也許，我還忘不了你的好、那段好長的感情。對你的付出與我的背叛還耿耿於懷。我嘗試補償或挽救但都已經徒然了。因爲我一直在乎的事竟然又離我而去。
也許，朋友說中了∶ 由始至終，我根本沒愛過；因爲還沒遇到。但我拒絕相信。曾經以爲你會是陪在我身邊的最後一個人。有你；我不需要浪漫也不奢求華麗的寵愛。
也許，我傷害了你。使你曾付出的一切都完完全全白費了。你的以爲促使放縱我的空虛。曾給你我能負擔的卻只換來冷漠的無動於衷。
也許，你是個享受者；為你的付出喝彩。難道就不能換個角色來感受嗎？只要一次就好。
也許，真相就擺在眼前，但往往我們就是無法看見。
也許，我的世界你不曾在乎。你的話語還浮現在我腦海裏；你說的我都記得，那我說的你是否沒忘記？是敷衍我還是真心話？我已經分不清楚了。
有些時候我真的很恨自己。不是該學會“拿得起，放得下”嗎？但我發現有些事我卻無法做到。
I was reading the news this morning.. came across the news about the re-trial of the Sydney murder case.
Found out that the Australia Government (Court of Appeal) will be looking for a 're-cap' of the murder case again.. i.e. a re-trial for Ram Puneet Tiwary.
Oh my god!! 5 yrs after everyone thought the case had ended, but not anymore.. i start to 'fear' that Ram would be free.. (which my whole family dun understand why am i afraid?? that includes myself too.. but that was seriously the initial reaction when reading the news..)
Are there really loop holes in the case?? the papers mentioned that nobody could prove Ram was the one that killed.. i.e. no eye witness nor any noise..
Asked my dad about uncle tay (yes, we knew one of the victim's family) how he felt after a few days.. well, dad said that he was calm but felt a bit shocked that the case is brought up again.. but nobody could do anything .. it's the choice of the victims' family whether to go australia for the hearing. i knew the tan family are not going..
I'm loss for words.. just hope things won't turned out to be what i thought.. murderer can't go free after killing 2 people right??
See Full Report: Straits Times 18 Dec 08
(Source: http://news.asiaone.com/News/the%2BStraits%2BTimes/Story/A1Story20081218-108626.html)
人，往往因爲某些人與事而做些意想不到的犧牲；忽略了身旁関心他們的朋友和家人。以爲，不讓身邊關心的人知道就無所謂。結果，事實偏偏就不會站在理所當然的一邊。
辜負了関心的人、把這辜負便宜了不該分享這成果的人。
也許你會恨自己 ~ 氣啊氣！哭一場是希望能補償做錯事所闖的禍嗎？能夠嗎？真的行嗎？就好像天使與魔鬼的鬥爭。。
到現在才覺悟當初的教訓是真實、刻苦銘心的。是否是太遲了？
想想吧，朋友！
他，忙于工作，每天早出晚归。
她，结婚后就辞去工作，每天呆在家里。
他，拼命工作，努力赚钱，为的是两人可以有个更好的未来。
她，辞去工作，全职顾家，为的是守护两人幸福的现在。
他很爱她，她很爱他。
他很老实，她对他在外面工作很放心，绝对信任他。
她很独立，他对她照顾自己很有信心，绝对放心她。
每天夜里，当他夜归时，煲里还有温着地炖汤。
每天早上，当他起床时，桌上都有温暖的咖啡。
这样的日子，从结婚后开始，持续了三年。
她从不过问他的工作，只是知道他在越升越高，日子渐渐富裕起来。
他从不过问她的家事，只是知道家里井井有条，家庭依旧和谐幸福。
他不喜欢电脑，每天工作就对着电脑N小时了，回家决不碰电脑。
她不喜欢电脑，每天却在独处的时候对着电脑N小时，非常忙碌。
直到有一天，他接到一通电话。
"请问是陈先生吗？你的太太晕倒被送入院，她的子宫癌已经是末期了，请你来见他最后一面。"
晴天霹雳，他赶到医院，看着她悲痛欲绝的问她为什么不告诉他。
她看着他，对着他微笑，告诉他她爱他然后微笑着永远闭上眼睛。
他失去了生活中心，他失去了人生方向，他失去了他爱的她。
他后悔，他懊恼，他怨恨他自己，为什么没花多一点时间陪她，去了解她。
妻子出殡后，他独自回到空无一人的家里，厨房里不再有炖汤。
他坐在客厅里发呆，想哭却哭不出来。
这时，他看到了客厅里的电脑，他想看看照片，这些他仅剩和她美丽的回忆。
第一次开启家里的电脑，看到桌面上有个叫《老公，是我》的文件夹，里面有1095个录影片段。
电脑荧幕上出现了一张熟悉的脸孔~
扬声器传来熟悉的声音~
他的眼泪，终于决堤而出。
“老公，是我啦~~从今天开始由我陪伴你过吧~~不过你要答应我，一天只能看一个哦~~我们终于结婚了，你知道吗？能嫁给你是我一生最大的幸福，我会把每天发生的事情记录在一段录影日记里，几年后的结婚纪念日拿给你看，一定很有趣的~................”
影片接下来就是她絮絮不休的说着一些生活上的琐事和他们之间的事情，他看了看影片日期，结婚的那一天~
第一次，他违背了深爱的她的意愿，一个又一个的影片看了下去~
“老公，你很忙碌，要好好照顾身体哦.........”
“老公，今天难得你陪我去购物，我好开心哦.........”
