le rite?? heehee) everyone is doing it. technology is getting more advanced, we could do anything, anywhere in the virtual world. importantly, it's another 'diary writing version'. of course, i still write my dirary occasionally though.

without further delay, i started blogging.. i'm afraid of getting old and senile.. i might as well do it now rather than regretting in my older days.. also, by reading my own blog, i could immediately know what i have done during my younger days.. provided by then, i can still find my blog address somewhere.. haha.. (think it's time to let my family know about this blog.. haha..)

Thursday 1 January 2009

... shocking ...

first day of 2009 morning and here i am at the airport rushing my assignment.. totally have no motivation to do the assignment so decided to skive.. hee.. checking my facebook, reading friend's blog, etc. at the same time chat a bit; hopefully to catch up old times with my long-lost friends..

then, i saw my long lost ex-colleague on msn.. didn’t talk to her for a while, hence asked about the usual questions, how are you, how you have been, etc. till i asked her about her love life..

she told me she had a new love.. which i feel so happy for her.. as i knew previously, she was devastated about her last relationship of a few years.. and because of that, she had lost quite a bit of weight.. become very haggard too..

then came the shocking part i got.. her new love is her new born son!! who is born in sept..

i'm really shocked, stunned, amazed, whatever you could think of.. words were lost for that few seconds when the words appeared on my screen..

first of all, i never knew she was even pregnant!! next, i always saw her online but didn't had the opportunity to chat with her.. i'm someone who doesn't know how to start a conversation.. she was flying around due to her new job and thought she have overcome the sadness eventually..

most probably, the kid belongs to her ex-boyfriend, but why didn’t she let him know and choose to be a single mother?? 可能她有自己的苦衷吧!

i’m not looking down on single mother but it sure takes a huge amount courage to be one.. in short, single mother have more factors to overcome than a complete family.. the gossips, the stares and other scenarios.. I always admire/salute single parent as it’s not easy to be one.. has to be a father and/or mother’s role at different time..

sigh! 真不知道這是好事還是壞事。我從來都沒想過有一天她會是個單親媽媽。往往事情就是這樣,永遠超出我們想象範圍。I used to have a ex-colleague who is a single mother too.. in the end, she left as she couldn’t take the kind of ‘discrimination’ that my colleagues had with her.. now, this friend (different company i.e. different ex-colleague) is another single mother among my circle of friends..

... another year gone ...

hey it's 2009 already!!

everyone is out counting down to the new year (well, should be over le when i post this), yet i'm home writing my blog.. well well, i'm an old lady already.. so, i guess staying at home is the best choice.. haha..

anyway, was at my boss's house earlier for buffet dinner.. came home just in time for count down.. with my dear parents.. hoo hoo!! poor them, stayed at home watching the new year party show (taiwan's countdown).. but guess they enjoyed it.. 也難得只有他們兩個老的.. 哈哈!

well, just hope whatever unhappiness n bad luck go away with 2008.. welcome all the good things in 2009!! it's a simple wish huh??

在回家的途中聼着張學友—我等到花兒也謝了,讓我有所感觸。又或許是感傷吧。

對啊,我在等甚麽?都過了秋冬了,夠了吧!爲何你就是不肯說我想聼的話?你知道我想聼甚麽的。爲何你就是不肯說?爲何你就不能做這一點點?陪我、安慰我真的有那麽難嗎?我真的等到花兒也謝了!


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