"If you ever want something badly, let it go. If it comes back to you, then it's yours forever. If it doesn't, then it was never yours to begin with."
After I watched this movie since 1993... umpteen times, whenever I wanted something repeatedly, I would remind myself about this phrase... not sure does it applied to everyone? At least it does to me personally...
Many years back, I have gone through some rough patches and always had this wish that this someone would come back to me eventually even though he had hurt me many times.. As years gone by, this feeling of wanting him back had slowly faded away…
Human being are such funny animal, upon losing something precious, then they realized to treasure the precious only AFTER. Why can't we just treasure the precious thing we have from day one? Why must it be only upon losing it?
Why go through 失去了才懂得珍惜 such agony?
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When two people fall in love, it is always the nicest thing that happens on planet earth… both of you won't get tired of seeing each other everyday and never complains that you are sick and tired of hearing his/her voice even the calls are only 3 seconds long..
Sadly, all these will gradually disappears and what that's left are the little arguments which sometimes leads to quarrels or worse still, fights.
Is it because they have become 'a habit' to each other? Or is it we know our partner too well and thus lost that loving feeling already?
Unfortunately, one of them might start to search for better leaves or flowers on the roadside… as the trees/flowers are greener on the other side... they will start finding excuses not to get close to their partner, avoid talking to them; fearing it might lead to another argument.
So, why not take into consideration -
"I thought we were invincible. But now I know that the things that people in love do to each other, they remember. And if they stay together, it's not because they forget. It's because they forgive."
Shall we just forgive and forget and start anew??
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