“老公，一周年纪念日了，谢谢你的礼物，对不起还没能给你生个孩子，我们再努力吧......”
“老公，我身体很不舒服，不懂为什么常常会肚子痛，明天我自己去看医生好了......”
“老公，医生说我患上了子宫癌，建议我切除，你说他是不是傻的，我还想要孩子呐.......”
“老公，我有乖乖做治疗的，药都有吃，不过我不要做化疗，剃了头就不美了，你一定会笑我的.......”
“老公，医生又叫我切除子宫了，他说不然就太迟了，我痛骂了他一顿，这家伙不知好歹，总是要破坏我们的计划.......”
“老公，我看我应该不怎么行了，请原谅我不告诉你，因为我想你永远记住我美好的一面，这些事情我自己来就好了.......”
“老公，我们结婚都已经三年了，我想我是撑不住了，我不在后，你要好好生活，炖汤的食谱都在电脑里，咖啡的冲泡方法也在里面，一切都为你准备好了，你要好好学着照顾自己。”
“老公，如果你一天看一个录影，现在已经三年了，你应该习惯了没有我的生活吧？是时候把我收在回忆里自己走出来了，你的人生还很漫长，找个爱你和你爱的人继续生活吧。”
“老公，应该是这几天了，我知道时间到了。不过我猜想你应该不会那么老实一天看一个影片吧，看到这里你也累坏了啦，我也很累了，是时候离开了。记得，好好继续生活啊。你还记得吗？你说过你会爱我一辈子的，我也回答你我会用我的一辈子去爱你。现在我们的诺言都实现了，我要离开了，我的确用了我的一辈子去爱你。你也别难过了，你已经爱了我一辈子了，这样的我们，很幸福不是吗？.......最后一次了，老公，对不起，我爱你.....”
看完了1095个影片，他不知道已经过了多久，泪水流了又干，干了又流。
打开窗帘，温暖的阳光照了进来，他对着晴朗的天空，轻轻说了句~
“老婆，对不起，我爱你~”
Would you like to know if your mobile is original or not ?????
Press the following on your mobile *#06# and the-international mobile equipment identity number appears. Then check the 7th and 8th numbers:
x x x x x x ? ? x x x x x x x
IF the Seventh & Eighth digits are 02 or 20 this means your cell phone was assembled in China which is low quality
IF the Seventh & Eighth digits are 08 or 80 this means your cell phone was manufactured in Germany which is fair quality
IF the Seventh & Eighth digits are 01 or 10 this means your cell phone was manufactured in Finland which is very Good
IF the Seventh & Eighth digits are 00 this means your cell phone was manufactured in original factory which is the best Mobile Quality
IF the Seventh & Eighth digits are 13 this means your cell phone was assembled in Azerbaijan which is very Bad quality and also dangerous for your health
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'媽媽&婆婆的差別':
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以下是位不署名的網友看了上面2篇文章後有感而發寫的:
'婆婆對待女兒和媳婦的差別'：
He said to me... I don't know why you wear a bra; you've got nothing to put in it.
She said to him... You wear pants don't you?
He said to me... Shall we try swapping positions tonight?
She said... That's a good idea - you stand by the ironing board while I sit on the sofa and fart!
He said to me... What have you been doing with all the grocery money I gave you?
She said to him... Turn sideways and look in the mirror!
He said to me... Why don't women blink during foreplay?
She said to him... They don't have time.
He said to me... How many men does it take to change a roll of toilet paper?
She said to him... We don't know; it has never happened.
He said to me... Why is it difficult to find men who are sensitive, caring and Good-looking?
She said to him... They already have boyfriends.
He said... What do you call a woman who knows where her husband is every night?
She said... A widow.
He said to me... Why are married women heavier than single women?
She said to him... Single women come home, see what's in the fridge and go to bed. Married women come home, see what's in bed and go to the fridge.
FYI... Product barcodes reveal the country of manufacture.
The whole world is scared of China made 'black hearted goods'.
Can you differentiate which one is made in Taiwan or China ?
The first 3 digits of barcode 690.691.692 is made in CHINA.
Do not ever buy it for your own healthy.
471 is Made in Taiwan
This is a human's right to know, but the government and related department never educate the public, therefore we have to Rescue ourselves.
Remember.
Nowadays, China businessmen know the consumers do not prefer products 'made in china', so they won't show made from which country.
However, you may now refer to the barcode,
if the first 3 digits is 690-692 then it is made in China.
SG products start with 888...
China-made will be 690, 691 and 692.. etc.
471 is Made in Taiwan
Wife : 'What are you doing?'
Husband : Nothing.
Wife : 'Nothing...? You've been reading our marriage certificate for an hour.'
Husband : 'I was looking for the expiry date.'
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Wife : 'Do you want dinner?'
Husband : 'Sure! What are my choices?'
Wife : 'Yes or no.'
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Wife : 'You always carry my photo in your wallet. Why?'
Hubby : 'When there is a problem, no matter how impossible, I look at your picture and the problem disappears.'
Wife : 'You see how miraculous and powerful I am for you!'
Hubby : 'Yes! I see your picture and ask myself what other problem can there be greater than this one?'
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Girl: 'When we get married, I want to share all your worries, troubles and lighten your burden.'
Boy: 'It's very kind of you, darling, but I don't have any worries or troubles.'
Girl: 'Well that's because we aren't married yet.'
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Son : 'Mom, when I was on the bus with Dad this morning, he told me to give up my seat to a lady.'
Mom : 'Well, you have done the right thing.'
Son : 'But mom, I was sitting on daddy's lap.'
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A newly married man asked his wife, 'Would you have married me if my father hadn't left me a fortune?'
'Honey,' the woman replied sweetly, 'I'd have married you,
NO MATTER WHO LEFT YOU A FORTUNE!'
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Girl to her boyfriend: One kiss and I'll be yours forever .
The guy replies : 'Thanks for the early warning.'
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A wife asked her husband: 'What do you like most in me, my pretty face or my sexy body?'
He looked at her from head to toe and replied: 'I like your sense of humor.'
Many of us are not aware that the petrol kiosk pump has a return pipe-line (in Pink). When the petrol tank (in the car) reaches full level, there is a mechanism to trigger off the pump latch and at the same time a return-valve is opened (at the top of the pump station) to allow excess petrol to flow back into the sump. But the return petrol has already pass through the meter, meaning you are donating the petrol back to SHELL/CALTEX/MOBIL/ESSO
CocoWater is naturally:
> Low in Carbs
> 99% Fat Free
> Low in sugars
Coconut Water contains organic compounds possessing healthy growth promoting properties that have been known to help:
Perfect explanation for generation Y.
Hmm, I've always wondered this myself.
Now I know.
- The Silent generation, people born before 1946.
- The Baby Boomers, people born between 1946 and 1964.
- Generation X, people born between 1965 and 1979.
- Generation Y, people born between 1980 and 1995.
Why do we call the last one generation Y?
I did not know, but a caricaturist explains it eloquently below.
AH BENG the Crazy Singaporean.
Why did Ah Beng go to a movie with his 18 friends? Because below 18 not allowed !
Ah Beng wants to buy a TV set. He goes to a shop.
Ah Beng: 'Do you have color TV ?'
Salesgirl: 'Yes !'
Ah Beng: 'Give me a green one, please '
Ah Beng is filling up an application form for a job.
He supplied the information for the columns on Name, Age, Address etc.
Then he comes to column on 'Salary Expected', but he is not sure of the question.
After much thought, he writes 'Yes'
Ah Beng goes to a store and sees a shiny object.
Ah Beng: 'What is that shiny object?'
Salesgirl: 'That is a thermos flask.'
Ah Beng: 'What does it do?'
Salesgirl: 'It keeps hot things hot and cold things cold.'
Ah Beng: 'I'll buy it'
The next day, Ah Beng goes to work with his thermo flask.
Boss: 'What is that shiny object?'
Ah Beng: 'It's a thermos flask.'
Boss: 'What does it do?'
Ah Beng: 'It keeps hot things hot and cold things cold.'
Boss: 'What do you have in it!?'
Ah Beng: 'Two cups of coffee and one cup of ice cream.'
After taking photocopies of documents, Ah Beng always compares it with the original for spelling mistakes.
Ah Beng always smiles during lightning storms because he thinks his picture is being taken.
Why can't Ah Beng dial 911?
Because he can't find the number 11 (eleven) on the phone.
Ah Beng had just bought a new computer and was using it.
When he encountered some problems.
He decide to use the 'Help' command after some tries.
Soon after, he became very irritated and called the computer retailer for support.
Ah Beng: 'I press the 'F1' key for help lah, but it's been over half an hour and still nobody come and help me ah?!'
Ah Beng with two red ears went to his doctor.
The doctor asked him what had happened to his ears and he answered,
'I was ironing a shirt and the phone ring, lah - but instead of picking up the phone, I accidentally picked up the iron and stuck it to my ear, lah.'
'Oh dear!' the doctor exclaimed in disbelief. 'But..what happened to the other ear?'
Ah Beng answered: 'That stupid dumbo called back, lah!!!!'
Ah Beng talk to a long-distance telephone operator.
Ah Beng: 'COULD YOU PLEASE TELL ME THE TIME DIFFERENCE BETWEEN Taipei AND LAS VEGAS ?'
Operator: 'JUST A MINUTE...'
Ah Beng: 'THANK YOU, lah.' AND PUTS DOWN THE PHONE.
After completing a jigsaw puzzle he'd been working on for quite some time, Ah Beng proudly shows off the finished puzzle to a friend.
'It took me ONLY 5 MONTHS TO DO IT', Ah Beng brags.
'FIVE MONTHS? THAT'S TOO LONG', the friend exclaims.
'YOU ARE A FOOL.' Ah Beng replies, 'SEE THIS BOX, IT IS WRITTEN FOR 4-7 YRS'.
At a bar in New York , the man to Ah Beng's left tells the bartender, 'JOHNNIE WALKER, SINGLE'
and his companion says, 'JACK DANIELS, SINGLE'.
The bartender approaches Ah Beng and asks, 'AND YOU, SIR?'
Ah Beng replies: 'Tan Ah Beng, MARRIED ar'
Use pad for more than 3 hours can cause cervical cancer & bacteria infection.
FOR THOSE OF US WHO USE SANITARY NAPKINS/PADS:
If u ever wondered what were the ingredients that made popular brands so 'free! and light and carefree', well here's the bit:
The material that makes the pad so paper THIN, is cellulose gel. Yeap, it's not even cotton!!!!!!
DO NOT wear the same pad for more than 3 hours of a maximum!!! After this duration, the genital area is prone to bacterial action and may result in cervical cancer or other complications!!!!!!!!!!
REMEMBER! NEVER NEVER NEVER WEAR THE SAME PAD FOR MORE THAN 3 HOURS!!!!
So yes, please pass on this message to as many women as possible and save lives!!!!!!!!!!
If you are a woman and use pads, but especially if you use tampons, read this and pass it on to your friends. For the men receiving this email, please forward it to your friends, significant others, wife, sisters, mothers,daughters, etc.) Thanks!
Check the labels of the sanitary pads or tampons that you are going to buy the next time and see whether you spot any of the familiar signs stated in this email.
No wonder so many women in the world suffer from cervical cancer and womb tumors. Have you heard that tampon makers include asbestos in tampons? Why would they do this?
Because asbestos makes you bleed more, if you bleed more, you're going to need to use more. Why isn't this against the law since asbestos is sodangerous? Because the powers that be, in all their wisdom (not), did not consider tampons as being ingested, and, therefore, didn't considerthem illegal or dangerous.
This month's Essence magazine has small article about this and they mention two manufacturers of a cotton tampon alternative. The companies are: Organic Essentials @ 1-(800) 765-6491 and Terra Femme @ 1-(800)755-0212 .
A woman getting her Ph.D. at University of Colorado at Boulder sent the following: 'I am writing this because women are not being informed about the dangers of something most of us use: tampons. I am taking a class this month and I have been learning a lot about biology and women, including much about feminine hygiene. Recently we have learned that tampons are actually dangerous (for other reasons than TSS). I'll tell you this - after learning about this in our class, most of the females wound up feeling angry and upset with the tampon industry, and I for one, am going to do something about it. To start, I want to inform everyone I can, and email is the fastest way that I know how.
HERE ! IS THE SCOOP:
Tampons contain two things that are potentially harmful: Rayon (for absorbency), and dioxin (a chemical used in bleaching the products). The tampon industry is convinced that we, as women, need bleached white products in order to view the product as pure and clean. The problem here is that the dioxin, which is produced in this bleaching process, can lead to very harmful problems for a woman. Dioxin is potentially carcinogenic cancer-associated and is toxic to the immune andreproductive systems. It has also been linked to endometriosis and lower sperm counts for men. For both sexes, it breaks down the immune system.
Last September, the Environmental Protection Agency (EPA) reported that there really is no set 'acceptable' level of exposure to dioxin given that it is cumulative and slow to disintegrate. The real danger comes from repeated contact Karen Couppert 'Pulling the Plug on the Tampon Industry'). I'd say using about 4-5 tampons a day, five days a month, for 38 menstruating years is 'repeated contact', wouldn't you?! Rayon contributes to the danger of tampons and dioxin because it is a highly absorbent substance. Therefore, when fibers from the tampons are left behind in the vagina (as usually occurs), it creates a breeding ground for the dioxin. It also stays in a lot longer than it would with just cotton tampons. This is also the reason why TSS (toxic shock syndrome) occurs.
WHAT ARE THE ALTERNATIVES?
Using feminine hygiene products that aren't bleached and that are all cotton. Other feminine hygiene products (pads/napkins) contain dioxin as well, but they are not nearly as dangerous since they are not in direct contact with the vagina. The pads/napkins need to stop being bleached, but, obviously, tampons are the most dangerous. So, what can you do if you can't give up using tampons? Use tampons that are made from 100% cotton, and that are UNBLEACHED. Unfortunately, thereare very few companies that make these safe tampons. They are usually only found in health food stores. Countries all over the world (Sweden, Germany, British Columbia, etc.) have demanded a switch to this safer tampon, while the U.S. has decided to keep us in the dark about it. In 1989, activists in England mounted a campaign against chlorine bleaching. Six weeks and 50,000 letters later, the makers of sanitary products switched to oxygen bleaching (one of the green methods available) (MS magazine, May/June 1995).
WHAT TO DO NOW:
Tell people. Everyone. Inform them. We are being manipulated by this industry and the government, let's do something about it! Please write to the companies: Tampax (Tambrands), Playtex, O.B., Kotex. Call the 800 numbers listed on the boxes. Let them know that we demand a safe product ALL COTTON UNBLEACHED TAMPONS.
References: 1 Women Health Issues - Thrush
原來同一星座還分三個
牡羊座的三個階段
第一個階段是生日在3月21日到3月31日之間
這個階段的主宰行星是火星，個性非常專制；牡羊座的個性也非常明顯，常常不耐煩，容易惱火，很有侵略性、很獨立，偶爾有些小怪癖。你能夠加強的部分是不要有太獨斷的語言，太過獨斷的話會讓別人引起反感。你的想像力非常豐富，也很相信自己的直覺，這是你的特殊才能。但當直覺錯誤時，你會不願承認，這是要特別注意的喔！你在做決定的時候，常常會依靠感覺和直覺，因此平常要多吸收點資訊，這樣你的直覺才會更加準確。你的能力非常的強，但是有時會因為缺乏耐心而無法成功。
第二個階段是生日在4月1日到4月10日之間
這個階段主宰行星是太陽，代表榮譽還有光明，代表變化與改革。牡羊座本來就是好動的星座，加上太陽的力量，就可以加強好動性，但是又不會那麼專制。其實你是一個喜歡競爭的人，對一成不變或是反覆無聊的工作，一點都不會喜歡，因此你需要常常開發你的新點子和能力。愈能開發你的潛能，就愈能夠嶄露頭角。你有迅速的情報收集能力，這一點跟雙子座有點類似；因此，走在時代尖端的工作最適合此階段出生的牡羊座喔！
第三個階段是生日在4月11日到4月20日之間
主宰是木星，也就是說此階段的人是牡羊座中最有同情心和道德心的一群。你算是比較有禮貌的，不像其他牡羊座一樣橫衝直撞，而且內心比較纖細敏感，較有藝術才能。要協調你內心的衝突矛盾，因為你常常會做出一些衝動的事情，過後才後悔不已，然後又覺得自己不該這樣做，而深深後悔。你是一個非常善良的人，要懂得如何調適，讓心裡敏感的一面軟化衝動的個性，你就可以成為一個成功的人唷！
金牛座的三個階段
第一個階段是生日在4月21日到4月30日之間
這個階段的金牛座是最樂於幫助他人的金牛座。個人行星是金星，代表愛與美，你對於愛情相當執著，對於身邊的人也抱持同情心，因此你滿擅長做義工或是從事一些服務的行業。對你來講，如果可以同時運用你的藝術鑑賞能力又可以賺錢，真是一舉多得的事。而你也需要常常跟人家溝通內心的感覺，你很會從別人身上吸取經驗，這個階段出生的金牛座所具有的特質。
第二個階段是生日在5月1日到5月10日之間
個人行星是水星，代表知識，因此這個階段的金牛座比較會表達自己，可以很清楚地將自己所要的、所想的表達出來。唯一要克服的是常因臉皮薄的問題，有時候即使你知道怎麼說、怎麼表達，但是臉皮太薄而作罷，並且害怕失敗。善用你的口才，對你的事業或各方面、人際關係都能如虎添翼。
第三個階段是生日在5月11日到5月19之間
個人行星是土星，你是比較沉穩的金牛座，也是最有耐心、最體貼、最貼心，但也最保守的金牛座。旺盛的精力是你的特質，不管做什麼事情你總是能夠孜孜不倦地努力；別人看你好像沒有什麼power，但是你就像小火車一樣，不斷地跑，跑了很久也不會喊累，耐力是你成功最大的武器。
雙子座的三個階段
第一個階段是生日在5月 20到5月31日之間
個人主宰星是水星，你的反應超級快，別人說話說到一半時，你已經知道他的重點在哪裡，而且迫不及待替對方下結論。你也常常覺得別人慢吞吞地沒有效率，因為你一個人就可以做三個人的事，而且早就知道該如何做了。建議你多用自己良好的表達能力來幫助你的工作，但你感性豐富的一面很容易影響你對事情的判斷力，要小心。
第二個階段是生日在6月1日到6月10日之間
個人主宰星是金星，雖然你常常說者無心，但是還是常會不小心傷害了別人。你的心腸很好，但卻習慣用理性的態度來解析事情，也因此有時別人會覺得你很冷血。建議你多運用你的幽默感來化解這個缺點，將會使你變成一個人見人愛的雙子喔！
第三個階段是生日在6月 11到6月21日之間
個人主宰星是土星，心情不好時你就會像一堆爛泥一樣，什麼事都不想做，還有放下一切的打算，所以你要小心自己情緒上的控制。基本上你是樂觀的，只要不讓情緒主宰了你，你的創意將會為你帶來大筆財富。
巨蟹座的三個階段
第一個階段是生日在6月22日到6月30日之間
這個階段個人的行星是月亮，所以會特別的敏感，是巨蟹座當中最敏感的一群。你的模仿能力或是藝術天分都非常的優異，只不過現在的社會太講求效率了，你敏感的特質會因為講求效率或者是時間的壓迫而被抹煞，因此這個階段出生的巨蟹座要好好調適自己的神經系統，懂得放鬆自己才是。
第二個階段是生日在7月1日到7月11日之間
個人的行星是火星，火星通常代表戰鬥力，雖然你的主宰星、主要守護星是月亮，但是加上火星的影響使你更有決斷力，而你對於許多厭煩的事情也會表現出很強烈的不耐煩，並不像其他的巨蟹座具有那麼多的包容能力。不過這個時段出生的巨蟹座倒是相當多才多藝，口才也不錯，可以用自己的口才來強化自己工作上的表現。
第三個階段是生日在7月12日到7月22日之間
你個人的行星是木星和海王星同時衝突著，木星代表好運，而海王星象徵的是一種精神層面，因此常常都會有莫名其妙的好運。因為重視心靈的層面，你的伴侶一定也要很重視心靈。你買到的東西一定要物美價廉外，還要兼有藝術品味，而不會是只因為便宜就買，這段時間的巨蟹座對於實用和藝術價值都要兼具，因此有點小小的挑剔傾向喔！
獅子座的三個階段
第一個階段是生日在7月23日到7月31日之間
這個階段出生的獅子座個性比較溫和，沒那麼強硬，但還是有一種好動的傾向。你滿具有藝術天分的，對於觀察人世間的事情非常敏銳，是具有哲學性格而且也善於做心理分析的獅子座。最重要的是這個階段出生的獅子座，常常會因為在做出決定之後，感到後悔。對你而言，要在當下就能做出很棒的決定，必須先收集一些資料，才是最重要也最需要的。
第二個階段是生日在8月1日到8月11日之間
這個階段的你，會擁有明顯的獅子座個性，不但自信十足、自信滿滿，主觀性也稍微強了一點。有的時候會不自覺去壓倒別人，或是展現出強勢的作風，不過對於朋友是兩肋插刀，而且講義氣得不得了。當你的愛人、朋友是幸福的，只要偶爾能忍受你不小心突來的脾氣。你的耐心非常缺乏，所以你身邊的人都要多一點耐心才行。
第三個階段是生日在8月12日到8月22日之間
這個階段的獅子座有一點點處女座的個性，因此在處理事情方面多了一些分析檢討的能力，事後也會自己在家裡悶著頭想失敗的原因。不過常常想到一半就覺得太煩了、覺得頭好大喔！然後就不去想了。因此，貫徹始終，善用分析能力，是這個階段的獅子座成功的關鍵。對於他人稍有同情心，因此可以注意到四周旁人的感受，是個比較溫和、謹慎的獅子座。
處女座的三個階段
第一個階段是生日在8月23日到8月31日之間
在這個階段出生的處女座，做事情會稍稍有點霸氣，而且過於主觀，這是你要小心的地方。不過比較好的是，這個階段出生的處女座決斷力比較強，少了猶豫不決的特質，再搭配原來善於分析的個性，會讓你在做事情之前想得很清楚，做事情之後比較放得開，這是相當可喜的現象。
第二個階段是生日在9月1日到9月11日之間
這段期間出生的處女座，個人行星是土星。你非常有耐心，非常體貼，而且非常節儉。不過這並不代表你是一個鐵公雞喔！而是你認為錢是要花在該花的地方。你並不需要別人的督促或是指導，就會自己朝自己的目標前進。再複雜的事情在你抽絲剝繭之下也會變得很簡單，你需要加強的就是合夥的關係，不過除了要和你的夥伴處得很好之外，也不要讓他養成依賴你的習慣。
第三個階段是生日在9月12日到9月22日之間
你的個人行星是金星，因此你會比其他處女座更具備敏感的特質。你很不喜歡破壞人與人之間的關係，因此有時候會抱著不想破壞友誼、乾脆自己來處理的態度，因此久而久之自己會背負過多的責任。因為你的情緒非常敏感，因此常常會覺得受傷害；但是沒有關係，不妨運用你的敏感性來增加其他方面才能。例如你可以將這份敏感性投注到寫作或是藝術上的創作，一定會有不錯的表現；以免自己對於某些事想破了頭、鑽牛角尖一直鑽不出來，而別人卻在無心之中感覺傷害了你，不是很划不來嗎？
天秤座的三個階段
第一個階段是生日在9月23到9月30日之間
個人主宰星是金星，你有時會忍不住在心中挑剔一些人，但是表面上你還是會和他們維持良好圓融的關係，但是要提醒你，有時候你會因太過於想要面面俱到，而使自己陷入兩難的局面，若是結局不開心，你還會責怪自己。問題是你不可能討好每一個人，這點你一定要清楚認知才行。
第二個階段是生日在10月1日到10月11日之間
個人主宰星是土星，你是一個十分在意形象的人，所以雖然你也有很多私人情感和情緒，你卻不願意在人前輕易表露。就算在心愛的人面前，你也會因為不想讓他擔心，或是累了一天懶得說，而保持沉默，只想讓情緒自己沉澱。建議你多和知心好友聊聊，吐吐苦水罵一罵。相信我，你的動力和活力將會更多，所以不管是什麼事，盡量不要太過拚命喔！
第三個階段是生日在10月12日到10月22日之間
個人主宰星是天王星，你常太過於委屈自己，而忽略了自己的想法，所以每隔一陣子你就會覺得很受傷，但是卻又讓這種狀況繼續下去。你要學習拒絕的能力，並且了解到人和人之間的相處，光靠你單方面的忍耐是沒有用的，只會讓對方更吃定你而已。
天蠍座的三個階段
第一個階段是生日在10月23日到10月31日之間
主宰行星跟個人行星都是火星，也就是有雙重行動力的意思。因為火星就是掌管戰鬥或行動力，因此這背後所代表的負面意思就是，你會非常的專制和主觀。說好聽一點，做事會很獨立、很有果決力，但說不好聽有點獨斷獨行。有時主觀性太強硬，會聽不進別人所說的話。事業方面很有成就，在感情方面則要抱持柔軟的態度，個性不要太強硬會比較好。
第二個階段是生日在11月1日到11月11日之間
這段期間主宰的行星分別是木星和海王星。海王星通常掌管一種比較深處的靈性，但是木星則掌管一種幸福。一個代表物質、一個代表精神，因此你的個性非常善變，常常會跟內心有不同的對話。如果你當醫生的話比較擅長的就是精神科醫生，如果是建築事業的話就是建築設計，也就是說你擅長分析和解析，這是你在這方面專有的特質。
第三個階段是生日在11月12日到11月21日之間
個人行星是月亮，月亮代表了喜好幻想、夢想以及母性的愛。因此你是一個比較柔軟性的天蠍座，天蠍座本來就滿喜歡照顧他人，尤其對喜歡的人。對於愛人的照顧真的是無微不至，會讓另一半覺得很溫暖、很窩心。但是如果遇到不好的伴侶，他可能就會嫌你嘮叨了。
射手座的三個階段
第一個階段是生日在11月22日到11月30日之間
主宰星跟個人行星是木星，因此你是特別具有正義感、同情心的射手座。對愛人非常忠誠，而且非常誠實，你在工作上也是這樣子，因此會受到老闆的賞識。朋友都認為你是一個值得信賴的人，而對於人際相處有著強烈的好奇心，對朋友真誠關心，這些都是很好的優點，要好好運用，可以讓你的人生更加成功。只是你有時候對於事物的專注力沒辦法持久，這是需要改進的地方。
第二階段是生日在12月1日到12月11日之間
這個階段的個人行星是火星，所以這一階段出生的射手座帶著積極、冒險、野心勃勃的特質。你喜好變化，但在一開始你雖然會感到快樂，後來就又會覺得空虛。就算賺大錢，內心也會感到寂寞，因此充實心靈相當重要。這一個階段出生的人跟國外的來往會特別有緣分，熟練外語，拓展你的國際觀，對你來講是很重要的。但是你比較缺乏行政才能，因此你要找尋能協助你的助手，才能讓事業更上一層樓。
第三階段是生日在12月12日到12月21日之間
你的個人行星是太陽，因此特別重視自己尊嚴、重視自尊，也是最好面子的射手座。平常別人可以開開你的玩笑，但是被惹毛，你就會反唇相稽。你很喜歡鬥嘴，怎麼講都是你對，即使別人覺得你是在講歪理，但是你自有自己的一套邏輯。你相當崇尚自由，就算可以為自己喜歡的事業、為自己喜歡的愛人忍耐或努力，但是一旦他們干涉你的自由，妨礙你的事情，你就無法容忍。你是具有責任感的人，非常有耐心，對於工作態度也很認真，是一個具有領導能力，也具有野心特質的射手座。
魔羯座的三個階段
第一個階段是生日在12月22日到12月31日之間
這個階段的個人行星是土星，這個階段的人是最難交到朋友的魔羯座喔！魔羯座的你如果有朋友的話，請好好珍惜對方，將他視為你一生忠誠的朋友。對魔羯座來講土星就是象徵恆久的世界，也象徵一種穩定性，因此這個階段的魔羯座比一般階段出生的魔羯座更加穩定和早熟。從小到大，大家都認為你有點小奇怪，不過你對自己的抱負和未來要做的事情倒是非常的明確。而這一階段的魔羯座對機械方面和數理方面都有特殊的才能，但是不管如何你一定都會想盡辦法把大目標切割成中目標，再切割成每日的小目標去實踐，是一個最有恆心毅力的魔羯星座。
第二個階段是生日在1月1日到1月10日之間
個人的行星就是金星，你就是魔羯座中人情比較溫暖、生活比較充滿歡笑、個性比較可愛的一個了，因此你比較不像其他的魔羯座那麼現實，偶爾也會講求一下藝術，欣賞音樂。金星主宰感情，因此你是最有人情味的魔羯座。就算有時候你也很想板起面孔，很現實地和朋友計較一些事情，不過最後還是會被感情影響。也許你會認為這是你的一大缺點，但是這一點其實增加了你個性的柔軟面，倒是一個滿好的優點喔！
第三個階段是生日在1月11日到1月19日之間
個人行星是水星，屬於腦筋比較清醒的魔羯座。因為水星控制腦部還有主管人類的神經系統，也主宰了表達能力，因此你是所有魔羯座裡面表達能力最強的，並且也是比較懂得變通，並不是那麼死硬的。你和其他魔羯座不同的是你具有強烈的正義感，一般而言魔羯座都比較顧自己的事情，但是你卻有莫名的責任心，這一點和射手座有點相近。你最特殊的地方就是學習能力，因為水星也主管外語能力。如果你有興趣朝國外發展的話，對於外語能力的掌握，以及國外發展的運氣將會比別人更好。因此你不妨多充實一下這方向的才能，多下一點功夫，相信可以使你在你的專業領域上面發揮更大的才能。
水瓶座的三個階段
第一個階段是生日在1月21日到1月31日之間
這個階段的主宰行星是天王星，代表的是一種精神上的強烈力量，所以加上你水瓶座的特質，這個階段出生的你將會特別具有一種靈性的氣質。而且不管是在宗教或是神祕學方面你都特別具有領悟力。若是要當算命仙，嘿嘿！你可是相當合適。不管你的志向是什麼，這個階段的人都一定會用一種特殊的方式去完成。好比也許大家都一窩蜂去英美讀書，你就會特別想去希臘或羅馬，大家都念法律或政治，你就會想唸些特別的科目。善加利用你的靈性特質，你天生具有洞察別人內心的本領喔！
第二個階段是生日在2月1日到2月9日之間
這個階段的主宰行星是水星，主要控制我們的神經系統。也因此你的感覺或觸覺、嗅覺都會比一般人更加敏銳。你具有非常棒的觀察力以及很好的口才，如果加上你獨特的思考方式，一定常有很多人被你唬得一愣一愣的吧！舉凡所有和知識有關的工作都非常適合你。你不但會快速吸收，而且還會「舉一反八」呢！但是你的耐心稍微缺少了一些，請多多留意。
第三個階段是生日在2月10日到2月18日之間
你的主宰星是金星，你的直覺力和第六感簡直太神奇了，但是你若沒有好好加以運用，它反而會成為你的阻力。你和一般人有不同的觀點，這樣並不是不好，但是若完全不聽別人的意見，還認為他們都很膚淺，那就很容易因此嚐到挫敗的滋味。「人生有夢」這句話的重點在於築夢踏實。多多平衡夢想和現實，是你人生中最重要的課題。
雙魚座的三個階段
第一個階段是生日在2月19日到2月29日之間
這段期間的主宰星是海王星，屬於精神層面，主宰藝術方面的才能。因此你的藝術才能是所有雙魚座裡面最突出的，但是你的雙重人格也最明顯。你的思想非常新潮，但是有時候卻不敢提出自己的意見，這方面你要加強。你的藝術天分再加上你的獨特思考法，若好好在職場上應用，一定可以創造屬於你的光明前程。因此你選擇的行業一定要是可以接受新觀念的，並且可以讓你的才能有所發揮，太保守的公司或是會打壓你的老闆都不適合你喔
第二個階段是生日在3月1日到3月10日之間
你的行星是月亮，月亮主宰晚上，也主宰了愛家庭的人。這一階段的雙魚座最愛家，你有時候會心情不好，而且喜歡幻想，不過對於家庭會有實質的付出。這個階段的雙魚座，特別容易受到外界、情境的影響，因此當你心情好時，你會覺得人生充滿希望，會想幫助別人，再加上強烈、豐富的感受性，很容易就可以知道別人為何心情不好！但是意志薄弱的時候，你甚至會有小小的自殺傾向，因此最好要善用這個敏感的能量，在宗教界或是服務業就可以走出屬於你自己的一條路。
第三個階段是生日在3月11日到3月20日之間
個人的行星是火星，火星代表了戰鬥力跟行動力，所以你是雙魚座裡面最有行動力的，真是恭喜你了！而且你做事情喜歡速戰速決，算是滿積極敏感的，只不過有一點點虎頭蛇尾喔！你不太適合當老闆，獨立創造事業，因為你很容易將責任攬在自己身上，因此給別人雇用反而是比較好的方式。在這一段期間出生的雙魚座，藝術天分和敏感度皆滿高的，但是我是建議你，還是多多運用你旺盛的活動力，另外再加強你的人際關係，將會使你的人生走得更加順利。
CAPRICORN - The Go-Getter (Dec 22 - Jan 19)
Patient and wise. Practical and rigid.. Ambitious. Tends to be Good-looking. Humorous and funny. Can be a bit shy and reserved. Often pessimistic. Capricorns tend to act before they think and can be Unfriendly at times. Hold grudges. Like competition. Get what they want.
AQUARIUS - The Sweetheart (Jan 20 - Feb 18)
Optimistic and honest. Sweet personality. Very independent. Inventive and intelligent. Friendly and loyal. Can seem unemotional.. Can be a bit rebellious. Very stubborn, but original and unique. Attractive on the inside and out. Eccentric personality.
PISCES - The Dreamer (Feb 19 - Mar 20)
Generous, kind, and thoughtful. Very creative and imaginative.May become secretive and vague. Sensitive. Don't like details. Dreamy and unrealistic. Sympathetic and loving. Kind. Unselfish. Good kisser. Beautiful.
ARIES - The Daredevil (Mar 21 - April 19)
Energetic. Adventurous and spontaneous. Confident and enthusiastic. Fun. Loves a challenge. EXTREMELY impatient. Sometimes selfish. Short fuse. (Easily angered.) Lively, passionate, and sharp wit. Outgoing. Lose interest quickly -> easily bored. Egotistical. Courageous and assertive. Tends to be physical and athletic.
TAURUS - The Enduring One (April 20 - May 20)
Charming but aggressive. Can come off as boring, but they are not. Hard workers. Warm-hearted. Strong, has endurance. Solid beings that are stable and secure in their ways. Not looking for shortcuts. Take pride in their beauty.. Patient and reliable. Make great friends and give good advice. Loving and kind. Loves hard - passionate. Express themselves emotionally. Prone to ferocious temper-tantrums. Determined. Indulge themselves often. Very generous.
GEMINI - The Chatterbox (May 21 - June 20)
Smart and witty. Outgoing, very chatty. Lively, energetic. Adaptable but needs to express themselves. Argumentative and outspoken. Like change. Versatile. Busy, sometimes nervous and tense. Gossips. May seem superficial or inconsistent. Beautiful physically and mentally.
CANCER - The Protector (June 21 - July 22)
Moody, emotional. May be shy. Very loving and caring. Pretty/handsome. Excellent partners for life. Protective. Inventive and imaginative. Cautious. Touchy-feely kind of person. Needs love from others. Easily hurt, but sympathetic.
LEO - The Boss (July 23 - Aug 22)
Very organized. Need order in their lives - like being in control. Like boundaries. Tend to take over everything. Bossy. Like to help Others. Social and outgoing. Extroverted. Generous, warm-hearted. Sensitive. Creative energy. Full of themselves. Loving. Doing the right thing is important to Leos. Attractive.
VIRGO - The Perfectionist (Aug 23 - Sept 22)
Dominant in relationships. Conservative. Always wants the last word. Argumentative. Worries. Very smart. Dislikes noise and chaos. Eager. Hardworking. Loyal. Beautiful. Easy to talk to.Hard to please. Harsh. Practical and very fussy. Often shy. Pessimistic.
LIBRA - The Harmonizer (Sept 23 - Oct 22)
Nice to everyone they meet. Can't make up their mind. Have own unique appeal. Creative, energetic, and very social. Hates to be alone. Peaceful, generous. Very loving and beautiful. Flirtatious. Give in too easily. Procrastinators. Very gullible.
SCORPIO - The Intense One (Oct 23 - Nov 21)
Very energetic. Intelligent. Can be jealous and/or possessive. Hardworking. Great kisser. Can become obsessive or secretive. Holds grudges. Attractive. Determined . Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Romantic. Can be self-centered at times. Passionate and Emotional.
SAGITTARIUS - The Happy-Go-Lucky One (Nov 22 - Dec 21)
Good-natured optimist. Doesn't want to grow up (Peter Pan Syndrome). Indulges self. Boastful. Likes luxuries and gambling. Social and outgoing. Doesn't like responsibilities. Often fantasizes. Impatient. Fun to be around. Having lots of friends. Flirtatious. Doesn't like rules. Sometimes hypocritical. Dislikes being confined -> tight spaces or even tight clothes. Doesn't like being doubted. Beautiful inside and out.
